Seems that some of the ladies will give you a reference and invite you to see them again, but they don't feel comfortable with giving a whitelist. What's the deal?
Look a white list, like a review is more of a courtesy thing..not mandatory. And some guys have been known to morph into something not so pleasant and she could be then questioned about her white list....just like the reviews.
It almost seems to me like it's a status thing in the industry. I'd rather have my regular(s) give a glowing referral to another provider than to have several whitelist .
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I will whitelist a guy if I had a good time and he is a nice guy I would recommend.
However many guys have abused the whitelist option.
I had a guy ask for a whitelist said he had a great time which I obliged.
Turn around and write a review and was not so nice.
Why on earth would I whitelist someone like this?
For this very reason because rude guys ruined it for the nice ones I will only whitelist after the second visit.
But I will always provide a reference if asked.
Also guys have whitelist from providers who they never had a session with.