I am so sorry this happened to you, I know what it's like to be violated by someone you thought you could trust, it's hard be wrong and move forward

First off Cameron is an amazing provider!  She is one of the best if not the best in SD.  That being said I applaud her for coming out in a public forum and attempting to reach out to customers who may have been affected by this person.  We all value our privacy especially in this field whether we are client or hobbiest.  In my opinion she is not airing out her dirty laundry as some may think.  There may actually be clients out there who were affected by this.

Let's put on our thinking caps for a minute and realize that it is not out of the realm of possibility to assume that a jealous client who made a website for her could have gained access to her email and used that access to delete emails or send emails to potential clients.  People do crazy things when they are "in love".  Let's remember this is a biz and insinuating that she caused this by making him fall in love is ridiculous, offensive and disrespectful.  It is her job to make us feel like we are the only thing that matters!!  If we cannot handle that or if we loose site of that then we should not be in this biz.   A hopeless romantic??? How can anyone justify what is happening to Cameron by saying its just a hopless romantic.  All is fair in love and war???  Really all is fair???  It's one thing to be jealous or fall in love.  As hobbiest I'm sure we have all fallen in love on some level with a provider or atf.  It is no ok for us to take that next step!!!  No one wants the drama especially in a biz that is supposed to be cut and dry pay for play.

How come this so-called stalker is not interfering with the same exact topic which you have posted on the other local So. Cal boards? Granted that this is where you are based out of, but apart from one or two other characters playing the role of a white knights, I do not see anyone stalking you!

why would these "guys" come out to bash cameron, on a post that all she said is she changed her website and has a stalker?  all these are aliases and accounts with no other post history?

why would "they" have a beef with her?  

how would RUKiddingMe  know her business has "suffered"?  why would he out her older name?  

why would joedimagio54 want Cameron to resolve her differences with the stalker, and call the stalker a "hopeless romantic"?  these are the things the stalker would say right?  

and she did get fake reviews, I have seen them.

if this guy knows how to build websites, he would know how to have multiple accounts on here, logging on from multiple IP addresses, that's not hard to do.  

it's so clear what's going on, Cameron, just ignore him, don't give him any satisfaction that anything he does has an effect on you.  

Here is what I think:

1- I think Cameron was trying to make a prempive strike against a bad review that may/not be coming soon. I think someone contacted her about her service and was disappointed. She then posted this to reduce the credibility of the person who may try and leave a bad yet accurate review. I think she is taking advantage of the fact that there was someone who recently submitted a review in which it expresses certain things that were VERY gross and unflattering with a 2 rating I believe. There is the possibility there is a stalker but if there were she would have blacklisted his info somewhere (ladies, check around I don't usually access those lists) or she would have exposed the person here to help protect other ladies. Neither (to my knowledge) has been done thus the credibility if the stalker tail goes down the tubes so also.

2- anyone else think it's weird a thread was up just before this one saying that a top rated lady was acting insane and not replying to the person and that he was conflicted about a submitting a review for concern regarding a possible threat made toward him? The timing of these posts are suspect.

3- aliases: I am willing to bet all the money I made this September that the people posting under aliases are PROVIDERS not hobbyists. Reread the alias posts. The posters are knocking her. I don't know but I think if I had seen her as a guy and was sad about my expenditure I would review it or leave before things got going then review it. If u did nothing wrong then she will have to go to great lengths to submit a blacklist or post ur info elsewhere. Idk about other ladies but I just don't have time to do that over reviews. Now a safety concern... I'll make time.

4- cameron's old name: that was CLASSLESS to post that info: IMO: provider move (back to alias issue).

5- personally I think the aliases need to be exposed in this thread. I am posting my take without meanness or saying "your not a 9 or 10" as that is CHILDISH. if u were a real hobbyist u would submit a review here or elsewhere. U would also have posted that contest in a guy only area. Why bash her here unless Ur a woman jumping on the "we cab take down the san Diego top provider" bandwagon.

6- Cameron: let this be a lesson to u: post Leninist safety issues that affect us all not a vague post that can be read a number of ways. I personally feel there is A LOT more to this and I think along the lines of my number one reply.

Good to see you back! I did try an contact you quite some time ago, but thought you had moved on.

Is your phone number the same it was one year ago?