Thank you, daddy bird. I like the idea of the donation box in the bathroom.
I make it very clear on my website (on my donations page) that all money should be placed in an envelope and left near my purse at the beginning of our visit. If newbies try to quiz me about finances or a particular service I offer, I simply say, "Remember, escorts do not discuss sex or money. If they did, that would make what we do illegal." Then I smile sweetly and bat my eyelashes at them.
I used to feel timid about asking a guy to wash his hands (pits, crotch, ass, etc), but I outgrew that feeling really fast. No nasty-ass fingers or peckers come near my "good girl." I want it to STAY good!