btw, I tried to pick a flattering depiction of you.
See, again, I can be nice. Lol.
Assuming you have decided to meet someone who has a strong board presence….
Can you guys enjoy time with the provider although you may not like, in fact you may HATE their persona? Would you even agree to meet someone whose persona you dislike… Fair disclosure. We are not talking about the people who have demonstrated behavior that puts your security at risk.
In other words, can you compartmentalize yourself and detach the persona from the person?
For e.g. I am quite right leaning in my political views, but doesn't stop me from enjoying bands like METALLICA, which are not only left leaning, anti-war band, but portrays a very bleak and disturbing imagery of the world that we live in. I just treat it like a piece of art, and say political views just don’t matter here.
Another e.g. You may have liked Chick-Fil-A (fast food chain that sells chicken sandwiches), but may be pissed off at them for making anti-gay remarks..
Ladies, free feel to chime in. You may still put up with our smelly, opinionated asses because of the almighty Dollar involved, but in case you have ever enjoyed your time with the guys having big board presence, has it been solely with those who you agree with, or there have been those that you absolutely despise?
And while we are at it lets enjoy a song or two !!
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I debate with my personal friends all the time, I like being exposed to different views. I moved from a conservative part of Texas to NYC, but appreciate my exposure to that environment despite not wanting it to be MY eternal environment.
I bring that mentality on my dates too, I have met and had a great time with guys who don't believe the same things I do, as long as they weren't just stubborn and lacked logical backup to their views.
Nothing turns me off more than an ignorant person.
BTW, when I went to Philly, I had 4 Chick-Fil-A sandwiches, and could have inhaled more had I stayed longer, I think it's a shame the founder feels the need to make his business part of the forum for his personal views. It's not conducive to capitalism, the product should stand alone, and it's a damn good product.
but as for Chick-fil-A, having lived in Atlanta for the better part of two decades, I simply can't separate the product from the actions of the corporation/owner. He represents everything I find wrong in this country, and despite them putting out the one of the only fast food products I can stomach, I simply can't bring myself to spend a penny with those people.
I remember going to the Chick-fil-A bowl a couple of years ago, I was just going to a football game, and didn't think about the corporate sponsorship, that was until just before the national anthem, they INSISTED that we all stand up and join in a CHRISTIAN, fuck them and the whore they rode in on. I said my heathen ass right back on my seat and dared anyone to try to make me stand.
and yes, I can be every bit the asshole in person, that I am here, somethings just hit my buttons, and cramming religion down my throat is one of them.
Know how many things I have changed my mind about when presented with good arguments.
The only difference between the owner of Chik-Fil-A and other owners is that he went rogue on his PR team to come out publicly with his narrow-minded beliefs. However, how many owners out there think the same thing he does, or are even more narrow-minded but don't air their opinions publicly?
I respect people's opinions on not wanting to give your money to companies based on values, but unless you're willing to police the actions of all the owners of companies to know that you're not contributing to something even worse, get off your high horse dude.
So I stand by opinion, it's a shame he feels the need to attach his beliefs of homosexuality amongst other things with a business that has absolutely NOTHING to do with those topics.
I was at Yankee Stadium and when I did not remove my hat for the national anthem a fucking cop instructed me to do so.
Removing your hat would trigger the bomb strapped to your balls.
...or(in a Billy Krystal voice said) I requested the kosher meal.
I can't believe a cop would pay you that much attention.
I can't believe it either. I would like to say I made a stand on principal but you don't fuck with cops in NYC. At least I don't. They can do whatever they want to you with complete impunity. Throwing my ass out would be only a start. IF I protested they could turn the tables and I would be in a heap of trouble. I have not returned to Yankee Stadium since although that is only one of many reasons.
Waiting for someone to be a prick with them back.
Of course, we'd all like to tell him to GFY but I'm not sure I would in that situation with a NYC cop.
A pick your fights kind of thing.
The "Tombs" of Manhattan are bad enough... the Bronx jail is supposed to be worse.
So I agree with cspatz here.
Not just "waiting for someone to be a prick with them", which is a very apt description of how they operate, but aggressively goading them into it. You are a NYer. I am sure you have seen it. Fucking scary. And I am white!
