It's a very controversial topic in this Hobby. If you're the Lucky few that can find a Provider to give you BBFS, then enjoy it. I definitely enjoy my BBFSCIP Sessions with the Provider I'm seeing. (sorry I'm not going to reveal her info to anyone).
I have seen the posts over the years on both sides condemning those who actively participate in BBFS. Hell...I even believed that as well at one point.
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
And she said that BBFS is natural...as in the way it is intended to be.
Using condoms was never the norm...or how can you explain your being here?
And I prefer Mary Ann
I take it that you and Skipper played reach-a-round rather than make a play for Ginger/MaryAnn.
Maybe Lovie was post-menopausal however?
What is the "real" issue....most people on this planet have BBFS. Why in the hell would you (or any others here) believe that it isn't a regular event here?
Anyone can have them and we don't know each other. Didn't your mother teach you stranger danger?
P4P or civvie you had better wrap that shit UP! So many ways of not being worth it, Lol
I doubt that quite highly.
But I guess that you may be an outlier.
P4P or civvie you had better wrap that shit UP! So many ways of not being worth it, Lol
And that has nothing to do with me, and everything to do with the nature of the business.
Everyone's gonna be stupid, just don't be fuckin stupid
My OP was nothing more than wanting to know why so many here are so opposed to BBFS.
You've stated nothing thus far to explain why you are...aside from the obvious bloviations.
Getting in a car has a risk...I suspect you take similar precautions? Sure...you put your seat belt on LOL
Pretending that BBFS isn't happening here often is naive. YOU know this.
Everyone's gonna be stupid, just don't be fuckin stupid
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Do you ever think "obvious bloviations" are obvious because you'd have to be a dumbass to miss them
I guess you don't pay much attention to the repeated threads written by the ill informed.
I guess being a "dumbass" is a defense for some posters here.
I guess being a "dumbass" is a defense for some posters here.
is not getting AIDS, HIV or STD, but being a daddy? So I guess you could get vasectomy and can take care of that fear very easily?
And for the record, not everyone is having BBFS here. I am certainly not..
I will when/ if I get married and decide to have kid(s). And that will be with my legally married wife.
And I have known you a little too long through the boards to take this post of yours seriously.
But would no longer be MY biggest concern.
Getting someone pregnant would be higher up on that list....but then if I know a gal has taken her own precautions...that concern would drop to nil.
Funny thing is that over the years I have known a few folks who did get an STD...as well as some gals who had abortions...but that is out of thousands of folks that I've chatted with.
I would have a bigger concern of getting a nasty cold/flu than any STD's here.
And even those who have contracted an STD...fairly easy to fix that problem.
As always...to each their own. But I do feel that many who "slam" on these boards about those who partake in BBFS are fairly ignorant of the risks overall. Those who insist on condoms are free to do so...while those who prefer to not...are also free to do so. But it means that both players understand the risks and rules.
And for the record, not everyone is having BBFS here. I am certainly not..
I will when/ if I get married and decide to have kid(s). And that will be with my legally married wife.
And I have known you a little too long through the boards to take this post of yours seriously..
Those of us who insist on protection do so because we understand the risks, and have thought through the very real consequences.
There are plenty of opportunities to fuck around without a condom, and those come with their own risks. Why one would try to compound the potential situation that could arise from doing that here is beyond me.
Many do..and prefer BBFS.
Many don't...and wrap up.
Why condemn either method?
The funny thing is that over the years some of the poster(s) who condemn BBFS are the same folks that offer/receive BBFS. Of course all those nice folks could just be lying behind the scenes...but then why? Perhaps they're not!
As far as herpes...the numbers are public. In this little microcosm of society I expect that they would be representative as well.
There are plenty of opportunities to fuck around without a condom, and those come with their own risks. Why one would try to compound the potential situation that could arise from doing that here is beyond me.
it puts the safety of people at large at risk...
The same reason why we should condemn drunk driving.
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Anybody notice that most if not all the posters favoring bbfs use an alias to post their opinions
Pro life... Anti marriage... and I done gave all my money to the hooker whose carrying my baby. Treat her and mini-me right.
I'll be back once he is awarded that football scholarship!
... if he ends up being a she find her a talent agent.
before bringing Little JohnyPimpster into the world.
There is one more that I know of... How many do you think there are whom have not been confirmed?
Remember Udo's story. Bwaaaaahahaha!
Bbfs is awesome, it keeps the population growing and spreads diseases at a phenomenal pace!!!!
Seriously though, they don't do bbfs with me but they had to have done it with someone considering many of em have kids.
I do bbfs with my hands lol
I wondered how they have kids when they claim to not do BBFS.
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Seriously though, they don't do bbfs with me but they had to have done it with someone considering many of em have kids.
I do bbfs with my hands lol
Every now and then I run into a provider who "forgets" the condom and tells me she's clean. OK, how do I believe that lol. No proof.
