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....been turned off by posts and/or PMs.  It was once said "better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth (post on ter) and remove all doubt.

So how many of you book a gal based off of her posts? What was the deciding factor or what caught your attention? Was the lady the same as you thought based upon her posts?

How many inquiries do you ladies get based solely off of your posts?

Some posters (guys and gals) are true to their personality (of which I am, minus the fact that I am more reserved in personal life... Not so reserved when meeting guys in this though). Whereas other posters make up a personality, be it for entertainment or business reasoning.

Seems lately I have been getting a lot of calls based on my posts, which is odd as TER is not big in my area. Didn't even know that some of them read the GD!

My comments and posts interest them to look at my reviews/profile page/website. Then after reading the above info, that is what got them to call to see me or email me for an appt.  

 
So in a indirect way, sure lol  

I am the same in person, well except I do not talk this damn much lmbo...If I am free to talk too much, then I am doing SOMETHING wrong lol

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a lot of girl's I have decided to not contact because of their post's , more than the other way around

The services and looks matter the most, then the price, and finally personality.  

That being said, if there is tie, I will go with someone who has fun and laid back personality..

And if she likes my Nats, that's icing on the cake... :D

clicked on my website from Chat... he loved my services, and how I describe executing them... he said I was pretty and he is attracted to BBW's ( not all think so, I am not for every taste) so CORRECT in services and looks as the first thing that made him want to see me...

I do not think price WAS TOO much a issue, but it was right in his budget... The personality he saw thru my email and our phone call

so I do agree with your assessment....

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Its kinda like your credit score with a job interview these days. A good one doesnt get you the gig, but a bad one can lose you a potential job.

really??? a toddler??? Now I REALLY feel old! ugh

who is under most gals age limit but yet still will give him an exception as he is such a great guy.

I used to ROLLER SKATE to YMCA and CELEBRATION lmao  

I was born in the 70's so I feel old now lol  

God I remember the first time I heard Madonna on the radio lmao  

My friend called and said put such and such station on....  

And there she was singing "like a virgin" I was so shocked lmao  

I ran and told my mom  

" mom! omg she said VIRGIN on the radio" lo

Posted By: CaitlynKennedy
really??? a toddler??? Now I REALLY feel old! ugh

If you honestly find someone's posts to be indicative of how they would be in session...I think that you may be out of touch with reality.

So many post drivel and the lemmings just follow the flow...but you should (and I know you do) realize that is, in many instances, just BS for entertainments sake.

I can't tell you how many folks I've bantered with by PM/email that just get this whole board persona crap.  There's always an outlier who still misses the entertainment portion....and generally they don't stick around too long.  

But as so many here know...it's almost (as in never) about us if a gal (or a guy) disappears.  But the true narcissists believe they have "driven someone off"....so be it.  That is rarely (as in never) the case!
 

Posted By: ImOkYouSuck
.....................with my 10 foot pole.

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Is it 100% fail safe? Of course not. Is it POSSSIBLY indicative of the person I may meet in session. Of course so. If its $100 we are talking about, no harm, no foul. But half a K? Fuck that bro. You can roll the dice on that one. She's all yours.

I think you might be forgetting she is the "business" and each and every time she posts she says something about her brand. It's one thing to go off the rails once in a awhile. Almost everyone does that. That broad did so on such a constant basis to "scare" this "buyer", and probably many others, away.

Got to be a balance. Nice to meet the gals who have everything rosy... but nicer to meet the honest ones. Just not the bitter ones who are BSC!!! Somewhere in the middle is great for me if I was a guy.  

Most gals will post under an alias if they have something off the wall to say. I am a beotch, and will post under my own name. I take it as a part of who I am. Sorry, but I believe being me (within respectful boundaries) is the true way to go. I can be blunt but not a jerk off. It is all about how you type things. I can think of 2 ladies that are WAY more blunt than me. Both still give respect to others and that is the key. Say what you want but do it classy.