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I'm not completely white (lol) so I take an extra degree of caution.
"Gimme any excuse." You can see it in their eyes. Agree- scary.
FTC. F 'em all. I've just recently read so many horrible stories about them beating and shooting people to death with- as someone else said- complete impunity. Two homeless guys recently- one in St. Petersburg and one in California. Then there's this- and this is constant.
http://blogs.dallasobserver.com/unfairpark/2014/01/a_dallas_cop_was_arrested_afte.php
F 'em all.
"Gimme any excuse." You can see it in their eyes. Agree- scary.
ever heard you like this. Usually so gentle...
Love it!
Last summer Chik-Fil-A discontinued their South West salad. The best salad that was on the menu. Hey assholes I don't want a cobb salad(a bowl of lettuce topped with chicken nuggets) I want the fucking south west salad(with the corn salsa, and tortilla strips).
I can't help but think, this was a political statement too.
is consciously aware that he's a rich man, and WTF, I'm going to use my last years to voice every opinion I've ever had.
There's none in NYC, except at one of the school dining halls, so I don't have to make the choice whether to consume their product or not on a daily basis.
I doubt if I would wholeheartedly agree with what he said, what ever it was.
Can't be any worse then the actual fast food products, from his or any other chain.
It's a pretty good fast food restaurant IMO and the franchise model is interesting (the company retains ownership but takes a smaller cut, so the franchisees make more money per location than the avg chain).
So, I'm surprised there aren't more locations than at NYU, where you have to deal with campus security.
I've snuck through to get a taste... of the Sandwich. lol.
And before the trolls from this week and a particular trainwreck jump all over me, I stuck to the 20-21 yos. lol.
was ask 'nicely' if you wanted a date....and perhaps you'd get your wish 
Two words work for me...nice and NO discount (ok 3 words) That's not too much to ask now is it? LOL
btw, I tried to pick a flattering depiction of you.
See, again, I can be nice. Lol.
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I even gave you a nice example to go by
I've never heard of such a thing, "they insisted that everyone stand and join in their Christian thing". I would have been just as upset as you. I don't put berate/judge anyone on their faith or impose my integrity on anyone else, but I sure as Hell won't put up with someone imposing their integrity on me. I am not a man of faith (not an atheist), but I will respect their right to pray or participate on their moment of silence out of respect but I will not participate in their pageantry. I would have remained seated and simply not cared who looked at me. I'll stand remove my hat and place my right hand over my heart during the National Anthem because there are a whole lot of people, better than me, that gave their lives so that I might have the freedom to do so or not. And also because I served my Country.
Only fools and corpses don't change their mind...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lI6Ubb7zJI8&feature=kp
The music doesn't always reflect that.
I like to eat inside of the Chik-Fil-A the other patrons are always weird, I especially like to over hear the new hire interviews. When the new hire gets stumped by a question, I will yell out WWJD?
...and who doesn't like looking at an eighteen year old bubble but in black stretch pants?
I don't know if it's just me, but it seems like they hire a lot of Hook"tard"'Gold's relatives!
Faith on minds of some individuals. In doing more research it seems to have come from some televangelical scandals back in the 80s. I would consider that as void of any politics, although you may interpret it differently.
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She was a Hell of a good looking woman in her day. Well I can say Baker got one thing right, Hell yes, having Jessica Hahn blowing me on a regular basis, especially because his wife was fucking hideous, I mean that woman was butt ugly with a ton of makeup, can you imagine how much more hideous she was without....ewww, I just got goose bumps thinking about it.
Well if you have not seen this it will put a smile on your face a much younger
Jessica Hahn and some of Rock's legends.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwNW8lqe1tk
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I had forgotten about that video. Is it any wonder that Jim Baker had her blowing him? Especially when you look at Tammy Fay Baker and she was always wearing makeup. I'll admit, I am not a very good looking man, but fortunately I am not as ugly as that hideous looking woman. I don't blame Jim for banging Jessica Hahn, but a blow up doll would've been an upgrade for him
I'm extremely conservative politically, which is odd, since most proposed liberal policies would benefit me economically. I can't sell my principles, though.
