I was fortunate enough to meet you last weekend. You're an absolute gentlemen and in no way should you have been treated in such a way. I'm sorry this has happened to you....:,(


Keep your head "UP"
Danielle

Well: As my irish mum would say it wouldn't be a great st paddy's day without a good fight and a few bloody noses:

reminder St Joes day is thursday: have a drink to the pollacks and italians;

and lets ALL BE CAREFUL OUT THERE; as be thankful we live in the USA as freedom isn't FREE!!!!!!

This is very good and very useful information.  I have had my opinions about this provider and her white knight for over a year.  They are even discussed on other boards. At the time, we handled it all backchannel, but true colors were certainly in full bloom.

Although I am sad that this was brought out so publicly, I think the realization of who we are dealing with far outweighs the negativity generated here.

Up, you and I have had our differences, but I totally agree with everything you, Mel and Jimmy are saying.  Thanks for being the voices of the board.  This all needed to be brought out.

...is the operative word here. This board and this hobby are not a lonely hearts club. The women here are in business, and we are their customers. Professional goes both ways, and keeping some distance is part of the equation. I don't really want to know my provider's personal life, and I'm sure they really don't care about mine.

Being professional and keeping a professional distance is the best way to avoid these uncomfortable moments.

I did notice something very peculiar on that long thread

It seems as though everything that was said to, or about this lady was either a "lie", or "someone did not comprehend" what they were replying to!
Did you people partake in a statewide, St. Patrick's day conspiracy here?  Did she not have the health and welfare of the poor guy on his death bed as her primary concern?  She said she was "nice" to him! (while demanding her cash)
You people should be ashamed, picking on someone who has never done anything to promote any ill will toward anyone!!!!!

OK class.....today's lesson on sarcasm is over!  Your papers are due next week at this time!

Yea, I unfortunately too had a run-in….

….w/the wicked witch from the hills, but was lucky, I think.  She stated sending me unsolicited schmoozing pm’s, so like a dumbshit newbie that I was, I started answering, big mistake.   She likes to contact top 10 posters when she comes into your market. On her announced tour to Orlando after the Xmas holidays about 14 she months ago I had to cancel a date scheduled w/her due to a business meeting out of town that came up. I emailed her “8 days” before the date to apologize & cancel, maybe next time she came through. Evidently I was the third in Orlando who had contacted her to cancel, with those guys canceling ahead of me. Well, did she scream bloody murder & the sky came crashing down. I received pm’s from her boyfriend, & then she blasted the entire city of Orlando on the board, the thread was taken down, then one of her nimrod Tampa minions & her boyfriend started blasting away, threatening to “OUT” us for contacting her more than 1 week ahead to cancel, ….that thread was taken down to.

This provider does seem  have a reckless vengeful pattern boys, so watch out for her,  her boyfriend & minions who have contacted & threaten to “out you” to others in the past…..lots of hot providers to chose from (that are true model material btw) out there & drama free…
Be careful out there.

So yea, what up said, word to the wise, pay attention.

Amen u & c

... at one time I thought I may enjoy this provider & she did contact me as you say when Atlanta was on her calendar.  After that thread, which I avoided since I had no dog in the hunt,(not that that ALWAYS stops me, lol) any desire of that kind is gone.

Thank-you for this thread and message.




RJ

I for one will definitely remember to post this and the other thread to remind anyone in Atlanta about this provider unprofessional behavior if she ever decides to tour Atlanta.

I got as large a taste as to who she really is as I would like to. As many providers will attest, TER members have long memories. This memory will not fade for a long, long time.

If a single hobbyist is warned away from this woman because of her words yesterday, at least some good will have come from it.

rapidly devolved into something that caused a lot of guys to stop dead in their tracks.  We've shared some good pm's and had a few laughs.  I've gotta say I had an "oh shit" momment when your personal matters that you felt were conveyed in confidence were made public.  If it's any consolation, these recent events have been a wake-up call to me (and I'm sure many others).  If we ever have an opporunity to meet in person, I'm buying the first round!

The Truth eventually comes out!

I guess like some of you who read the Boards the ladies who participate get my attention...especially when a group of you endorse them in some way.

We as hobbyists can only do so much research. TER is a wonderful resource but has its limits. I have been extremely fortunate with my choices so far.... or at least I think so. no outs,threats,etc.

Thank you guys for getting this out about this provider.

up... sorry you had this get out but it has helped a lot of us avoid a potentially bad situation.

I had my doubts earlier also...now it is crystal clear and I too can not stay far enough away.

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You know the old saying..........................

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!!!

I guess no boundaries either!

These recent threads actually scare me. I think I will stick with the one lady I have seen and trust unless she recommends someone else to me.

-*A train wreck and me late to arrive, with no popcorn to munch while watching. Damned shame.*-

But seriously, this thing is just sad all the way around. I had a wonderful experience, only to have it tarnished far after the fact, for no good reason. In my opinion at the time, it didn't merit my posting about it. It is unfortunate that such a pleasant memory was tainted by other subsequent events. Luckily for me, it was a learning experience with very little repercussion. For that, I'm thankful. It seems as if everyone else wasn't as lucky.

It is sad that folks were treated unkindly. It doesn't need to happen. To paraphrase Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along and have sex?" Keeping things professional really does contribute to keeping it fun, and doesn't interefere with it being friendly and warm. The ladies act like ladies, the gentlemen like gentlemen. We do our stuff, then keep our assorted envelopes, memories and egos correct and in the right places.

Furthermore, it is sad that what should have been dealt with quietly, even maturely, had to spill out here for all to see. It could have been a very minor derailment off on a side track, but ended up a full-fledged train wreck in the middle of Grand Central Station.

As someone else mentioned, let's at least learn from it. Both providers and hobbyists have lessons that they can walk away with if they are open to them. Traits and actions like trust, discretion, reputation, fairness, compromise and communication are all over the place, ready to be studied. May this serve as a reminder to keep us all acting as we should.

-*shakes head wistfully, before shrugging it off and going in search of that missing popcorn*-

I'm sorry ut maybe I missed it, but can you give a link to the thread or tell me who you are talking about?  Thanks.