Lets say you'd rather. Spend longer time with one guy, whom your very compatable with. Which may entail making more or less depending on his situation.
At one time for example when I was 27 , went for an appt at a referral from a friend. He paid he was young and good lookin , we had good chemistry.
We began havn some feelings.
I began havn more and more of an issue with doing apps. Again he had paid me the three hundred and I got along with him. So then all sudden goin and doin an appt again for same rate but on opposite spectrum with some one your totally uncomfortable with. Can be a disappointment after doin apps with one you legitimately in real life attracted too and happy being around.
Sure you can make the best of it durin apps but to really be enjoying it and truly hit off with one.
Like me and this guy did. Well turns out he also was nt enjoying the fact I was off doin calls. Some how he sits me down asks me to list off my expenses, rent cabl cell phone ect.
My entire living expenses were very small.
He offered to simply just take care the for me.
And it was extremely bizarre he had another girl he d have over certain nights he also helped but it wasn't quite a two way street . He agreed ok if I super really need xtra we agreed on three regulars I was close too at that time he was ok with if I really wanted too. Only to be fair he had another girl or sugar baby as well.
Any how.
May seem complicated but to me at that time I was certainly more happy sleepin over his house every nightly in girlfriend and he helped me with everything. And I then didn't even have to do the uncomfortable apps I was beginning to dread ee Italy after having some feelings develope with him and truly enjoyin being with him, that's all I cared about. Yes I could've ignored my feelings for him, kept Hustlin and goin no where being empty and havn nothing with substance and doin my apps. But it was good I got to continue havn rent and things taken care of and got to spend all my energy on him with him.
Sure there s more money to be made it depends I believe a sugar baby would have to be some one you click with because your not counting hours your helping them out.
I suppose a girl who isn't after the biggest bang for the buck but maybe searching for comfort ability over profit.
Granted I could've ignored my sincere feelings for him and chased the money at that time it wasn't really fun for me nor was havn an easy time snapping myself into that mindset where you do need to be able to pretend and act very very well.
I am lucky he was able to help me and it worked out ok for us for a while.
It worked for me I much rather hang with him than have had to do all the apps to get the rent n things together. And he made the offer too not wantin me to do it so. It worked out well for us both.
I think you can't compare that to escorting but I am sure every one has different picture of what that relationship would consist of and things.
Hey has anyone had the above experiences with any advice they can share?
Thanks.
Make sure you discuss all the expectations prior to making any arrangement this is very tricky & you want to make sure both parties are happy with the situation.
Good luck!
Lets say you'd rather. Spend longer time with one guy, whom your very compatable with. Which may entail making more or less depending on his situation.
At one time for example when I was 27 , went for an appt at a referral from a friend. He paid he was young and good lookin , we had good chemistry.
We began havn some feelings.
I began havn more and more of an issue with doing apps. Again he had paid me the three hundred and I got along with him. So then all sudden goin and doin an appt again for same rate but on opposite spectrum with some one your totally uncomfortable with. Can be a disappointment after doin apps with one you legitimately in real life attracted too and happy being around.
Sure you can make the best of it durin apps but to really be enjoying it and truly hit off with one.
Like me and this guy did. Well turns out he also was nt enjoying the fact I was off doin calls. Some how he sits me down asks me to list off my expenses, rent cabl cell phone ect.
My entire living expenses were very small.
He offered to simply just take care the for me.
And it was extremely bizarre he had another girl he d have over certain nights he also helped but it wasn't quite a two way street . He agreed ok if I super really need xtra we agreed on three regulars I was close too at that time he was ok with if I really wanted too. Only to be fair he had another girl or sugar baby as well.
Any how.
May seem complicated but to me at that time I was certainly more happy sleepin over his house every nightly in girlfriend and he helped me with everything. And I then didn't even have to do the uncomfortable apps I was beginning to dread ee Italy after having some feelings develope with him and truly enjoyin being with him, that's all I cared about. Yes I could've ignored my feelings for him, kept Hustlin and goin no where being empty and havn nothing with substance and doin my apps. But it was good I got to continue havn rent and things taken care of and got to spend all my energy on him with him.
Sure there s more money to be made it depends I believe a sugar baby would have to be some one you click with because your not counting hours your helping them out.
I suppose a girl who isn't after the biggest bang for the buck but maybe searching for comfort ability over profit.
Granted I could've ignored my sincere feelings for him and chased the money at that time it wasn't really fun for me nor was havn an easy time snapping myself into that mindset where you do need to be able to pretend and act very very well.
I am lucky he was able to help me and it worked out ok for us for a while.
It worked for me I much rather hang with him than have had to do all the apps to get the rent n things together. And he made the offer too not wantin me to do it so. It worked out well for us both.
I think you can't compare that to escorting but I am sure every one has different picture of what that relationship would consist of and things.
I envisioned a monthly prix fixe sort of all-you-can-eat pussy buffet. It ended up being a hooker-on-retainer who couldn't never deliver in billable hours.
The (few) honest ethical providers aside on this next politically incorrect, but completely accurate statement: whenever you give a whore money you better get your fuck right then or you will simply get fucked over.
Close to him in fact and he still comes and makes suggestions for me to down size, my apt now is twice cost my apt when I was with him seven years ago. I suppose I upped the anti , but he still comes for three hour session pays well understands I am keepin it business now and not lookin for a ad but workin towards a goal. He got sex every single night sometimes all night he was 32 I was twenty seven . He was very tough. Bry handsome, very funny and successful. It was a lot of fun or me. I am ok with make less and stuff if it means being happy.
And here I was tryn to be business like again and now looks like I may be getn into another similar situation very soon. Hopefully, with again a extremely attractive generous client I wAt more with n they do too.
S for me I do disappear for periods and go run off with sugar daddy type situations. .
I am sure many ladies do, and I am sure many stay focused and bank it and have truck loads of money to show for it. It depends on the personal. Some people aren't tough nough to continue this work long periods and are more than happy to go take up an offer n make a tad less in turn , not every ones cut out for this long . I think it have to be extremely mentally strong women to stay long stretches in the biz.
For me I do it here n again the always end up getn a ad situation and will then disappear. I did it for a year at 22 then again met older man got one too moved in he helped me out I went to school he was thirteen years older n he definitely provided for me,
Hmm I don't know I think there are again it's still get. Help for. Sme one, just less hard core n cut throt as timing the session and also meetin with a lot offering new ones where u have no idea what's o n be expected of you or how uncomfortable it could be if your sketched out by them, you make more being a hard core escort but it's not for every one.
Your stream of consciousness is something to behold . . . Quite entertaining, gives me a headache sometimes, but entertaining.