The owner of Chick-Fil-A made, I believe, a poor business decision. That said, it's his business, and customers can choose to frequent his stores or not. I don't talk politics with customers unless they bring it up, and unless they, too, are conservative.
I wouldn't ever talk politics with a provider, even if we shared the same political views. I just get too riled up about things. I don't want to ruin what should be a great experience.
As for board persona's, most providers here seem pleasant enough. There's a couple that are very assertive (especially one who recently retired from the biz). I would see any of them, as long as I knew that the sometimes abrasive board personalities were just a role in the forum, and not of the person face to face.
Though very small, I am business owner, and my ability to source something and provide a product that is needed/wanted should be separated from my personal life if I want to be successful and not alienate people. And I will never use my business to contribute to organizations I believe in, that can all come from my personal funds.
That being said, if someone disagrees so much with me personally that they want to boycott my product, well, it's something I have to accept.
But sometimes people do use their political affiliations to brand their product and attract more customer base...
For e.g. Starbucks CEO's rant to call out the gun owners as UNWANTED in his stores, and telling them they can leave their guns behind, when there is no such law that stops them from carrying guns (where allowed by law), neither does he have any right to mandate the same, was just a lame attempt to attract the yuppie crowd, and to appeal to them....
They definitely lost my business. Although, I personally do consider their product substandard anyway. So it wasn't all that hard....
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I can think of a couple of my "favorites" that I haven't yet met that based upon the reviews of their oral talents (and I mean oral action talents and not talking talents) that I would see even if I didn't nessesarily care for their persona. I don't think I've ever thought about that before, so you've succeeded in provoking thought, if nothing else.
See who you like avoid who u dont
you want to meet me?
and representative of anyone who may be disagreeing with you..
I did forget to add...hmmm, there is (1) persona I'd like to meet on here but shhhhhhh, it's a secret and I don't tell my innermost secrets.
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you know yesterday when I called you 'rotund'...I didn't mean it of course, it was simply to see what your 'kneejerk' reaction was to something 'false' about you that only 'you' would know. And guess what, you defended yourself as I had suspected, because afterall we are all human here and that's the first thing people do when they are 'accused' of something they are not. It does suck doesn't it? I bet you're a pretty intelligent guy. For the record, I would never call anyone any kind of 'mean' description and actually 'mean' it, that would be horrible. Yesterday was just a lil 'test' so you could get a taste of what it's like on the 'other' side for a brief moment.........so thank you for passing my 'test'
I think you're cute just like your name...I can picture you perfectly actually.
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It was 0. It just didn't irritate me. I have no way of knowing if you know what I look like. And I really didn't think you were accusing me. I actually got a chuckle out of it..
I have a good friend from Florida, who thought I had Curly hair and I was white in my 40s. Wrong.. Wrong.. and Wrong.. I always get a chuckle or two out of how we perceive people in the world where we rarely meet in person.... So all good sweetie..
it would be fun to watch these two fuck? You two should make a porn video, you could call it "hate fuck" or something like that, I for one would find it entertaining.
think of somebody else I think you missed that gravy train.
I wouldn't quite call it a gravy train, as considerable risk and effort is involved.
More like Sisyphean task (long SAT word shout out to RRO#### aka R2D2).
But I've got plenty in line to hate fukk me. tyvm. 
And I've got a V-day date as well. lol.
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But you two seem to go at it so much, I think watching you fuck each other would be entertaining. OK I'm a voyeur so I like to watch anyway, and I'd like to fuck you, so bonus, I could watch you in action. But the entertaining thing would be watching two people that genuinely don't like each other fuck. C'Mon, do you not see the entertainment value in that?
'cute' fucking...not 'sexy' fucking...there's a big difference. You don't wanna watch cute...you wanna watch sexyyyyyyyy. lol
I'm such a perv, either works for me
I have mine, and they are certainly leftish, but I don't take all of it too seriously.
In fact, when I was in college, I was in a very radical left-wing group, but I was also sleeping with the head of the Young Republicans of New Jersey. (And I mean that literally, we would sleep together. I graduated college a virgin, but that's another story for another day.)
