I'm close to being a charter member of the TER community, now 20+ years, and in what I would consider the senior-aged category. I sometimes find it uncomfortable looking over the younger providers. It's not cognitive, but more instinctive feeling that there's a point at which one has begun to cross over too many decades or perhaps generations. So I'm now more drawn to women who are 40 or 50+. I'd be interested in knowing if any others in this 60 and Over forum have similar feelings.

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Yes same here! Older Ladies are better I think?

and I have known most for 10 to 30 years.  

 
However, I’ve met a few younger gals lately owing to the sad fact that I’ve lost 4 ATFs in just the last year.  

 
I’m very happy to report that I’m very pleased with them, though on the down side they are so pricey, I can’t spend the time to get to know them better away from the bedroom, but my limited experiences tell me that it would be worthwhile.

my p411 OKs and found only one provider under 35 (33), a couple others 35-40, and the rest are over 40 with several 50+. I clearly favor over 30, and more so over 40.  Part of it is I think I connect better with more mature women (although I know some very “mature” 20-somethings), and I’ve had better experiences over the years with providers over 30, including my long-time ATF who was 36 when I met her over 10 years ago.

 
Another factor I think is I that have a 27-year-old daughter,  which gets into the “creepy” area you mentioned.  

Exactly.

I'm old, but I have zero interest in any woman remotely in my age and weight group. I still like gals under 40. I guess I am just an old pig. Takes all kinds, I guess.

Unless she strikes me as possibly underage/jailbait, I have no distaste for young women, no twinges of creepyness.  And the young girls have given me no signs of distaste for my advanced age, either, though perhaps that is simply due to their professionalism.  
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Now, the kind of air-headed silliness sometimes associated with youth does put me off, but that can be seen in older girls as well.  I do feel creepy fucking a blank airhead, and don't repeat.  
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I have also very much enjoyed women as "old" as 50+.  So I don't find my options much limited by age, and that's good -- I can filter a larger pool of applicants by my other criteria.

Well I have been only mongering for about four years since I turned 60, and at first it was 30-50+ for me too.  

Lately, however, I have started craving 20 -25, for the smoothness of the bodies. When I was younger I always craved MILFS, and when I get an older escort that is whore like, it blows my mind. They are more experienced too. I guess I started getting turned off by too many wrinkles and sags (like we don't have them LOL) but it really is case by case. Some 20 somethings will walk into the room and it's like, "I know I am not going to pop" while some older escorrts come in and I am literally on my knees ass worshiping within a few minutes.  Lately I am just into seeing firm round rears, which usually young chicas have.

Everyone's assuming they actually KNOW how old the lady they're fucking is. In fact, all you know is how old she SAYS she is. And what percentage of hookers are telling the truth? I'll make a wild guess and say half of them are. In fact, I have no idea.
And neither do any of you.
Party on!

I agree I prefer older people as well it’s a personal preference.  I have no reason to lie. I love the truth! I am 44 years young. Smile for me! Xoxo

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many providers on p411 have “actual age” in their profiles. I suppose that could be a lie too, but in the cases where I learned the real age of providers with “actual age” posted, they matched.  

 
And then there’s providers like one I know who claims late 40s, and looks it, but is actually early 60s.

For those of you who still like the 20-35 year old crowd.  Costa Rica is the place to be

Get your butt down to Jaco and head for the Cocal Resort and Casino. It's a Latina pussy buffet.

I love older providers who are in good shape and book them first if available. There are younger ones who have good personalities and make great dates for 65 YO guys like me. End of the day reviews tell you more than age brackets .  

I definitely prefer providers over 40. Ongoing relationships and connection make for the best times for me and I find it much easier to have that with ladies in their 40's and 50's.  
Plus, knowing what your doing helps a lot!

If I'm paying for her company--and with inflation, god knows we are REALLY paying for it these days--I want the best I can get. Smooth skin, pert breasts, a beautiful face, and a high sex drive... and I typically get this with a 20's and 30's woman. There is one amazing exception I know, a woman who is almost my age and looks like she's 40. And she is a gem.  

No, I won't have a lot in common with a woman 30-40 years younger than I am, and yes, if we were on an actual date, that would be creepy for sure, but this is a transaction and both partied know it.  

That said, if I were planning on spending a long weekend with a woman, I'd likely go for the 40-50 age range. If a woman takes care of themselves, they can still be stunning at this age, but also interesting to talk to, and share more in common with a guy my age.  

But for pure pay and screw, I'll take 20's and 30's all day long. Face it, one day- probably sooner that we would like to admit- these experiences will all be just memories we share with like-minded guy friends and the senior center.

Fair Point!

He knows everything. That’s why he has so many friends here.

When I first started hobbying (in my early thirties), I would mostly see women my own age. College girls or girls of the same age were too often flaky, NCNS on appointments or dinner dates, or just too self-absorbed and boring to be good conversationalists or good in bed. I saw a few significantly older women and had better experiences, but the sweet spot was ladies about my own age through my early forties.  

