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The top 10 reasons why providers don't see black men.
HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil 2291 reads
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I want to start by saying, I AM AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY WHORE.

I have sessioned with people of every racial group. I have sessioned with people who have immigrated to the US from at least 60 or 70 different coutries. I have sessioned with people of all the major religions. I have sessioned with blind people, deaf people, quadriplegics, paraplegics, people with speach impediments, people missing limbs, people with cerebral palsey, people with tramatic brain injuries, etc etc etc. I have sessioned with people who identify as bisexual. I have also sessioned with people who have some of the oddest fetishes you can imagine.

But to say 'pimps aren't necessarily of any specific racial group"- that's a bunch of freaking PC nonsense! I have had no less than 40 or 50 pimps harass me MERCILESSLY in recent years, trying to recruit me into their "stable." And YES, every single one was a black dude. And YES, I am a blonde girl! Lol.

Do I still see black men? Yes. Do I feel a little bit on edge until I determine they don't have a hidden agenda? YES.

So do you want a 100% honest top 10 reasons why women "don't see black men?" I have seen all of the following reasons listed on message boards time and time again. These don't necessarily reflect my personal views, so please don't shoot the messenger!

1.) Most pimps are black.
2.) Black pimps don't want to risk losing their girls to other pimps.
3.) Some women are racist, plan and simple.
4.) Fear of big black dicks.
4 1/2.) Fear of "pound you into the bed for an hour straight" style of sex.
5.) Fear of robbery or assault based on the racial disparity in crime statistics.
6.) Fear of STDs based on the racial disparity found in CDC statistics.  
7.) Fear of haggling due to the racial disparity found in reported income statistics.
8.) An exagerated PTSD response because they were robbed/hurt by one or more black men.
8 1/2.) They don't want their cracker, small dicked, white clients to feel threatened! Lol.
9.) The majority of black men who try to book are younger and don't have screening references.
10.) They get sick and tired of being called RACIST for declining to meet with said men. (See number 9)

AGAIN, don't shoot the messenger! I have sessioned with enough black men to fill at least 4 or 5 NBA teams. And YES, I realize that is actually 12 reasons... I told you I was BLONDE, didn't I? Lol.

 


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Hungmongus2649 reads

So what exactly turns off most providers when it comes to black men

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quadseasonal2076 reads

I heard once you try blonde you won't go back to  brunettes , black , or red heads .
  I'm often  compulsive , I must avoid addictions .  

Posted By: Hungmongus
So what exactly turns off most providers when it comes to black men?  
 

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BizzaroSuperdude2083 reads

beer with him.  Why? cause he thinks bout the stuff I think about.  

I'm not attracted to black women, however, more than a couple have caused me to be interested in them for while they were attractive, they were no Beyonce, but they had a personality - and long after beauty fades, it is personality that carrys you forward.

But as to what it is... perhaps some cannot get past that initial personal bias as to what excites them.

I've often asked myself, is my preference for certain "ethnicities" racist?  I never reach a hard conclusion, as I like Latinas, Asians and in some instances I prefer Latinas over white women.  But hey, I'm not a provider

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HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil2180 reads

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palomamontecarlo1854 reads

Found mainly in BP ads. I guess it is just under the unfounded presumptions that girls don't feel at ease with them or that Pimps may come their way (friendly reminder that Pimps are not necessarily of any specific racial group). I have met extremely nice, polite and educated gentlemen who belong to that particular racial group, so I do not see the need to make that discriminatory remark but that is me in particular, maybe they have had a bad experience that they are trying to stop from happening again.

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Posted By: Hungmongus
So what exactly turns off most providers when it comes to black men?  
 

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PaulaDeen2152 reads

I mean WTF, there are many who see ya'll so why you complaining about who doesn't?

Nobody likes fucking my fat, old ass, but who am I to complain?  Sheesh

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Heathergfe1960 reads

I don't see that as being the case. I think there is a shrinking number of ladies who were raised in a racist household and cannot shake the deep ingrained fear and loathing that was imparted on them growing up. It defies logic but not everyone is evolved enough to outgrow the brainwashing of their youth.  
There are plenty of providers who are not burdened with this hatred. But looking at your reviews it looks like you are not a savvy shopper.  
And to the racist people out there who feel the need to defend themselves by saying that everyone has different preferences as to hair color/ skin color, etc. Give me a break. You cannot possibly tell me that every white guy you see is exactly your type. We see a wide range of shapes and sizes. That 300lb hairy backed bald white guy is so sexy compared to  a tall good looking black guy. Sure, whatever.

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no_email2082 reads

I'm not racist, but I'll say the black guy is most likely gay.

Hey sweetie, preferences = racism?

