I do see your point and I am sure there would be some exchanges gone awry, but that happens in this industry anyway as you'll know from reading some of board drama. Obviously it would be a personal decision between 2 people, we are all taking a chance when meeting a stranger as it stands.
CL and BP do not have the same community as TER, which is why I suggested it here. Maybe you're right. Not sure why you felt the need to use an alias just to state an opinion. Opinions are what this board is for.