I am not against bbfs but not with someone I'm not planning a family or a LTR with.
Fortunately, I started bringing my own cover. I bring the best kind so it's better for me that way. Easier for me to pop pop pop.
Rut Roh you said cunt and the Virgin Mary in the same sentence watch out for lightening bolts!
The same way they get pregnant. I'm fairly certain that is the only way a woman's breast can produce milk too
Everyone like to present an appearance of standing on the moral high ground in order to show their superiority. In reality, a lot of those who condemn BBFS in the hobby are actually participating in it.
and grabbing onto it! LMAO
A provider I have seen offers it. She mentioned how so many of her clients can't cum with a condom on. She doesn't want to disappoint anyone, that's for sure. So what better way to keep her clients coming back than to offer BBFS for an extra tip! I have partaken in it a few times with her. So far I have not caught anything. I will not tell you it is though...
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
I'm definitely not against it. I have a girl I see for BBFSCIP. Feels Awesome unloading inside her. Been seeing her for well over a year with ZERO PROBLEMS. Sure it's Risky. But I haven't had a single problem in over a year. Those that are against wish they could partake BBFS. But for whatever reason cannot. So for those against that's fine. But don't Lecture those that like BBFS.
Maybe you should re-read my OP again?
Guess you never read romantical's novel since you didn't comprehend a fairly short OP here.
Why don't you tell us in plain English where you stand?
Obviously there's no point in speculating about how others view the matter of engaging in BBFS unless you contrast it with your own view and/or your own practice
Sorry. I won't mention who the girl is I'm seeing for BBFSCIP.
If everyone else is covering up isn't why I chose to go BBFSCIP with the girl I'm seeing. It was a choice. After seeing her covered for about 3 months I asked her if it was OK to go uncovered. She agreed. Fast forward to today, I still see her uncovered. In fact I saw her yesterday and spent 5 hours with her. ZERO PROBLEMS for her and me. I'm willing to accept the Risks to go uncovered.
i.m an old Daddy..DR.WOO WOO..
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
yep..right in your Asian mouth..taste good??
How soon they forget
You're all good to go now...right?
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
all good to go..you are so caring and loving after all..let's do lunch..
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You're all good to go now...right?
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
You seem like a nice enough dude...but quite the loud mouth.
Is there something I need to know?
I care for those that I know and understand....those that are delusional and dangerous...nope!!
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You're all good to go now...right?
But it's clear to me that most here (on both sides) have BBFS with someone out there.
I was surprised the very first time a gal offered that up with me (in P4P). But it was early on in this game and I had NO interest whatsoever. However as time has passed and my understanding of the gals here...well I can say that I would have no real issues exploring BBFS now. I think that my biggest concern would be being a new Daddy LOL
just some more of Dr.Who's cerebral drivel..
Or did you?
Yeah...I'm going with omission being considered lying.
Thanks for playing
whatever..Thursday Night Football is on with the Riceless Ravens..see ya.
Yeah...I'm going with omission being considered lying.
Thanks for playing
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That's a shame.
Yeah...I'm going with omission being considered lying.
Thanks for playing
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MacDepends asking you out to lunch? Glad he's off chasing someone else to buy him. Sad.
Yeah...I'm going with omission being considered lying.
Thanks for playing
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Sorry "TER" isn't that kind of website.
And I guess the word on the street is that Dr Who has a huuuuuggggeeeee wallet LOL
Maybe he figures that I would pay for lunch...and make him a loan?
I'd have to check with my CPA to see if the loss is tax deductible
Yes, the same players who cover up have relationships in the mundane world where different boundaries apply.
What seems irksome are those who see BBFS as the brass ring, as if scoring that somehow denotes either a closer relationship or a greater conquest.
Why? Seems arbitrary. Like that culture where two people eating off the same plate denotes a degree of intimacy that they don't share if they each eat off an individual plates. Okay, that's a custom, but so what meaning does it really have?
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Recent, as within one week. Preferable 2days. Myself included.
Trust, as in not wanting to get preggers to extract cash from me.
It's a very controversial topic in this Hobby. If you're the Lucky few that can find a Provider to give you BBFS, then enjoy it. I definitely enjoy my BBFSCIP Sessions with the Provider I'm seeing. (sorry I'm not going to reveal her info to anyone).
My SO. And that's infrequent at best, less than once a month at worst. It's why I hobby. I will not risk it with a provider because I don't want to increase my chances of bringing something home to her. Unless the provider is a virgin, I ain't going there bare. Considering I've never even met a virgin of fuckable age who was interested in me, the point is moot.
I may be snipped, but I ain't stupid.
I have done this a few times,with my ATF, as well as a few others.I get tested regularly.For me alot of these women gasp when they see my package and thickness and want to really fell it without condoms.Almost, like hooking up with some chick in a bar.