Back to the matter at hand:
One of the things I like best about the hobby is meeting interesting and intelligent people and having a friendly back an forth. It's how one learns, and I have fun doing so.
Now, if a person came across too stridently, I'd probably think twice about seeing them just because I don't want to spend all my time debating and defending politics, etc.
I did meet one gal who was like that, and despite having a very nice session, I just didn't want to subject myself to it again.
It's one thing to have an opinion, and another to be opinionated. As with most things in life, moderation is the key.
+1000. Everyone has their own viewpoints and opinions....the beauty of this hobby is meeting people from all walks of life that I probably never would have crossed paths with otherwise. If one if too opinionated, and is never willing to hear another side of the story, they will never grow as a person. I have my opinions and beliefs...but am always willing to hear the other side of the coin and try to understand why they feel the way they do.
Those who are close-minded will always stay that way, and it will prevent them from growing. I personally am in WI, so there are no "board personas" that post on the GD board, lol. But, I think the only one's I would not see are those who are openly disrespectful of women and this hobby in general...they are the one's who are always looking for something to be wrong, even when there is nothing there.
In fact, when I was in college, I was in a very radical left-wing group, but I was also sleeping with the head of the Young Republicans of New Jersey. (And I mean that literally, we would sleep together. I graduated college a virgin, but that's another story for another day.)
Back to the matter at hand:
One of the things I like best about the hobby is meeting interesting and intelligent people and having a friendly back an forth. It's how one learns, and I have fun doing so.
Now, if a person came across too stridently, I'd probably think twice about seeing them just because I don't want to spend all my time debating and defending politics, etc.
I did meet one gal who was like that, and despite having a very nice session, I just didn't want to subject myself to it again.
It's one thing to have an opinion, and another to be opinionated. As with most things in life, moderation is the key.
However, I saw some guys with an agency who I'd never have seen if I'd had a chance to read their board posts and/or reviews. Most of the time, an a**hole here correlates to an a**hole in person...you can tell a lot about a person from what they write.
(By a**hole, I mean someone who has an all-around disrespectful and negative attitude...who will say something in a review like, 'I banged her like the dirty whore she is got my money's worth!!!!').
BUT, there are a few guys who seem like jerks online, but are actually nice in person...even decent people. For instance: my agency let me read a email from one dude criticizing a bunch of girls in really lewd terms, and then choosing 'me' because I was 'easier on the wallet' (at the time). In one of his reviews, he also referred to an agency girl as a member of the owner's 'stable'. It makes me cringe when men compare the women they see to cars or animals. He was a reviewer who gave average-ish scores.
I saw him because I wanted a good review, and knew I could get it. I'd seen much worse in those days, so he didn't even seem that bad. After all, he was known to the agency and at least trustworthy...The first time I saw the guy, I admit I put on the performance of a lifetime, and hated him steadily each second of the two hours he booked.
He booked me again when I was an independent. Having read his abrasive emails to the agency handler a few years earlier, I was shocked at how polite and accommodating he was when corresponding with me. I almost didn't take the appointment...but then decided to give him another chance. It turned out that we had a very unusual experience in common and we totally bonded over it. That gave me a chance to appreciate him as a person of integrity. I actually enjoyed our second date. He left a nice message under one of my ads and we corresponded for a while until I was forced to go UTR.
This is TG baby btw Accidentally erased the pw to my other account. Had made this handle to poke fun at another member (one of those I categorically won't see) and will continue to use it in that capacity if the opportunity arises :
Weren't they pro-gay? All my old Christian friends boycotted them a few years back. Maybe they repented?
Second and most important, I used to dislike some board presences, but it became love/hate. ... Until I met them. I've met quite a few... Y'all are some sweat peas!
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Second and most important, I used to dislike some board presences, but it became love/hate. ... Until I met them. I've met quite a few... Y'all are some sweat peas!
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He didn't have a presence here until I remarked about my trolling and arguing on the boards.
His board presence and persona sucked. He was a complete chauvinist asshole and a complete hypocrite on many subjects we discussed. Then I heard remarks from other ladies who said they'd refuse to see him and gents who thought he was a straight up dick.