Posted By: Heathergfe
I don't see that as being the case. I think there is a shrinking number of ladies who were raised in a racist household and cannot shake the deep ingrained fear and loathing that was imparted on them growing up. It defies logic but not everyone is evolved enough to outgrow the brainwashing of their youth.  
 There are plenty of providers who are not burdened with this hatred. But looking at your reviews it looks like you are not a savvy shopper.  
 And to the racist people out there who feel the need to defend themselves by saying that everyone has different preferences as to hair color/ skin color, etc. Give me a break. You cannot possibly tell me that every white guy you see is exactly your type. We see a wide range of shapes and sizes. That 300lb hairy backed bald white guy is so sexy compared to  a tall good looking black guy. Sure, whatever.

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justanillusion1912 reads

As for how often that gorgeous specimen shows up, hmmm as rare hens teeth. I tell you I would be a hot mess if "The Rock" showed up. Good Lord that man's smile is enough to make my clothes hit the floor with a resounding thud.

But in all fairness, looks rank way down for most ladies in the hobby. Cleanliness and respect are the top contenders. An arrogant prick with a six pack would be kicked to the curb for the bald fat white guy if he was a sweetheart and clean.

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Heathergfe1914 reads

No, preference is not the same as racism. You as the consumer choose height, weight, hair color, skin color, whatever you like. You are choosing the perfect girl of your dreams. And you should be doing that. Just because you have an age/race preference does not make you racist. If i were in the consumer position I would have a laundry list of preferences. But, as the provider it is very narrow minded to have a laundry list of qualifications, especially when it comes to looks. We hope that they are well mannered and freshly showered but looks usually don't play into our decision.  Now if she says "you must be over 6ft tall, no facial hair, full head of blond hair, 33" waist, 44" shoulders, etc", You would think she were crazy. She doesn't say that because she knows that those things don't matter to us in our professional lives. So now skin color matters? If that is what matters yet nothing else about his looks matters then I think it is racist.

I know I am going to regret getting involved with this post and am probably going to self delete soon.

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justanillusion2107 reads

However, for the vast majority I will go out on a limb and merely suggest it has more to do with attitude in general, attitude toward women (and yes that is, for some cultures, directly related to how they treat and view women).  

Given the intimate nature of this business, many cultural attitudes may not bode well. Each lady and gent has their own limits in regard to how well they wish to be treated in this setting.  

The use of the "broad brush" is common here. Since no woman or man could possibly see every human being there is, we generally make our conclusions commensurate with our personal experiences. After a few bad ones, it makes sense not to place oneself in that position again.  

I look at racism as not just skin color but cultural as well. A persons culture, what views they have and how they were taught has way more to do with whom I will see, than the color of skin ever will be.

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no_email1927 reads

I have yet to decide if racism is entirely associated with all things negative.

Racism is the exploitation of preference.

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WondersOfTheWrld2100 reads

illustrates you won't alienate them based on their race and without regard to their culture, class, income, personality and more!  

I have one black client that pays me $5k a month, which is a lot to me even if not to others b/c I only want 6k a month from this income. Together, my white clients make up the rest of the $1k I need.  

If you're looking for clients like the former, I wouldn't worry about your post. The latter? Well, that's a whole different ball game (obviously minor league in terms of money), so be sure to delete your post. lol

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Jacque_Jenesais1823 reads

Gettin freaky with a black man to hip-hop music.

Seeeeeexy!

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random1332331 reads

If you're a hobbyist of color--like yours truly--and a lady declines to see you for that reason, PLEASE JUST MOVE ON!

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Back_In_Black1810 reads

Coco Butter ! And Rap Music ! White girls can't dance and hate the feel of coco butter , the large penis they wish, but most women say its a myth. But they'd fuck Denzel, he hates coco butter , and never saw him with a rapper !

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So what exactly turns off most providers when it comes to black men?  
 

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Jacque_Jenesais2234 reads

I can dance, and can EVEN do the Indie Dip

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Back_In_Black2030 reads

I would be the first to "cut in " if I saw u on the dance floor . Hey , if u show me ur moves I'll show u mine ? xoxo.:)

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I can dance, and can EVEN do the Indie Dip

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cashorcredit2037 reads

because he's too young. Some providers don't see young guys, obese guys, blacks guys or guys with disabilities.

Who cares what the reason is... it maybe discrimination, it maybe racism.. it maybe just personal preference. That's the America that we live in.

When guys post, begging for explanations why woman that you're paying to see won't see you... it really makes you look pathetic.. try this stop begging for pussy and try and actually see the woman that want your business!!

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lustkatrina2111 reads

Just guessing...Black men don't contact me so not sure

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HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil2292 reads

I want to start by saying, I AM AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY WHORE.