Unless of course Gambler tells me it's a lock  :D

I rarely see any hookers really "advertising" on the GD boards.  Some call it that, but I simply look at reads on a post and Lord only knows where those prospects may be from...likely not in that particular hookers area anyhow.  Of course you have the brown envelopes that may also be babbling...but since they don't have their TER page attached who knows where they may be located  LOL

I suspect you've had more than one back channel exchange with someone here.  And, at least in my experience, that one on one is a very different discussion than the, at times blatant attack/defensive posts that the same poster might otherwise put up.

If you can't effectively screen someone after a number of correspondence in whatever format works best for you (including reviews), then we have to agree to disagree on this one.

And if some hooker posting scares YOU (or any john) away...perhaps that was the intention?  LOL

Posted By: ImOkYouSuck
Is it 100% fail safe? Of course not. Is it POSSSIBLY indicative of the person I may meet in session. Of course so. If its $100 we are talking about, no harm, no foul. But half a K? Fuck that bro. You can roll the dice on that one. She's all yours.  
   
 I think you might be forgetting she is the "business" and each and every time she posts she says something about her brand. It's one thing to go off the rails once in a awhile. Almost everyone does that. That broad did so on such a constant basis to "scare" this "buyer", and probably many others, away.

Yes, but...In the case of "you know who" her ability to go BSC on someone who posted something quite benign simply because she didn't like him from earlier posts, made me certain I'd never see her.  Because who wants to be tip-toeing around someone so as not to set them off?

But the likelihood is you wouldn't see someone strictly from their GD posts.  You would want to chat somewhat to see if the board BS is real.  You and I have chatted and clearly both of our posts at times are nothing more than BS...contrary to popular belief  LOL

So if by back channel you found some hooker to be interesting you still wouldn't see her because of some board babbling (after having back channel with them)?  No problem...to each their own.

Honestly, you know MP better than most.  If posting was a criteria for seeing someone...he'd never have had any luck  LOL  Plenty of others fall into that bucket as well, including yours truly  :D

Posted By: inicky46
Yes, but...In the case of "you know who" her ability to go BSC on someone who posted something quite benign simply because she didn't like him from earlier posts, made me certain I'd never see her.  Because who wants to be tip-toeing around someone so as not to set them off?

It's true I wouldn't see someone strictly because of her posts.  I'd also have to like her pix and reviews.
As for Mikey, believe it or not, there are girls who like his posts -- especially because, despite his nuttiness, he tends to WK -- back channel him, call him and sometimes see him OTC.  Go figya

The babble here was the issue of seeing someone based on posts.

Many of "us" have had the hookers contact us because of our posts...and most of the time with an interest in meeting.  Hard to imagine that...considering the absolute nonsense that most of the posts tend to be  LOL

OTC....no fucking way.  All the gals say on the boards they would NEVER do that  LOL

Posted By: inicky46
It's true I wouldn't see someone strictly because of her posts.  I'd also have to like her pix and reviews.  
 As for Mikey, believe it or not, there are girls who like his posts -- especially because, despite his nuttiness, he tends to WK -- back channel him, call him and sometimes see him OTC.  Go figya.  
 

Well, as he says himself, "I'm Mikey!  I'm adorable!"
It's weird but it works.  I've seen it.

Yea...like you, I and a shitload of others don't see OTC.  LOLOLOLOL  (Did you notice the sarcasm this time)?  LOL

And yet the hookers scream..."We don't do that".  Of course you don't...and I won't tell either!

Paying to listen to anyone babble...I just won't.  Neither will most guys...unless you're firmly part of Manginas-R-Us

 

Posted By: inicky46
Well, as he says himself, "I'm Mikey!  I'm adorable!"  
 It's weird but it works.  I've seen it.

Funny you say that, because there has been a few posters over the years that I will not meet because of what they post. In fact, it isn't just with the guys as I have said no to doubles with a lady or two because of the whole BSC.

