Guess I know what to sweat.  The peer pressure of my younger years is gone.  The negativity you speak of has no value to me.  Yes there are things that rub me the wrong way.  But I know what I can do about them and what I cant.  

First off, why are we here?   To have fun. Right?  Then lets have fun.  I look for ladies that are fun.  I love to laugh and I love to have insightfull conversations.  I enjoy what is going on above the neck as much or even more than what is going on under.  You capture my mind the rest of me follows.  

And when I am here I enjoy other mens veiwpoints and insights.  I might not agree but I like the thought that is laid out.  Gives me something to think about.