not working I wear jeans - whatever, anything but a suit and tie.  Rarely have I ever been very dressed up when meeting a provider and I have NEVER had anyone say anything to me about the way I was dressed.

As long as you and your cloths are clean and the envelope appropriately attired (on the inside), your golden.

with a sport shirt, a nice belt.  Tie off after work.   On the other hand, nice slacks but less than auit could work for casual Fridays.

as long as they are in good shape and clean.

It seems to be sneakers that drive some gals crazy.

Of course, you have to take into account the gal you are seeing and whether you are going out anywhere afterwards.

I think if she were the $1000+ type with a room at the Four Seasons, I'd dress up a bit more spiffy than with the $200/hr gal who is at the Best Western.

Both can be great, but different situations sometimes call for different dress.

No....

As long as your jeans are nice and clean why would jeans be an issue?The only time I can see jeans being a problem is if you were going to a dinner date or show that requires more of a business casual attire.
IMO,jeans with a nice dress shirt and shoes is just fine for an incall or outcall.
I am not the fashion police so I could care less if he has jeans or tennis shoes on as long as he is clean after all the jeans won't be on for very long!lol

I have worn something akin to what you describe often. It has never been an issue. There was a thread a while back and most said wear casual slacks or dress pants but jeans are fine. As the others stated unless your going somewhere more formal wear the jeans.

When it's hot, I wear shorts.  When it's not, I wear jeans.  The only exceptions are weddings and funerals.  If I know that the provider and I are going to an upscale restaurant to eat, I would wear dress slacks.  Otherwise it's jeans or shorts.

Shoes?  Hot weather it's flipflops, cold weather it's sneakers.  So far, no complaints from the ladies.

Swim

They're not cut-off above the knee, and the whites of the pockets aren't visible.

You should be fine. We understand the need for discretion and the importance of blending in. Sometimes jeans are the best attire for that cause.

And I agree with what one poster said, we'll be naked soon anyway!