Julia ... I can relate to most of what you friend likes ... except I really don't need to do the rip thing, and I am still waiting until our schedules match up.  I happen to really like the look and feel of ph on a woman but I don't understand why it is always referred to as a "fetish".   For example, most of us really like fine lingerie, but that is not a fetish. Of course there are many more examples of why I don't think it is a fetish ... but if it is I guess that is a fetish of mine  
When our schedules finally match up should I ask for the Wolfords? ... lol