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I'm new... I have one review and a P411 plus 1 (one OK).  I've sent one email to one provider in my area with no reply and an P411 request and a follow up email with my single reference to another provider and no reply after two days.

I'm trying to see a provider with many great reviews and who seemed to be an independent and shows basic plus 1 on P411.  I think however, she is with an agency now.  I tried to book a girl with this agency using their web form but only put my first name and got a rejection email stating I had to give more info.  This may have black listed me with this agency.

I'm interested in independents to boost my referrals so I don't have to give out so much info when contacting an agency.

What is a new guy supposed to do?

Just keep trying. According to your review, you are in DC. If that is the case, there are tons of good providers in the area. There should be no shortage of well reviewed newbie friendly ladies to choose from (indie and agency) You could try sending a follow up email to the ladies you already contacted, since you didn't hear anything back in two days. (There is a chance they didn't get them or they went to spam, or they were just busy, etc) If you don't get anything back from the follow up email, give up (or give up now already before sending the follow up) Do your research. find some others you are interested in and try again. Once you get a plus 2 or plus 3 on p411, it should get much easier, but you still should be able to find ladies who will see you now. good luck!

prepkid190 reads

I am sure you are aware of this, but since you posted on the newbie board... Some ladies are clear with the rules of contact, some are much vague. Try a different method if there is one. And apparently some ads are fake as well..

swimtrekr164 reads

Since you have a P411 OK, you should know many providers on that site indicate if they are newbie friendly.  Look for them.  Having an OK from one provider will def help you there.  If you haven't read the self help center on here, please do so.

Swim

Thanks for the replies.

The newbie friendly choices on P411 are not my cup of tea. Like most of us I assume, I'm descriminating in my choice of partner.  I'm partial to Asian ladies in particular and there are very few choices that are newbie friendly. The Asians in the area all seem to be agency girls.

I'm also following the recommendations of many here to be very reluctant to give my real name or work info which is why I have focused on independants.

Thanks Heather for your answers.  For some reason I trusted Megan entirely to keep my info confidential and I enjoyed her company very much.  She is quite a lady and I look forward to returning to see her.  

I've not used back page to research appointments because I figured that is what TER is for and have read many posts stating the next step for someone of my limited experience is to stick with well reviewed providers here and some have adamantly stated that they never give private info in order to segregate their personal lives from their hobby life.  I also counted on P411 screening to provide some level of reassurance to providers that I am indeed a safe date.

Like many men here I have a lot to loose should my hobby become known.

May I PM you for a bit more chat?

choose providers that do not screen.
Backpage has plenty of ads and most don't screen.
The more comfy you make the girl feel will reflect on your session.
Why he so reluctant to provide the info needed to a well reviewed AND well known/established Provider?
When this occurs with me...I immediately think "what this shady fool up to" "probably not wanting to give up info cuz he's blacklisted and/or has not-so-good-intentions...or will ncns blablabla"
See...the game has changed and I spend the majority of time screening out the bad guys ex: violent, weirdos, etc
LE isn't the problem..actually, I'd be lucky if they showed up instead of some whack job an there are PLENTY in DC....if you guys only knew what us girls are up against...wow!

Megan screens well....she's a great reference and girls from tho area know that.
Try local girls and they may know that a reference fro Megan is dang good. Touring Providers might not be aware of her diligence I'm screening and trustworthiness...local girls will.
Make sure your TER handle is listed on your p411 profile.

MSHSEX215 reads

Try to find a paid escort that caters to new clients like yourself. Look at yourself honestly and see if you give off any signals that scare of paid escorts and agencies. Some clients just don't realize how suspicious they look to others. Good luck!

Posted By: superuser102
I'm new... I have one review and a P411 plus 1 (one OK).  I've sent one email to one provider in my area with no reply and an P411 request and a follow up email with my single reference to another provider and no reply after two days.

I'm trying to see a provider with many great reviews and who seemed to be an independent and shows basic plus 1 on P411.  I think however, she is with an agency now.  I tried to book a girl with this agency using their web form but only put my first name and got a rejection email stating I had to give more info.  This may have black listed me with this agency.

I'm interested in independents to boost my referrals so I don't have to give out so much info when contacting an agency.

What is a new guy supposed to do?

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