I am pretty understanding on not judging off of posts (as some on here like to entertain/play around) but I have seen some posts in the past years that I would be concerned for any lady that had met those certain guys.

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Now I honestly dont put a whole lotta weight into someone's posts. Chgo makes a good point about this. But its a trend kinda thing for me. If its constant and consistent and man hatter-ish, why the fuck would I risk my hard earned money and more than that, risk me being in the same room with that nutsy fagan broad when there are a million other hookers who portray themselves on here as rational and happy?  

It would be an act of self destruction to go against my better judgement, experience and common sense to meet with a hooker I didnt trust. Of course I weigh all the other actors too. But in the end, too many stable girls to play with to risk some BSC girl from possibly yelling rape in a hotel lobby or just acting wacko in my session. I dont need that bullshit in my life.

Might be their board persona and in real life, be what most want to avoid. Or at least enough to make you go Hmmmm when in session.

I think we can agree to agree that only a VERY small percentage of hookers/johns post on these boards.  I'm not talking about an ad on their local ad board...but the other boards where a discussion may ensue.

Frankly I believe that the gals I know (either having seen them BCD or not), less than 5% have ever written a post.  That leaves the overwhelming majority of gals a clear unknown.  Maybe you've been polar opposite...but I doubt that.

So using that example, you walk into EVERY session only knowing what some john wrote in a review.  YOU have no other basis to determine if the gal is BSC or not.  

I do agree that if a gal who posts simply turns you off...no reason to waste a second discussing any future possibilities.  But that is a very personal choice.  But just like you using an alias to post up...I tend to read posts in a different light than perhaps you do.

Posted By: ImOkYouSuck
Now I honestly dont put a whole lotta weight into someone's posts. Chgo makes a good point about this. But its a trend kinda thing for me. If its constant and consistent and man hatter-ish, why the fuck would I risk my hard earned money and more than that, risk me being in the same room with that nutsy fagan broad when there are a million other hookers who portray themselves on here as rational and happy?  
   
 It would be an act of self destruction to go against my better judgement, experience and common sense to meet with a hooker I didnt trust. Of course I weigh all the other actors too. But in the end, too many stable girls to play with to risk some BSC girl from possibly yelling rape in a hotel lobby or just acting wacko in my session. I dont need that bullshit in my life.

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My argument only needs to make sense to ME, nobody else. If you have dfferent criteria to screen your gals, so be it. Like I said, I dont put THAT much stock in hooker verbal diarrhea. Its WAY down my list.

But if I have a choice between two hookers and everything else is the same, but one is nutzoid in her posting history over a long period and consistently shows a propensity for man hating and another hooker who always shows stability and happiness, I am going to choose the latter.  

But maybe you wouldn't. My argument MAY break down for YOU, but it works just fine for me chief.

But I also guess that you didn't really read my reply either.

No problem...but your commenting that you don't put much stock in hooker verbal diarrhea followed by you won't see a hooker because of her posting history...well, I don't need to argue that logic  LOL

Whatever works for you  :D

Posted By: ImOkYouSuck
My argument only needs to make sense to ME, nobody else. If you have dfferent criteria to screen your gals, so be it. Like I said, I dont put THAT much stock in hooker verbal diarrhea. Its WAY down my list.  
   
 But if I have a choice between two hookers and everything else is the same, but one is nutzoid in her posting history over a long period and consistently shows a propensity for man hating and another hooker who always shows stability and happiness, I am going to choose the latter.  
   
 But maybe you wouldn't. My argument MAY break down for YOU, but it works just fine for me chief.

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But if thats your schtick, so be it. I have been consistent in saying it is ONE of many factors and it is WAY down the list of priorities.  

