Something I've noticed before plenty of times but only just started to wonder about is that there seem to be a not insignificant amount of providers who are unwilling to meet with hobbyists who are of certain ethnicities, esp. black. Oh sure, sometimes I see "no mixed guys" or "no latin men" but black seems to be the majority. I've yet to see "no whites".
Regardless of which group gets the proverbial axe, I wonder why. Seems to me like they're throwing away possibilities based on something nobody can actually help. Maybe some providers might be willing to weigh in
We already had a few 10/10 threads. And we had the pubic hair thread. Who wants to start the dick size and where should I cum thread?
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i always wondered this myself then i asked my regular provider why this is. she gave me the reason that SOME, and i use that word specifically, black men show up and try to low ball them or try to get a discount, also some will show up and rob her or lastly some are pimps in the area to see the other girls in there area and check them out to try and get them in there business and some times beat them up if they don't donate to them for working in there area. Another reason is that she has had a few men try and do BB in doggy by taking the condom off since, but she stopped them before they could.
she on the other hand we see anyone regardless of race but has had this happen a few times. She is just more cautions around certain men now. She stated it is just a few bad ones that ruin it for the rest.
Now i am not saying that this happens all the time, this is just one providers opinions on the subject based on her experience.
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First let me say, one of my best friends is black. Well, he's actually a coworker, but that's beside the point. Anyway, one of my regulars told me of a time she saw a younger black guy. He paid the fee and she performed the service. He got dressed and then pulled out a gun, robbed her of his donation & all of the other donations from that day. Like I've stated before, it is a tough business, so whatever makes the provider comfortable is ok with me.
she on the other hand we see anyone regardless of race but has had this happen a few times. She is just more cautions around certain men now. She stated it is just a few bad ones that ruin it for the rest.
Now i am not saying that this happens all the time, this is just one providers opinions on the subject based on her experience.
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About as much as the topic about no black men allowed.
Here is what I suggest why don't all of the african-american men who see these type of ads move the hell on!
Why give a second thought on why a provider will not see you?
There are so many ladies out here who do not mind I wouldn't even waste my time because sometimes when asked you might not get the real answer.
There are various reasons why some providers will not see african-american men.
I do not have a race restriction but every lady is different and that is her choice.
Edit to add:To the OP if you do a search on this very board for this topic it has been discussed many times and you can see others responses through the years the answers rarely change.
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Dear Madam Jayda:
As an active courtesan and frequent contributor of the board, I am just wondering if our references would be as solid as some of our counterparts of other races? Also I am wondering, would this be a topic of discussion on the providers only board? Perhaps the providers should take a poll on why African-American men get rebuffed by the general providing public. I am sure there are legitimate reasons as well as illegitimate ones as well.
Also Madam Jayda, I would like to thank you on behalf of hobbyist everywhere for evaluating us fairly on a case by case basis.
...Why guys like you can't move on as suggested by someone just now.
Do you consider it discrimination in some real way?
Is it different from when a civvie girl won't have sex with guys from certain ethnicities?
I wouldn't think so and don't see it as a problem at all if there isn't overt racist overtones.
You will probably never know why she doesn't like the pink, purple or blue guy- It's just personal preference.
I guess the angle is that discrimination against clients isn't allowed in other businesses, or is it?
Guess what, that's for legal businesses.
Unless this is your cause célèbre and you consider yourself some kind of Rosa Parks of hookers, my advice is to move on.
and your benjamin still resembles Monopoly money, and any woman worth her salt will accept it just the same.
-Just bring lube. Big black cock stereotypes are completely true. It'll help.
I'm not black, but I am over 60 and I have seen some that say "no one over 55" or something like that.... OK.. to Hell with you.. there are others.. worse if she does not say that and I show up and she's thinking... yech.. an old man !. I don't want that..
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When someone old enough to be her Dad or worse her Grandpa shows up? You got it, blech an old man, bt the good ones can hide the revulsion and sally forth. I guess the ones with no over 55 just can't hide it.
So you get your depends in a bunch if she refuses you, how about the (fill in the blank) hooker you bypass? I guess the ladies just say to hell with him. Why the "to hell with" in the first place? Can't you be mature and not get butt hurt if you are passed over?
Goes to the recent theme about delusions.
Enjoy yourself when you can have sex and there's 40 year age differential.
