dude, when someone in a crowd yells out "hey asshole," do you always answer "who, me?"

the op wasn't talking about guys like you.  he was talking about guys that disparage and disrespect the ladies in general on these boards.  not sure if you're on the reviewers only forum, but you can see a lot of what the op was talking about there.

wanting a good value for your money is not that same as belittling the women who perform in this hobby.

i am one of those that you talk about, always wanting a good value for my money.  but i also have seen the kind of disrespect and disdain for women that the op was talking about on these boards.

don't get so defensive, the man wasn't talking about you.