Once again, I dont put MUCH stock in it, for MOST girls. By saying I dont put MUCH stock into it doesnt mean I dont put ANY stock in what they say, or is that above your pay grade? You should be smarter than this to play these stupid semantical games but, I play along with you b/c I guess you are bored today

But you have been here long enough to know that you need to own what you write.  I simply commented on what you wrote.  If that isn't what you meant to write...don't post it and expect me to be a mind reader as to what you meant to say.

I also don't have a pay grade.  Never did...never will.  Perhaps one day you'll understand why not.

Now we can move along or you can keep on digging...your choice.

Posted By: ImOkYouSuck
But if thats your schtick, so be it. I have been consistent in saying it is ONE of many factors and it is WAY down the list of priorities.  
   
 Once again, I dont put MUCH stock in it, for MOST girls. By saying I dont put MUCH stock into it doesnt mean I dont put ANY stock in what they say, or is that above your pay grade? You should be smarter than this to play these stupid semantical games but, I play along with you b/c I guess you are bored today.  
   
 

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And you are proving that right now. And I cant dig when it's you holding the shovel.

I've actually got to know several ladies that post here.
Most of the time I've known them for several months before we hooked up.
When we do finally meet, it's pretty cool.
Been waiting a couple of yrs to see one and I will.

Posted By: SexyflirtAmber
So how many of you book a gal based off of her posts? What was the deciding factor or what caught your attention? Was the lady the same as you thought based upon her posts?  
   
 How many inquiries do you ladies get based solely off of your posts?  
   
 Some posters (guys and gals) are true to their personality (of which I am, minus the fact that I am more reserved in personal life... Not so reserved when meeting guys in this though). Whereas other posters make up a personality, be it for entertainment or business reasoning.  
   
 Seems lately I have been getting a lot of calls based on my posts, which is odd as TER is not big in my area. Didn't even know that some of them read the GD!

I'd say a little over half the gals I've seen were as a result of being impressed by their board posts.  Of course there has to be good reviews, and I have to like what I see, and the money has to be right also.

The others I've seen were because they knocked me out with their looks, or they came highly recommended by either hobbyists or providers whose advice I value.

I'm always telling gals who want to know how to succeed in this business to mix it up on their local boards, or other boards.

Of course there's a few gals I've crossed off my list as a result of their posts - it's a double edged sword.

I have no complaints so far as to how this system is working.

Both by ladies I have never seen and ladies I have seen. I have seen a couple of new ladies based on PM communication, gotten back in touch with ladies I saw in the past and had one sort of pen pal communication with a lady who reached out to me, but we never did meet.

And I am not that active on the boards.

My experience with ladies who approached me based on PMs from the board have been decidedly mixed - it is flattering in a sense to be pursued, but it seems like they are not often going to be the type of lady I most enjoy. My impression is that there is something of a type of guy and lady who are active here (not the same type - one type of guy, one type of lady) and if that is the type that rows your boat, this will work well as a way to meet someone; if not, it will not work.

I also know at least one guy who is very active and had lots of lady friend board buddies. Like anything else, it seems to work out that if you post, you will meet people, make some "friends" whether you intend to or not.

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Posted By: SexyflirtAmber
So how many of you book a gal based off of her posts? What was the deciding factor or what caught your attention? Was the lady the same as you thought based upon her posts?  
   
 How many inquiries do you ladies get based solely off of your posts?  
   
 Some posters (guys and gals) are true to their personality (of which I am, minus the fact that I am more reserved in personal life... Not so reserved when meeting guys in this though). Whereas other posters make up a personality, be it for entertainment or business reasoning.  
   
 Seems lately I have been getting a lot of calls based on my posts, which is odd as TER is not big in my area. Didn't even know that some of them read the GD!
I have seen someone because of interest piqued by her posts. Her attitude and personality came through. That interest was followed up with PM's. I found we agreed on some things. Her pictures and reviews further confirmed she was someone I would be interested in seeing . Yes, she was what I expected and I have repeated. This is true of several ladies I've seen. Some from another board that no longer exists.

