that she's not doing all that on any day you might see her, specials or not. I don't get the logic; apparently you think that a $ 50 special will create a storm of guys to her door which otherwise might not occur, and that will somehow offend your sense of importance to her day. I submit that at any time you engage a lady, you have no idea who, when or how recently she was with someone else. So if avoiding ladies offering specials gives you some sense of 'specialness' then more power to you. You may just be finding reasons to preclude saving a few bucks, but that's up to you.