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skanderbeg1467 1 Reviews 2142 reads
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I'm new to this and was wondering if the stated donation by an independent escort is the full amount that you pay--or are you expected to tip as well?  I can see how you would tip for an agency escort, but if the full amount is going to an independent should you add 15 or 20 percent?  I have enough money that I can afford an occasional escort session, but little enough that if I start adding $50 or $60 dollars onto a $250/$300 donation it starts to get out of my range.

There have ben threads on this topic before. Most will say tips are not expected but they are greatly appreciated, some opinions are they would rather have you repeat with them instead of a tip. Tips can range from any $ amount you wish to give to gifts (gift cards-jewelry-whatever) some providers even list gifts they prefer on their sites.

From a CLIENT perspective there are those who tip everytime-just sometime-if provider went above and beyond- or may tip just because they don't plan on seeing her again.

On the down side, if you run into a provider that asks (or demands) a tip up front before anything has even happened, then you definatelly made a bad decision when you arranged to spend time with her. That's probably the only thing everyone will agree on when it comes to  discussing "tips"

And have never been asked by a provider for a tip. I see Indies,  do my research,  show up on time, have excellent hygiene, behave like a gentleman. I will bring a small gift as a token of my appreciation.
And most of the time, I will write a review. So why should I tip?

but always appreciated. However an indy lady will never feel like a waitress would about tipping and hold it against you because you didn't tip. We set our rates at a comfortable price for ourselves and that's all there is to it. Should you want to show an additional sign of appreciation? Book again with her!

I also feel very touched when a gentleman brings flowers or chocolate but some ladies may not care much for that. It's a personal thing. Once a man had really listen to our conversation and picked on the fact that I wanted to buy a particular book and sent it to me the day after at my hotel. I know it's simple but it's something I will never forget.

Cleo

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I specify GFE appointments which are normally all inclusive.
I do tip FBSM providers because very often the "extras" are not included in the up front price.  (I add up to the ammount I would expect to pay a FS provider).
skb

Given that the average donation for a session is usually about 10x what would usually be considered a decent tip, I'd wager it's appreciated more. :-D  If you do that, though, bringing a little token of appreciation wouldn't hurt, particularly if your previous sessions were pretty special  (but then, why else would you be seeing her again?).

there are endless answers about it.  I see only indie girls and do not tip.  But I do bring gifts, candles and a VS gift card, which are always appreciated.

Swim

When I first started hobbying I never use to tip, because I saw providers so much, that it got a little too expensive.

I now hobby once or twice a month, so I do give tips sometimes.  If it's a provider I've seen in the past ans we get along well. There have been times, where I would simply buy them lunch, and go over to speak to them for a few mins. (note) this works great becuase I've gotten really nice discounts later on.

But as far tipping I look at how the provider treated me from our first contact on the phone, to the our final hug when I'm ready to walk out the door. If she was kind, and got the job done (made me pop) I simply reach into my pocket, and pull out a 20.00 dollar bill, and say thanks for a wonderful time.

It's always unexpected, and I always she joyfullness in the provider eyes as I walk out the door. Which means I'm setting myself up an even better session next time.

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