 
Over time, I learned that -- in this context too -- age is just a number. Some women can be emotionally mature at 18 and others can be narcissistic flakes at 45. I started doing my own screening to see if they could keep up a conversation on e-mail and be a fun dinner date while they were making sure that I was unlikely to be a cop. This is harder to do with agency gals, but I have been very successful in getting real-name contact information after a first date whether or not they wanted to become independent or felt like sticking to the agency for the bedroom time. Now I see potential sugar babies from among about-to-retire-or-go-UTR ladies or agency gals who want to become more selective independents or sugar babies. The about-to-go-UTR-or-pure-SB gals tend to be in their mid- to late-thirties. The agency gals I am into seem to be mid-20s to mid-30s. They got into this floating world knowing that they would be bedding men older than themselves and are okay or pleased with it if they have stayed with this line of earning income.  

 
I don't feel like a creepy old guy if the ladies are emotionally mature and stable. I do feel like a creepy old guy if they have the emotional maturity of a fifteen year old regardless of their real age, and I don't care to repeat if I end up seeing one of them. There aren't many escorts my age now (early sixties) and I don't feel attracted to most of them because they are doing this because they can't get by otherwise at their preferred standard of living (which often seems to involve a lot of alcohol). Horny neighbors or divorcees around my age who have diverged from their husbands or ex-husbands in sexual desire are a better option for seeing women at about my own age.

I have tended to somewhat maintain a 20 year rule.  When I was up into my 40s I had no issue seeing ladies in their 20s.  Once I got into 50s I started leaning more toward 30 and up.  Now that I'm in my 60s, it's still 30 and up with a preference for 40 and up.  Will I still see someone in their 20s?  Yeah, I will sometimes if the reviews justify it.  I think on average the session goes better if I stick with the 20 year rule, though not always.  I do get that instinctive feeling of wrong if the lady is too close to my daughter's ages.  Most likely many women have a similar feeling if the guy is much older.  

Right now I have an arrangement with a lady that is exactly one week older than I am and it's great.  Kind of a cross between girlfriend and sugar baby I guess except the amount of financial help I give her is minimal compared to how much we see each other.  She still has a really good sex drive and never even needs any lube when with me.  We are not 100% exclusive, but close.  If my own life situation was different, she would be more willing to be exclusive and move in with me.  But that is not where my life is at.  So I need to respect that she does not want to give up on looking for other options.  She never worked as a provider but I met her though a provider friend of her's where the provider recruited her to do a three way with me.  That provider retired so I came along and met her at the perfect time.  

Many mature gentlemen have shared with me that they enjoyed meeting older providers. I think a lot does depend on what you are looking for. A mature provider may not be as physically perfect as her younger counterpart but she may have more to offer outside of just looks. Often gentlemen may find a deeper overall connection with a mature provider.  
If one is motivated by solely physical interaction then this may not matter to them.   I recall a past client who was in his eighties who repeated with me for years. We had a lovely relationship and our visits were one of the highlights of his world. I felt so incredibly honored that he chose me for this special treat he gave himself.  

As far as what the providers like, they are typically professionals and you won’t know. Years ago I was friends with an agency owner in Montreal who hired girls primarily 18-23.  They would hang out and gossip in between their calls. Most of them didn’t enjoy the majority of their sessions, and didn’t like being with men older than their fathers, or even their grandfathers. Others were grateful as the older gents were “less work”.   These girls were seeing 4-5+ clients on a busy night so they would get worn out.  If you read their reviews, almost all said that they “loved it”, “couldn’t get enough”…

I’m sure each provider is different and these agency girls had a different perspective than independents do by far.  I offer this example just to point out that every experience will be somewhat unique and each individual has their own tastes and motivations for their choices.

If they are under 23 then I feel like I don't want to be the one introducing them to a lifestyle they might regret in the future.  Although I have seen sugar babes as young as 18 in the past.  But now I kind of stick to 23 and up.  By that age they should know what they're getting into. I don't have an upper age limit and have seen some in their 50's according to them.  I haven't found a reason to set an upper age limit yet.

First of all, the reality is “to each their own” as long as everyone is a consenting adult. Some girls who are young enjoy being with the older guys for various reasons, but usually because we treat them better. I prefer my handlers to be 30-40 age. That’s just me. They are still very young in my book, but they’ve also experienced life for a while and we have more to talk about. I draw the line with girls my kids age (late twenties) or younger. Occasionally I’ll go for the older gals, but it depends on my mood!  
Great discussion!

Does the creepy label apply to older gals who prefer legal teens?

 
There is some literature on this (Summer of ‘42, e.g.), and for the most part the verdict is negative.  

Personally, I’m not judging, but if there is a double standard, why?

 
Maybe young gals are seen as more vulnerable than their male counterparts.

I think the double standard is based on a certain reality, that young guys would enjoy sex with an older guiding woman. Especially if sex isn't otherwise available to them. Also despite wokeness, makes can't get pregnant. The whole virgin thing has different costs for men and women -- just as a function of nature.

I can only say that as I’ve gotten older my taste for attractive women has aged as well. I think a truly sexy woman over 55 is down right irresistible.