I have sessioned with people of every racial group. I have sessioned with people who have immigrated to the US from at least 60 or 70 different coutries. I have sessioned with people of all the major religions. I have sessioned with blind people, deaf people, quadriplegics, paraplegics, people with speach impediments, people missing limbs, people with cerebral palsey, people with tramatic brain injuries, etc etc etc. I have sessioned with people who identify as bisexual. I have also sessioned with people who have some of the oddest fetishes you can imagine.

But to say 'pimps aren't necessarily of any specific racial group"- that's a bunch of freaking PC nonsense! I have had no less than 40 or 50 pimps harass me MERCILESSLY in recent years, trying to recruit me into their "stable." And YES, every single one was a black dude. And YES, I am a blonde girl! Lol.

Do I still see black men? Yes. Do I feel a little bit on edge until I determine they don't have a hidden agenda? YES.

So do you want a 100% honest top 10 reasons why women "don't see black men?" I have seen all of the following reasons listed on message boards time and time again. These don't necessarily reflect my personal views, so please don't shoot the messenger!

1.) Most pimps are black.
2.) Black pimps don't want to risk losing their girls to other pimps.
3.) Some women are racist, plan and simple.
4.) Fear of big black dicks.
4 1/2.) Fear of "pound you into the bed for an hour straight" style of sex.
5.) Fear of robbery or assault based on the racial disparity in crime statistics.
6.) Fear of STDs based on the racial disparity found in CDC statistics.  
7.) Fear of haggling due to the racial disparity found in reported income statistics.
8.) An exagerated PTSD response because they were robbed/hurt by one or more black men.
8 1/2.) They don't want their cracker, small dicked, white clients to feel threatened! Lol.
9.) The majority of black men who try to book are younger and don't have screening references.
10.) They get sick and tired of being called RACIST for declining to meet with said men. (See number 9)

AGAIN, don't shoot the messenger! I have sessioned with enough black men to fill at least 4 or 5 NBA teams. And YES, I realize that is actually 12 reasons... I told you I was BLONDE, didn't I? Lol.

 


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Back_In_Black1794 reads

To live there. Were horrible , the disrespect toward women was and still is appallingly real and beyond belief. Ripping girls clothes off , dry humping them etc. Can't imagine how ( some ) men regard women as objects to treat that way. Its wrong .  

Posted By: HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil
I want to start by saying, I AM AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY WHORE.  
   
 I have sessioned with people of every racial group. I have sessioned with people who have immigrated to the US from at least 60 or 70 different coutries. I have sessioned with people of all the major religions. I have sessioned with blind people, deaf people, quadriplegics, paraplegics, people with speach impediments, people missing limbs, people with cerebral palsey, people with tramatic brain injuries, etc etc etc. I have sessioned with people who identify as bisexual. I have also sessioned with people who have some of the oddest fetishes you can imagine.  
   
 But to say 'pimps aren't necessarily of any specific racial group"- that's a bunch of freaking PC nonsense! I have had no less than 40 or 50 pimps harass me MERCILESSLY in recent years, trying to recruit me into their "stable." And YES, every single one was a black dude. And YES, I am a blond girl! Lol.  
   
 Do I still see black men? Yes. Do I feel a little bit on edge until I determine they don't have a hidden agenda? YES.  
   
 So do you want 100% honest top 10 reasons why women "don't see black men?" I have seen all of the following reasons listed on message boards time and time again. These don't necessarily reflect my personal views, so please don't shoot the messenger!  
   
 1.) Most pimps are black.  
 2.) Black pimps don't want to risk losing their girls to other pimps.  
 3.) Some women are racist, plan and simple.  
 4.) Fear of big black dicks.  
 4.) Fear of "pound you into the bed for an hour straight" style of sex.  
 5.) Fear of robbery or assault based on the racial disparity in crime statistics.  
 6.) Fear of STDs based on the racial disparity found in CDC statistics.  
 7.) Fear of haggling due to the racial disparity found in reported income statistics.  
 8.) An exagerated PTSD response because they were robbed/hurt by one or more black men.  
 8.) They don't want their cracker, small dicked, white clients to feel threatened! Lol.  
 9.) The majority of black men who try to book are younger and don't have screening references.  
 10.) They get sick and tired of being called RACIST for declining to meet with said men. (See number 9)  
   
 AGAIN, don't shoot the messenger! I have sessioned with enough black men to fill at least 4 or 5 NBA teams. Lol.  
   
   
   
   
   
 

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London Rayne2178 reads

Ima go with 4 and 8...the first 4 lol.

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dicktracy1998 reads

I have always

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Elaria2027 reads

Posted By: Hungmongus
So what exactly turns off most providers when it comes to black men?  
 

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Back_In_Black2043 reads

Fucking Hott !! I hit your link and my dick hit me in the head ! Where the fuck did u cum from ! xoxoxo

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Posted By: Hungmongus
So what exactly turns off most providers when it comes to black men?    
 

