If I'm not doing it for you PLEASE ask me to leave or leave yourself! My one "so so" review claims he wasn't clicking with me the way my other reviewers had. I would have preferred him take off and have a better day alone than keep smiling at me faking his way thru the appointment. It cost him 200 for a massage he didn't fully enjoy and it cost me a sub-par review. Who won? Nobody. I'd rather have handed back 160 of it and said thanks for the mini make out session for 40. Fair, no?
If you're not getting into it or the chick you're meeting with is NOT nearly the caliber of her photos just say as politely as you can manage that you aren't sure if this is what you were looking for and say thanks but no thanks. Not every lady will appreciate this but I for one want to see people who really want to see me, not someone who has to fake it or feel like they wasted time and money.
I have had someone ask if they can book, come over and if they don't like the way I look asked if they could leave and just leave. Nothing more. I said sure, but that he needed to bring me a bottle of champagne so I could drown my sorrows if he left, LOL. He said deal and we made the meeting. He came and was pleased so we shared the bottle and laughed about the whole thing.