ask her for references. eom
Hello all,
Came across an ****.com ad (not verified, BTW) that peaked my interest. I tried to download the photos to see whether they appear elsewhere on the 'net, but right click does nothing for me. Anyway, sent off an email saying I would be in her town. She writes back that it will be a while before she is in that town--she's five hours away now. Two days later, surprise!, she's going to be in town. Well, she wants **** id / this site's id / ***** id ; full name ; age ; race ; cell phone number ; three references from providers (which, I could supply, but I'm getting back into seeing providers occasionally after a 24-month hiatus. In return, she has: 1) no website, 2) no **** account, 3) no presence on this site, 4) no ***** presence. She has offered to send me a picture of her holding a post card containing whatever words I want....Odd. She has not told me where her company is priced, either. There will always be tension between what the lady feels she needs to feel safe and the guys desire for anonymity. Each lady is entitled to set her screening requirements and each of us guys can either comply or move on based on what we're comfortable providing. I've been around. This whole scene seems odd. I think I will pass, unless one of you lovely ladies can provide me with a scenario where this ****.com ad is not a fake (or Johnny Law). How do UTR providers spread the word that they are reputable?in that she advertises, but does so minimally.
A true UTR gal is someone whom a friend (often a provider friend of theirs) knows, and asks if you might be interested in meeting them, often for a 3-some. I've met a few gals this way over the years, and things always worked out very well.
Another avenue is a massage gal with whom you get to know very well, and take things a step further.
I would pass on the situation you are describing above. You might as well find someone with reviews, etc.
Stop thinking with the little head?
the answer is always no.
"There will always be tension between what the lady feels she needs to feel safe and the guys desire for anonymity. Each lady is entitled to set her screening requirements and each of us guys can either comply or move on based on what we're comfortable providing".
Very wise words! V~find any web presence for this provider which is like shooting blindfolded. Not my idea of a way to spend my money.
My deposit to book sounds great compared to your BIG ? question mark. lol Smile 4 me!
I would totally pass just because she is not reputable, and why waste your time? UTR providers either have a reputable friend who is a provider, or can still be verified some where for you to know she is legit. Happy hunting! Thank God for TER.