I just don't like being with anyone that long lol, so it would have to be someone I actually want to be with, am REALLY attracted to, and have a good time with. Him being a nice guy, is not enough for such an extended venture. It can feel like a stale marriage after that 2nd day
how many of you have traveled with or met a provider/gent at a destination hot spot...if so, where did you go and for how long? and how would you define your overall experience?................and of course, would you ever do it again?
It takes a small airplane about 90 minutes to get over to the Exumas from here in south Florida. I told them what was planned, but was a little vaugue because its hard to put into words just how fun and beautiful it is . Met them at the little airstrip , dropped off their luggage and then a COLD beer on the balcony of the house while I pointed out the jettskiis sitting there just waiting for us.
I rotated 3 ladies in and out in a weeks stay. I LOVE tiny bikinis and one lady left me speechless so she stayed for the remainder. She even then got the royal trreatment - Paid a local to go to my favorite deserted beach and hide all the needed supplies for a nice dinner. Blanket, cooler and wine , lobster , conch .......Beached the jettskiis as the sun was going down and went and retrieved all the goodies left for us - WHAT A NIGHT THAT WAS !!!!
I have 2 jetskiis that I leave there, so we just explored every little deserted island and beach . Went snorkling , swam with the pigs, had dinner at the yatch club , and just had a blast laying around , drinking and having sex on some of the most beautiful beachs that exsist anywhere !
I do it about 3 or 4 times a year and have NEVER found anything better !!!
for couple of reasons...
A) Budget: Instead of spending $5000-6000 on a girl over the weekend, I would rather use that money for entire year to see a lot more providers for 60-90 min. appointments..
B) Compatibility - One has to be compatible outside the bedroom. If someone is going to get drunk at night and then not wake up till the crack of noon or smoke around me, then the person is not compatible with me. I have heard some horror stories of women waking up super late or spending way too much time getting ready from the boys, and they vowed that they would rather get to their destination and see local girls than take someone else with them in the future
Oh, and we went there afterwards, not before. Then she bought us dinner. The Museum of Modern Art is next.
I meant more 'vacation' style, but any place works...and both museums are awesome. However, I prefer the Met myself. Was just at MOMA looking for inspiration and didn't find it...altho the pollen exhibit was quite interesting I must say.
I have never traveled with a provider.
Before I have a date with a provider, I do a fair amount of preparation. I brush and floss my teeth several hours before hand (you shouldn't do that kind of thing immediately before seeing someone because your gums may still be raw--give them an hour or two to heal up). I take a long shower, and if I have the time, I'll soak in the tub for a while after my shower to make sure that I am completely clean. I'll shave as closely as possible. I completed a series of laser hair removal treatments on my nether regions, but I go over them very carefully before a session to shave off any stray hairs that have grown back (there are usually five or 10 growing at any given time). If it's an out call, I will take time to clean my room up so that it's very tidy--I put all of my belongings into the closet or the dresser, and I put hand towels and wash cloths on the bed stands. I even bring candles if I have space for them in my luggage. If it's an in call, I bring antimicrobial wipes with me and clean myself in the parking lot before I go into the hotel as a last minute freshener.
I am probably more particular about hygiene and most guys, but that's just how I am. The point is that I don't think I could maintain that for an entire weekend or week if I spent it with a provider. And if I require all of that preparation, I can only imagine what the provider would need to go through to be properly prepared to be in the presence of a hobbyist. I can't possibly expect somebody to maintain all of that, plus a GFE persona, for an entire vacation.
It just seems like the magic would wear off fairly quickly.
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The provider got quite bored with me after about two hours. Others maybe good at this, but after a good boning, I've got nothing for the lady...
We had a blast in our own private Villa with a jacuzzi. I enjoyed sun bathing nude all weekend. Review soon to come...
Wow...sounds awesome indeed!!!
It can happen, you just have to believe.
If you establish awesome correspondence beforehand, you can truly have a great time. But the communication has to be there on both parts to be successful for both parties.
That was nice of him to let you post on TER this weekend, whilst being paid. I need to find some guys like that lol.
your bed would be the ideal hot spot i would love to visit..
LMAO...first of all Mac...very cute, made me giggle on this yukky Monday morning before I head on out. Second of all...haha, thank you, but my bed is for me and me alone LOL. That is not the hot spot I was thinking of, but cute nonetheless.
I just don't like being with anyone that long lol, so it would have to be someone I actually want to be with, am REALLY attracted to, and have a good time with. Him being a nice guy, is not enough for such an extended venture. It can feel like a stale marriage after that 2nd day
"Stale marriage" is a tautology.
The museum of sex with mr. Fisher. All the girls kept flirting with him. ....
LOL, I bet!!!
My best travel dates have always been with sugar daddies, not so much with escort clients, though I can think of a few that were awesome.
Recently went to Vegas with one of my regulars and we had a great time. But everytime we would take a break and go gamble our seperate ways she would get hit on. I saw it a couple times and she shut them down with real grace that i haven't seen before, very nice. We've talked about doing it again already and i'm looking forward to it.
The longest was Bali for a week with two gals.
I have only had one outright disaster where the gal actually bailed on me, so I left early. She texted me later apologizing and wanting to come over but I was almost at the airport by then.
Another time a gal left right after I got into bed to sleep and said she'd be back in an hour, but didn't show up till dawn. That had me freaked out that she got murdered or something.
Other than two two incidents, all went smoothly. My typical experience is a day or two, and I often go to New York or Chicago.
I traveled quite often with my gentlemen friends. Seattle, Vegas, Carmel, Santa Fe, New York, Paris (twice), London (many times), Vancouver, Montreal, and some others that might not sound so exciting. I don't have the freedom now to travel so much, but I really loved it. I was fortunate that I adored my friends, and all were pretty darned fascinating. The length ranged from 2 days to a week. I would absolutely do it again if I had the time and freedom.
Lanai Hawaii and we stayed at the Four Seasons Manele Bay! We went for 4 days, and I absolutely LOVED Lanai and the hotel was AMAZING!
The experience was very odd, he paid me to be his companion and he was going to Scuba Dive during day, and I did my own thing. But once there, we basically ignored me, had dinner with me 2x, breakfast one time, and we did nothing together nor had sex???
I truly felt as if I was on vacation alone. I mean, yes I had a relaxing time, it would have been more fun to have him to do things with.. Also we had sex before, so not sure why not here?
I really did not understand why I went...
I most definitely would do it again, but this time with someone who will spend a LITTLE time with me lol
leave it well alone things can go wrong in this biz on a daily basis and then you are well peed off if you travelled all that way.
IS the deal that the provider gets the vacation paid for, but nothing else. That is a lot of days away from whatever regular work you do, etc. As a hobbyist my fantasy would be to go to a all inclusive clothing optional resort with a provider for a few days to a week. Not sure it is treating the provider right to not pay for time but I would take that deal.