Their thoughtful and witty posts piqued my interest in them and after a few PMs we ended up meeting. So having a board presence can help a lady get inquiries.

I had one guy specifically say he contacted me because of a comment I made on my local board. He was fun! I have also made a couple other lovely friends via the board. But these are by no means a majority of the gents I see. They are dear ones, but few.

I have found, however, that I am much more compatible with someone when we have had a board relationship or when we have had extensive communication prior to meeting. Seduction starts in the head. ;)

So yes, I agree. For those of us for whom  personality and shared values are important, the things you chose to write about, what you say,  and the way you express yourself can be a very important factor.

Mutual interests and shared perspectives make for delicious experiences. :)

Posted By: SoftlySarah
I had one guy specifically say he contacted me because of a comment I made on my local board.  

I have found, however, that I am much more compatible with someone when we have had a board relationship or when we have had extensive communication prior to meeting. Seduction starts in the head. ;)

I don't know that I have ever seen a lady strictly because of what she posts, but what she posts is almost always what first attracts me to contact her.

Or, when I used to post more, and more in depth. I find that people who book me based off my personality first, enjoy me more than those who book based off of other things.

Physical attraction can only go so far, but when two people genuinely click, just being together can be half the fun (and maybe more.)

there is defintely a provider I'd see. Small pussy and all....

if I guess correctly??? :D

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
there is defintely a provider I'd see. Small pussy and all....

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It's the opposite for me; I am willing to see all providers, as long as I find them attractive, until they say something wrong on the boards. I don't mind disagreeing on points, but if they attack another provider or something of that nature, it's a problem.

Posted By: FBSM
It's the opposite for me; I am willing to see all providers, as long as I find them attractive, until they say something wrong on the boards. I don't mind disagreeing on points, but if they attack another provider or something of that nature, it's a problem.
Similar here.  If I see a lot of drama and/or a history of attacking others then they come off my list of providers I would consider.  I use posts as a final check when I can.  Sometimes the posts confirm the impression from the person's web site or ads. When that happens, it motivates me to proceed.  If the posts conflict with the image, then I will back away.

The way this has turned out is that posters who spend most of their time on regional boards seem to draw my attention and business.  On this Board, not so much.  Way to much drama and squabbling for my taste.  A generalization I know, but that is how it is working out for me so far.  

Most of the people I have seen don't post at all.

my regional board is dead! And if I started posting on random regional bords then it WOULD be trolling imho

Well that sort of stuff is an indicator of how they are in RL. Us gals "should" behave as it is in the best interest of us personally... not that I follow that. I can't even think of a time I straight up got pissed at anyone over the past 5-6 years. I do behave but not because I have to, just how things have ended up.

What you said, is a warning red flag. If she is willing to mess with another gal or even a guy (who don't deserve it), then she has no respect for her business in my book.

Posted By: FBSM
It's the opposite for me; I am willing to see all providers, as long as I find them attractive, until they say something wrong on the boards. I don't mind disagreeing on points, but if they attack another provider or something of that nature, it's a problem.

Either you are too fucking dumb or playing the dumb ones here.

1) Looking at how many on-topic replies there are to her question, it seems you may be in the minority about how dumb a question it is.

2) Would you prefer a board that is essentially dead while everyone ponders whether their question is "good enough" to be worthy of posting?

....been turned off by posts and/or PMs.  It was once said "better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth (post on ter) and remove all doubt.

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I most definitely only see providers that I've read about in TER. I've seen providers in the past that I haven't read reviews about in here, and they were miserable. Now on to the question of seeing a gal based upon her posts. I will be seeing 2 such ladies soon. I think that their posts illustrate their personalities. Sure, the main reason why I see a provider is her action, but my favorite girls are just as amazing during the down time as they are during the action. So, getting a glimse of their personality is helpful to anticipating the down time.

people are always different to their on line persona I come across as a bitch but am the sweetest yet straight forward person.

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