Well, there's a bottom to trust. Like, "I'm not going to hurt you" or "I'm not going to rob you." You need that to open the door. But there are activities you often can't engage in until you've established a rapport with your provider over several visits.

Not until you've proven you deserve it.  

I don't mistrust people, but its important to be aware, especially as a provider. I don't assume that a client won't leave an envelope, or will try to slip the cover off, or worse... but that doesn't mean I should immediately trust that it won't happen either.

Why? Because a client has no reason to lie to a hooker. I am not asking him for anything other than what we agree on. It still amazes me how fkin naive I am when it comes to who I trust.

If I just met you, I'll probably have little issue with a BBBJ; however, we should probably save the ropes for the second date.