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Back_In_Black2205 reads

That too last week "carribean cream" its on u tube ! Hey I'm tanning mine this weekend , u like origional , extra crispy , or half n half ? xoxo.

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Ridgetucky2080 reads

@ work so don't have much time (will post more later as I am sure the MF'ers will come out to blast me).

It's called White Privilege.  Some whites cannot simply bear to be on the same level with blacks.  Just as some men in the military cannot stand to be on the same level as females in the military.

A very quick example.  When I started out as an Investment Banker (I was the only black guy in my firm).  Every white guy I met said "oh are you with the commercial bank".  Translation:  you cannot possibly be part of the investment bank.  Why?  I was dressed the same as everyone else,  talked the same, had the same degrees, etc.  That's called white privilege.  Just as some men in the military think that the female CO can't possibly lead them into battle.  "She's a woman after all".

Now as far as some of these hookers go.  Here is how it plays out.  "Well I may fuck guys for a living but at least I don't fuck black guys.  After all what kind of woman do you think I am".

Fuck all the stupid talk about preferences.  There is not a hooker alive that can tell me she somehow prefers to fuck all the white guys she has seen over her career.

*****************NOTE**********************

With all that being said.  I still don't have a problem with a NBA policy.  I mean who gives a shit this is the hobby after all.  My point is STOP BEING PC AND JUST STATE IT OUT LOUD - SOCIETY AS A WHOLE WOULD BE BETTER OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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justanillusion2030 reads

With a lot in this post. You make some very valid points.

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HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil1836 reads

involving pissing on white women and writing words like "whore" and "slut" on said women's bodies using their wife's lipstick! You poor non-VIPers can't read his review history, so you'll just have to trust me on this! Lol.  

PS. I "liked" your post nonetheless, because that's the kind of masochistic white person I am! LMFAO.

PPS. Doesn't it bother you that your unique kink is a KKK propaganda writer's wet dream?

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Dr Who revived2052 reads

Might want to look it up if you really care  LOL

FWIW his post is a good one.  

Posted By: HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil
involving pissing on white women and writing words like "whore" and "slut" on their bodies using your wife's lipstick! You poor non-VIPers can't read his review history, so you'll just have to trust me on this! Lol.  
   
 PS. I "liked" your post nonetheless, because that's the kind of masochistic white person I am! LMFAO.

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cashorcredit1743 reads

I disagree that all woman with that policy are racist... with your logic... woman who don't see young or obese guys are racist as well.

Yeah I would agree some carry racist or feelings of hatred, but not all woman and you're wrong to assume so.

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Dr Who revived1876 reads

that all women with that policy are racist.

His words that he used make sense if you can read...and comprehend.
 

Posted By: cashorcredit
I disagree that all woman with that policy are racist... with your logic... woman who don't see young or obese guys are racist as well.  

Yeah I would agree some carry racist or feelings of hatred, but not all woman and you're wrong to assume so.  

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cashorcredit2012 reads

And I still disagree with his post... I don't think this has anything to do with White Privilege... I could be wrong.. but I doubt it

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Dr Who revived1848 reads

Stick to the facts then...read what Ridge posted and comprehend it.

If you want to debate definitions...we can go that route.  But it isn't what he posted.

You are certainly entitled to disagree with any and all posts...that's what these boards are for.  But don't make up shit when the words are there for all to read!

Posted By: cashorcredit
And I still disagree with his post... I don't think this has anything to do with White Privilege... I could be wrong.. but I doubt it

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cashorcredit2026 reads

Having a unearned sense of entitlement sums up the majority of his post.

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Dr Who revived2148 reads

Me thinks you just don't like ole Ridge and no matter what he wrote it was a POS as far as you're concerned.

No problem...opinions are like assholes...we all have one  

Posted By: cashorcredit
Having a unearned sense of entitlement sums up the majority of his post.  

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cashorcredit2206 reads

I disagree with the post... has nothing to do with dislike or bigotry

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Heathergfe1968 reads

No, they are ageist and sizeist. Not racist.  

Posted By: cashorcredit
I disagree that all woman with that policy are racist... with your logic... woman who don't see young or obese guys are racist as well.  

Yeah I would agree some carry racist or feelings of hatred, but not all woman and you're wrong to assume so.  

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cashorcredit1970 reads

You are correct.

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Hungmongus1825 reads

People discriminate, even providers I was just griping at the ones who aren't forthcoming with it They make no indication in their ad You call them up and they will make plans even though they hear the rich deep mahogany timber of my voice and only after the i's have been dotted and t's crossed does she decide now is a good time to profil

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glowerlord1869 reads

That should give you some real insight into the actual situation.

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Abrakadabra722088 reads

There are white thugs also

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