I will be 45 soon & am wondering am I still considered young? Puma, Cougar, idk what I am at this time in my life. I am raising young children, so I know I am considered a MILF. Any help is greatly appreciated. I am attempting to gain some solid insight as I rebrand myself. I know I am considered old because I have been on this board for a long time. I am training for a half marathon, so I definitely do not feel that old. Lol. Smile for me! Xoxo

For some guys 45 is old. For others it's at the low end of women they want to see. So, sorry, but there's no right answer. Just market yourself honestly and let the clientele figure it out.

but I prefer young women with mature attitudes, and mature women who are young at heart.

... unless you are a cheese!
— Billie Burke

sexagenarian…interesting I learned something. Thanks!

Obviously, you're much younger than the target demographic for this board, but you're not young.
Old by TER standards? Maybe. Certainly based on recent review statistics, you're in the oldest 10 percentile. Old based on board participation? No, you're about average. A MILF? I just dislike the use of that acronym. Maybe if you catch your kid's male friends leering at you, it would be an appropriate title.
Rebrand? What's your goal, to attract younger clients or to move to an older set looking more for companionship?
Good luck on the half marathon training.

QueenBia - you look amazing!!  And 45 is definitely NOT old.  Reach out any time you're in Chicago!

Age is undefeated... and eventually will give everyone the beat down.  But putting that aside, I think the answer to your question will be highly variable depending on who you ask. Personally, I'd rather have a beautiful, fit, classy, interesting 45 year old... than an unnattractive, shallow, narcissistic 22 year old.  The perception of what is old is very fluid.  When I was in my late teens, a woman in my neighborhood used to flirt with me. I was never tempted because she looked ancient to me. But looking, back, she was probably only 35 or so. Now I think a 35 year old is a young woman.  

.....roughly around 10+ years younger than the person trying to define young.  

I’m in no way attempting to attract younger clients. I’m happy where I am entertaining my age & older. I’m always honest about my age. I realize it’s do look younger, than my actual age because not everyone ages well. I do not mind catering to people younger. I notice the majority of my friends are older, than me. I prefer mature gentleman because I enjoy the knowledge they share & experience.  

Hi Queen
First, I went to your sites and you look fantastic! Wish I could afford you (it's all relative, right?) but I did not see any 1-2 hour service. I am 64 and healthy and recently had some of the best sex in TJ with a provider who was 53 and knew how to turn me on based on her experience. Her performance was amazing and had me messaging her on my way back to San Diego airport. I would just say that sensuality counts big time, as well as "into it" performance as opposed through "going through the motions." I'm sure you are the former not the latter.  

As long as you are still breathing your not OLD. If you can get it up ... your even younger
and if you can get up it and still erupt, your as young as you feel so have fun. The only problem I see  
is when the provider is a lot younger than your kids. lol..

... and there is no problem in sight when a provider is a lot younger than that.  
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lol..

As a hobbyist, I care about sexiness not age, and you are plenty sexy!! I have seen many MILFs, and every now and then I see one who carries a few extra pounds from the rear view, and thought, “hhmmm, that’s not the sexiest view!” My solution? Stay focused on the front side! If you’re sexy, who gives a damn about age! This coming from an old guy, of course!

There is a large cadre of us who fall in the Boomer category who now see age differently. For me, as I posted a few months ago, there is a "creepy old guy" feeling entering in regarding younger women that I didn't have before. This has made me uncomfortable, so I am looking to companions in their mid-40s and up.  So, as for labels, you may be a "couger" or "MILF" to those who are younger, but to guys like me you are very much a "sweet young thing."  

Absolutely. Thank you, kindly. I hit the like button on your post. Happy Friday!

I know a lot of guys want girls in their 20's, which is fine. I have seen some girls in that age bracket and have had fun with them, but my preference is 35+ maybe because we can relate to each other better.

Let's start with the obvious and the reason why you posted this question. Based on your website pictures, you look great. And given the number and quality of your reviews on here, you also know you look great.

I stay thirsty because hydration is happiness. Sorry, but I am unable to change my twitter handle. Long ago I was a strict domina, but after years of life I changed. People change. No need to get a new twitter handle. If you read my fantasy reviews & posts on social media they are not that of a lifestyle BDSM provider. I am a romantic who loves to be spoiled & I reciprocate. Thanks for sharing. After reading your reply I am a MILF/Cougar because I do care for younger children. I never heard that definition before. I see women who post MILF who are GILF, so it's really up to the provider.  
Thanks TER friends!

I believe milf gilf cougar etc refer to women who are older than the man -- generally. A man older than the woman is the general nature of things so doesn't have a special term.

29 & younger

I myself would rather have a cougar with hunting skills, rather than a Cub with none.

It's not the age that makes you feel young. It's all in your mind & Heart.

darlings,