I don't see him anymore and now that I think back, I enjoyed his company because he was an asshole. Too bad he went overboard with it.
Can you guys enjoy time with the provider although you may not like, in fact you may HATE their persona? Would you even agree to meet someone whose persona you dislike… Fair disclosure. We are not talking about the people who have demonstrated behavior that puts your security at risk.
In other words, can you compartmentalize yourself and detach the persona from the person?
For e.g. I am quite right leaning in my political views, but doesn't stop me from enjoying bands like METALLICA, which are not only left leaning, anti-war band, but portrays a very bleak and disturbing imagery of the world that we live in. I just treat it like a piece of art, and say political views just don’t matter here.
Another e.g. You may have liked Chick-Fil-A (fast food chain that sells chicken sandwiches), but may be pissed off at them for making anti-gay remarks..
Ladies, free feel to chime in. You may still put up with our smelly, opinionated asses because of the almighty Dollar involved, but in case you have ever enjoyed your time with the guys having big board presence, has it been solely with those who you agree with, or there have been those that you absolutely despise?
And while we are at it lets enjoy a song or two !!
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What are you asking?
Do you think a girl won't see you, or you won't see a girl because they think Biden is a yes man buffoon?
Or because one of you will eat chicken burgers from the KKK? If they are good that is..
Never even heard of ChikiFillup... Sounds like a shitkicker joint with Hitler running the place.
It must be next to the Circle K right? Ever hear of Special K?
I think thats kinda dumb. But I guess it could happen...
I can only answer with for instances..
There is a woman who posts here that stands her ground...
At first. I liked that, and was interested. But then I found out she creates fake names, and tries to manipulate shit. That kinda scared me away. Not so much for the creepy behavior...
More for the fact that if I reviewed her. It could be a pain in my ass. I don't need that shit.
Then there is a girl who posts all crazy. You have to re read a few times...
She looks really hot! But a few times. I read her post about some pretty unsafe stuff. 
I had a feeling she was being sarcastic, but I just can't tell.
Those are reasons where a post. Persona, or not will stop me from seeing a girl.
I don't care if she is a Satan worshiper.. As long as she doesn't kill me.. And is safe with my info!
Gotta go. Just ate a steak that will now put me into a meat coma.
I don't think I understand you here.
My response make any sense?
Your question seems stupid to me..
You won't give a girl your name right?
WTF do you care if she is a Democrat, and you are a Republican?
That is dumb..
Its not about politics. Those were just two general examples I sited. I personally don't care if she is a tree hugging liberal or a Tea Party activist. But that alone doesn't make board persona, unless she is talking about politics 100% of the times. BTW, very few gals play on P&R Board. I tried to get LR to come there.. She slapped me..lol.
Its all about how we carry ourselves on the board, and what imagery does that form in the other party's mind is what I was discussing...
Took a dump, and drank two pints..
Got a second wind.
I wouldn't mind meeting you for drinks and food..
Seriously though.
I can see through most board persona.
Everyone can..
It really isn't that hard to put a microscope on a handle here..
In fact. The search function is designed for it...
I don't do it. I wonder. But am way too lazy minded to be a troll like that. Lol.
That's why I'm so open, and honest. I can search myself, and see an open book.
So why lie? Guess I'm too lazy for that too.
I do say I'm flattered because I know you aren't a moron.
Meaning. No matter what you type. I can see something about you by the way you type it.
I'm not talking about grammar... It's about context..
I'm not politically active. Never went to college.
So I guess I don't judge people on what they know.
I judge them on what they can learn and what they can do...
Do you know how rare it is to see someone step down, and apologize?
Recognize a point, and submit?
One time I said sorry to Gambler.. He didn't know what to do...
Get my point?
Always wish I did go BTW. go to college that is.
I woulda done good.
Life is too short to be unhappy. If it requires too much effort then move on.
You may ‘hate’ what a provider says online. But that part is probably not her “persona”.
Assuming you choose to meet someone with a strong “board presence” (that you don’t like), what you see online is much more likely to be a better representation of the ‘real’ person, than the “persona” that gets pulled out BCD
I was just going by real being what you experience is a live setting.. But I do see your point, HP.
