is that the gentleman be dressed in a manner as if he is meeting me for a Date. which is what he is doing.    I love the act of undressing him after we get comfortable with each other.   Coming into a hotel room, and finding someone in a towel feels awkward and a bit off balance.  

If you continue to do it like you have been, you will be "normal" and very well received.  

Personally, a man in a suit is super,  super hot.....  and I love loosening a tie.....