There are numerous wonderful ladies who give great service, comletely holding up their side of the bargain.  All of us were Newbies once & here on the Newbie board guys will more gently steer you to well reviewed ladies.  You should use all the tools available to research a lady, so that before you meet, you know what she looks like (for real), what is on her menu, etc.  
Guys who have been scammed...  and there are very many scams out there...  are big believers in TER VIP.
H