It would take a lot for me to see most of you board dudes in a provider/client setting. I'm not enough of a masochist for that. Would I have a beer with y'all? Hell yeah (with the exception of a couple who I just flat out don't like), but I'd never subject myself to some of the nitpickiness and shit that you fuckers pull.
Has it ever occurred to you that you may not be ready for Primetime?
While Eli can bitch and moan about being sacked, and the big boys being mean to him, Peyton can't.
Now tell me, you want to be Eli or Peyton? I hope latter..
Did you not just agree with "the humanist's" 5 top reasons for reviewing gals? And now this?
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is fairly well illustrated by this response.
for reviewing.. And now she is calling reviewing as nitpicking. So which is which? Then she adds a bigass smily face. Like I said up above, you do have fair point, and it could certainly be the other way round based on individual cases.
Read my opening line....Assuming you are going to meet with someone who has strong board persona.. So that's my starting point. You have to assume some starting point.. Any reasonable person would agree that its easier to gauge the personality in person than through Internet.
Who knows..Perhaps Lesbians have some divine power to decipher which is exactly real and which is exactly assumed.
Since we are talking about realities. Let me enlighten you with the ultimate reality.
Neither the board persona not the hooker you fuck in the bed is real.. Because Tobi, Sarah, or London or what have you, are their assumed names and assumed identities. .. But for the sake of argument, you have to assume some starting point.
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BUT. You really have to drop the lesbian non sequester crap first. seriously. Every opinion I express is not driven by my sexual orientation. Give it a rest.
But for the record. Yes. I am a woman (the lesbian part, in this context, is completely irrelevant). And, I might (just maybe...) be a little bit clued-in to how women think. How's that for an ultimate reality
You can PM me if you want. I always answer all the PMs
My response to this has nothing to do with reviewing. I'm talking about some of the general attitudes towards women in general that some dudes spout around here. None of what I said was directed at any specific person so there's no need to get defensive. My point was simply that while I like most of you guys, I wouldn't want to be discussed in the proverbial locker room like some kind of product. That's all. You're reading way too much into it.
As for me "agreeing" with thehumanist's reasons for reviewing, no I didn't. I agreed with the very last statement in his post that he directed specifically towards me.
So let's all just hug it out, yeah? I'm not trying to start some big controversy.
Read my opening line....Assuming you are going to meet with someone who has strong board persona.. So that's my starting point. You have to assume some starting point.. Any reasonable person would agree that its easier to gauge the personality in person than through Internet.
Who knows..Perhaps Lesbians have some divine power to decipher which is exactly real and which is exactly assumed.
Since we are talking about realities. Let me enlighten you with the ultimate reality.
Neither the board persona not the hooker you fuck in the bed is real.. Because Tobi, Sarah, or London or what have you, are their assumed names and assumed identities. .. But for the sake of argument, you have to assume some starting point.
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We don't have to talk about anything other than the fact that you are failing my class. You'll have to do some extra credit to get back on track. You know, I hear the frat boys talk about what a party girl you are.....oh my, sorry I just got lost in a fantasy, what were we talking about? I'm so bent.
This as a middle aged guy trying to rescue a young woman from being molested by two old guys.
Or a small rugby scrum. Lol.
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Reviews and the boards are double edged swords. I say we all lighten up, enjoy each other (whether that means spirited debate, fucking like rabbits, or having a beer), and remember the one thing that brought us all together in the first place...we wanted something we could only get here.
But damn this was a fun sub-thread
I agreed with his mention of quotable quotes that I've stuck in the text of my ads. I don't like reviews, but I've used them to my advantage.
You asked a question, I gave my honest opinion.
And DUH Peyton, but I'm a lifelong Broncos fan, so that's not really fair.
While Eli can bitch and moan about being sacked, and the big boys being mean to him, Peyton can't.
Now tell me, you want to be Eli or Peyton? I hope latter..
Did you not just agree with "the humanist's" 5 top reasons for reviewing gals? And now this?
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I adore Metallica. And their anti-war stance.
