In the last few years I have had condom breaking incidents 2x. First a couple years ago, went,  ran and douched. Then last week,  again.  Did same thing.  

I just got blood drawn a couple days before,  but I figure I'll wait 3-4 weeks and redo. The guy seemed great, so I'm sure everything is fine, but iit's appropriate to get checked.  I don't offer bbfs like many providers (so my questions aren't for you ladies).

So few days ago, when it happened I kept apologizing. I felt really low, and I felt like I did something wrong. It wasn't a great feeling,  and I'm wondering fo you just feel like "shit happens" send just get over it, or do you blame yourself?  Do you blame him?