I am about to go see my first provider. I would like some input on certain situations I have. I have certain allergies. I get some discoloration on the head of my member, skin gets slightly red in spots from time to time. I have had my doctor look at it and he said it is nothing, just gave me some hydrocortisone cream for it which decreases its appearance. It is not a disease or anything just something that flares up from time to time nothing contagious and I cant control when it appears. It is acting up slightly right now and I really want to see this provider next week. I just want to know what to do. I don't want her thinking I have some disease or something. Should i tell her ahead of time or when things are about to start during the appointment?
Also I have some scars on my chest from a bad car accident I was in..faceplant into a windshield at 60 mph...always wear your seat belt. I wish to leave my shirt on during the appointmant because of the scars and also I am a little overweight. Do you think she would think that is weird?
Thanks
The member prob you def need to tell her about, last thing the ladies need is surprises. As far as the body scars go, I wouldn't worry about them. Trust me, they see all kinds of stuff like that. Take your shirt off and have a good time, she does not care about your body scars.
Overweight, she is not worried about that either, just be CLEAN everywhere, and respectful and you will have a good time.
Swim
For real I think I should have told my first one that I had got folliculitis from shaving down there, but was to nervous. But she didn't seem to mind don't know if that is a good thing or not.
I have seen all kinds of things and rarely was I told ahead of time.
Hopefully you are seeing a woman who is understanding and won't make an issue out of your condition (if you are, you need to find another provider). You are probably very body concious, but you shouldn't be when you are with the lady. If she is good (I hope you are seeing someone who's reviewed here), she will make you feel like you are special, even when you are totally naked.
A lot of guys are over weight, just be reasonable in what is physically possible and try hard to not put too much weight on her. Be clean, especially if you are heavy.
You can warn her about scars... one civie GF was in a serious wreck... the plastic surgeon did wonders but half her face was numb and there were scars elsewhere. Another lady has had major surgury. Fact of life. Just a brief warning before revealing all.
As for the skin condition, Yes, I would tell her before the action gets under way. I had all sorts of needle marks & told my lady friend before the action started... did not want her to be trying to figure it out while we were getting frisky.
Hydrocortisone cream is for external use only (none in her mouth) so, either you have to wash it all off or settle for a CBJ. I had a reaction down there for a time... thankfuilly it cleared up eventually. If it is an allergy a 24 hour, non-drowsey antihistamine can help.
HV
I would agree on telling her about your skin allergies when you initially meet her I would not mention before meeting as that is a no-no for some.As far as scars or extra weight there is nothing to be ashamed about I have encountered gents that wanted to keep their shirts on no problem for me.I did ask why as I was curious weight was mentioned which was a little strange because IMO this person was not overweight.But,sometimes what we see about ourselves and what others on the outside see is different.
Just mention to her that you had an accident which resulted in scars and you are more comfortable with your shirt on.
Good luck to you!