My absolute favorite song by Metallica: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zi021mb0AtI
And I love John Donne's poem too. It is decidedly anti war as well.
No Man Is An Island
No man is an island,
Entire of itself,
Every man is a piece of the continent,
A part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less.
As well as if a promontory were.
As well as if a manor of thy friend's
Or of thine own were:
Any man's death diminishes me,
Because I am involved in mankind,
And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls;
It tolls for thee.
If I knew a gent who wished to see me was badly behaved on the boards- meaning mean and nasty to the ladies- I would never agree to see him. There are plenty of lovely and well-mannered gents out there who wish to share time with me.
Having said that, I have some friends with whom I disagree on a few or many subjects, but sex between opposites can be hot.
I am not a war monger either. Some wars are necessary. So mewars not. Definitely not the ones fought in last decade.
But yes, I do love Metallica. Their music. Not their politics.
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Posts. Clearly it wouldnt take a genius to see I take my on the clock seriously. I.dont discuss nonsense or my.colored.past.and ramblings , unless they are open to. Banter otc . You wanna chat via email weeks in advance of the appointment and go back and forth or on the phone a little bit back and forth.
I certainly do not stay in character unless I am being paid.
for me it takes a lot of concentration to shut my trap.
I actually have to concentrate so hard you can see smoke coming out of my ears.
I love to talk I talk too much I talk too fast.
I love to see the look on peoples face when I tell them some of the absurd stories of my life.
ion fortunately don't have many normal things to talk about if people ask me about me or my past or anything like that most of the things I have to say are going to be crazy because my life has been crazy and yes I am crazy too.
for whatever time the person pays for and is business I do exactly what is said in my reviews and I will meet someones request as best to my ability.
I prefer not to be asked about myself during appointments and I make this a known to the customer.
I like going to a separate worlds when I am in work mode, I like to portray this fantasy model wild sexual creature.I also have personally message someone concerning them beginning a review with the time that we spent that was off the clock.
they had given record of picking me up from one hotel in New York and driving me to another one in New Jersey as well as what I was wearing for that car ride in the snow that day with a dog that was bleeding from his butt.
long story short we had done a massage appointment for an hour during that appointment I did get into my 7 inch high heels my fake eyelashes and I did spend quite some time getting dolled up for the session.
rightfully so I was embarrassed that somebody would speak of the clothes I wore in transit
during OTC car ride which I had requested of them because I needed help with transportation that day.
during the hour that was paid for I was dressed to the nines as I always am.
however checking into a hotel you are about to be working at in the snow with lots of luggage as well as my dog was having some really bad problems with his digestion!
to start of the first sentence of a review with how I was wearing sweatpants
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for me the time you pay for is the time you will get angel exotic and everything that you've ever dreamed of and I will be either your master or your servant or both'
ever since the sweatpants review which I did personally message the person and I asked them if they would re write a review just discussing the actual massage hour they had paid for not the time that they help me with the ride with my sick dog in the snow and the luggage and the juicy could tour running suit'
this is a review site and you are supposed to review your appointments'
if you decide to help me as a human being not as angel with something'
I appreciate that and my thanks to everyone but I was horrified to have this written about interview when it was not time I was being pay for it was not a dinner date I was not expected to be someone I am NOT we were talking to each other as people and I was under the impression they were helping me with the ride because they are nice person and it was snowing and I have a sick dog in my hands and serious fibromyalgia going on and it was a very trying time for me'
however the minute the clock was on and we started that massage I was dressed to the nines and I made that person believe that I really was enjoying it and they document that in the review'
if someone doesn't leave believing that I really honestly truly like them that I didn't do my job right!