Yes we are old and some younger girlies will be revulsed.
Be happy- others have daddy issues or at least act like it.
...why one time I was told " no Black Guys " and I was like WTF !!!! I have $$$$$$$, I'm clean, I treat everyone with respect, I will help you get an " O " first, I have references, I'm told I'm fun , I can hold a conversation, I understand " Your " needs, I rescue puppies.....why does it matter what my race is.... " no Black guys ".... ok your loss honey......Oh and I'm Caucasian so I showed her !!!
I'm sure many stipulations and precepts of the Equal Rights Amendment, Fair Housing Law and the EEOC will likely apply.
Until then we’ll all have to muttle along with the intangible and subjective variables of personal taste, choice, and yes; even prejudice.
Maybe petitioning the hip-hop/rap industry to stop using “bitch” and “ho’ ” as a common synonym for a woman, girlfriend or SO would cast a more favorable light on AA men and earn more multi-racial acceptance without need for legislating it.
The best reply on this subject ever.
In fact, there are some AA providers who make it clear they will not see AA men because of a bad experience. Also, most Korean girls state they will not see Korean men because it's a small community and they're afraid of seeing someone they know. Other gals won't see guys under the age of 35, or 30.
I don't like discrimination of any kind. But in this business, which involves selling the most intimate service imaginable, I tend to cut some slack.
Of course they are of course they are. Answer for every toolbags lame life
She is just smart enough to figure out that in the hobby, they are the most work! Can't fault a bitch for that. Some hookers fuck anything for that dime.
hey all,
I usually only see Asian, but even with Asians, there are those who will not see their countrymen. ie Viet girl will not see Viet guy, etc
I respect a working girls choice on who they wish to see, it is same as any business, "we have the right to refuse service", no need to beat this topic up.
But from what I have heard.
1. Bad experience from certain races ie bbfs attempt, bargaining, rob & generally not gentlemen
2. Do not want to see someone from their culture ie working where they live or just do not want hassle of explain to countrymen why they work
3. Just do not like that race.
personally, I have had working girls not see me on 2nd dates and bookers told me, it is not that girl did not like me but instead I was too friendly and not keeping the session business like, lol.
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Regardless of which group gets the proverbial axe, I wonder why. Seems to me like they're throwing away possibilities based on something nobody can actually help. Maybe some providers might be willing to weigh in
I can't see the point of perseverating over why someone doesn't want to see you, especially when there are so many other fish in the sea.
On the other hand the callousness of the people on this thread by people who have likely never experienced any real discrimination is astounding.
And then the racist stereotypes that are spouted off as fact. "They tend to try and rob you" "they are too rough", or any number of horrible thing that do not describe the majority of black people in this country.
It's not wonder black people who wander on this board complain. The policy/attitude is insulting and hurtful, regardless of whether it's a provider's prerogative to do what she wants. Of course she can do what she wants, that doesn't stop her from being a bigot, and if you think that this behavior is OK, then you're probably a bigot too.
And the fact that complaints are met with derision and racist insults probably doesn't help matters I imagine.
Just imagine if someone came on here and said "no white men". The amount of shit she'd take on this board would be unprecedented...
I have to say every time this issue comes up, so does the stupid excuses. If a lady does not see black men, it's her that will lose in the long run. When a person says it's her choice, that's true. Just remember we also have choices and the more a lady is open minded, the more she will benefit personally from men of all races.
It's funny do we put all escorts good or bad into same group? No! The smart hobbyist we spend the time and research which escort is the best for them to see. So why can't a escort do the same with background checks?
I was at the AVE convention last month and laughed at some of porn woman, who claim they won't do interracial scenes. They were the same ones taking pictures, laughing and in some cases making a fool out of themselves with men of all races. Why would they not tell them, I don't do interracial scenes or want those fans? It's all about money and yes boys. They know in the long run, they better do it to survive.
If you don't believe me, just ask the smart porn stars that had no problems doing scenes with black men etc (Asa Akita, Lisa Ann, Jessica Bangkok and Nina Hartley had some of the longest lines at the convention.
So when you find a lady that is really open minded to all races, ask her if she has other friends for you to see and build a network that way. It's many out there you just have to do your research and don't let a small group of ladies or hobbyist comments, stop you from having fun!