I am truly good at enjoying peoples company and making them feel good about themselves
what separating the persona from Angel is where it gets confusing because if someone agrees to help someone with something as a human being and not as the fantasy role or being paid to play a character for someone's pleasure'
that should not be reviewed
the appointments should be reviewed and that way this is a review sites for business and to know which ladies would do got appointments
if someone wants to linger around and take up my time when they are not paying they can look at me in my sweatpants and they can listen to my stories about all my friends and federal prison and all my times I didn't state prison
and they can drive me on my errands'
hell!
honestly in my real persona I am a people person and I love talking to people young man old men men my age I just love people in general
but I enjoy being myself
in my personal life persona is someone that wears running pants and baseball hats and I generally dress on the sporty side and I usually do not even wear jeans to be honest it's always running pants with me
hoodie Sweatshirts & Nikes
and where I live right next door to a pretty bad neighborhood I generally don't have a lot of dress clothes I'm not a big night club person I'm more a walking out during the day with my dog by myself person
I don't do an awful lot of those fancy dinner dates or overnight dates where we go out and paint the town either so my wardrobe doesn't consist of very much tight fitting dungarees or tight fitting sexy clothes
if I have an outcall to a hotel I arrive in sexy tight leggings and high heels and nice clothes if I am in transit going to the grocery store or checking in and out of hotels with luggage or anytime in my personal life you will never catch me in heels or jeans
running suits Victoria's Secret Pink collection
for me the hour that they pay 4 or 2 hours I will be whatever they want me to be and I realize that is a lot of money and I do whatever I can to try to make them happy
as soon as the hour is up I cannot wait to get back into my cozy dorky clothes and sometimes if the clients are here a little bit over the hour they are sometimes surprised to see me throw on my sweatpants and hoodie right away
the time you pay me to work I will work the time that I am NOT paid for I am no longer angel exotic and I transport back to the real me which is someone who enjoys wearing sporty comfortable clothes well I will not be looked at in a sexual way
in my neighborhood you do not want to walk around in sexy clothes that attract attention that's just me and the neighborhood I live in
someone just told me a story about a friend of theirs son had his head bashed in with a baseball bat one street over from my house which is known as one of the worst streets in my town and possibly in Boston
I have sexy outfits to get to and from the hotels and I just go from my front door into a hotel I don't walk around outside by myself in those clothes
also being someone with fibromyalgia disorder I tend to want to wear all soft furry plush loose fitting comfy clothing
and definitely definitely never a bra
even something as silly as a bra strap around my neck will feel excruciatingly terrible because of my fibro anyone who has this knows what I mean you want to have on your comfy slippers and your comfy hoodie you don't want to be uncomfortable tight clothes if you have fibromyalgi
I wouldn't be interested in spending time with her, much less paying for that "honor" no matter how hot she was.
Why start things off on the wrong foot, with any negative vibe at all, when there are so many ladies you can see that will make for a 100% enjoyable experience? The reviews can really help with the determination of what her personality is like too and whether or not she is a good fit. Also, if she is very slow to respond to email or displays the personality of a rock in them, I lose interest. Or, if she pontificates ad naseum about her rules and policies on her website I find this to be a turn off. While I'm a perfect gentleman myself, I really don't need to hear about all things she doesn't like and finds to be "rude" about clients. That generally tells me that she isn't the down-to-earth type who will have a fun time with me. In terms of during a session, the lighter the topics the better, I would never bring up politics, and have tried to steer conversations in a different direction when a provider started going down that road. If she went out of her way to let her politics be known in a strident way here or on her site, and I was on the opposite side, then yes, I'd lose interest in seeing her.
I just know that people are diverse and not one-sided. We all have things in common as human beings, and it is the things we have in common that allow us to relate to one another. Once we have that basic relationship in place, we can then begin to appreciate one another as unique individuals based upon our differences. Not as a like or dislike of the differences, but as a real appreciation of them - knowing the real person.
On the boards, the differences are what is often highlighted as we express opinions reflecting our uniqueness. Sometimes the common humanity takes a backseat. In person, that tends to disappear IMHO.
So.. no need to compartmentalize at all. I may like or dislike a post, may disagree or agree with an opinion; but I don't mistake the post for either the person or the persona.
Just my .02
At least for me, it isn't related to their beliefs, especially not related to how similar their beliefs are to mine.
Conversly, a person's beliefs come very close to mine but doesn't treat people with respect, follows the axiom of "I think, therefor it IS!", or is simply a bully, some one a gravitate AWAY from.
Deprived
PS: I favored one politico party over another for decades, but gradually I came to view both parties as nothing more than legal street gangs.