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updating my answer with a more well-thought out post.

The reason a gent picks me is less important than the fact that he did pick me. I am grateful to have been chosen, and I have been blessed with kind and sweet gentlemen.

But obviously I am going to have a better rapport with someone who chooses me because he enjoys my online personality than with someone whose sole reason for picking me is because I have large breasts and do some alphabet soup combo he's into that week. But seriously, I haven't had anyone pick me because of physical attributes or alphabet soup alone, that I know of. Those things may have helped to cinch the deal, but they've chosen me for other reasons. And the reasons range from being recommended by a friend, to a post [or posts] I made, to how I present myself on my website.

I am always surprised and pleased when someone has read about or communicated with me and knows some of my passions before we even meet. I recently had a new friend bring me two very obscure books I had on my wishlist, and that fueled a fabulous conversation to start out that led to an incredibly passionate time together. I also recently saw for the first time a wonderful friend with whom I had been communicating for months, who arranged his trip south in my direction especially to spend time with me. The communication we shared before meeting made our engagement sizzle from the start- both mentally and physically.

My physical attributes and "codified" sexual prowess don't necessarily set me apart from the crowd, but my personality and my interests in combination with those things certainly do for the man who is interested in that. Which is exactly the sort of man I am most interested in meeting. :)

Or just the fact he picks you is all the same. What if it is some really random reason like the type of shoes you were wearing or the way you part your hair. If he is really into you the moment he lays eyes on you does that make the session more erotic? I suppose YMMV as some women are more business like and others do like to also enjoy the ride......BTW some great posts today kudos to the board.

Whats up with all these endless mangina threads...

Where the fuck are real men?  Watching football I guess. Back to  Packers vs Bears.... Go Packers..!!!!

I am about to go throw up...

of course they do..we all like our egos stroked..go bears..i am plus 6 on the spread..i bet my next sessions money on the game..i will either get a free fuck or get fucked..we shall see..

Posted By: enzo214
Or just the fact he picks you is all the same. What if it is some really random reason like the type of shoes you were wearing or the way you part your hair. If he is really into you the moment he lays eyes on you does that make the session more erotic? I suppose YMMV as some women are more business like and others do like to also enjoy the ride......BTW some great posts today kudos to the board.

Well Rosie  was my old friend.. AND IM STILL A SAINTS FAN..lol.. I dont believe for one minute he whould care..Gentlemen have their favorites..but ladies are smart enough to know better ..... xxoo annie

No, I don't "care" per se, but I do like to know why at times. I have heard some outlandish shit as far as reasons go, so it is usually entertaining.

by why some pick me. I have heard some very interesting reasons, and have enjoyed hearing all of them. I love my job! :) Thank you, wonderful men.

Posted By: enzo214
Or just the fact he picks you is all the same. What if it is some really random reason like the type of shoes you were wearing or the way you part your hair. If he is really into you the moment he lays eyes on you does that make the session more erotic? I suppose YMMV as some women are more business like and others do like to also enjoy the ride......BTW some great posts today kudos to the board.

to be honest..looks..sex appeal..personality..compatibility..all these in combination to try and make the right choice..for all of us it comes down to one thing..basic instinct..

lilli305 reads

absolutely i care, in fact i would never meet a man without having had a discussion with him about just what about me he found attractive or appealing, and taking the time to process his response.

when half the time I'm not sure myself?

VIPBianca264 reads

Men are visual creatures by nature, and one would assume that most of the decision making process was based on general physical attributes.  However, also a bit of a thrill to be with a client who likes your general personality, appreciates your unique look, and finds your company thrilling in the moment; the pleasure then flows both ways much more naturally, and it becomes a more fulfilling experience in many dimesions.
.  And yes, it's highly enticing when you know a man feels that instant need once he lays eyes on you...call me old fashioned, but it's easier to really enjoy being a woman with a man who is overwhelmed by his natural urges, and can express them appropriately.  :)-

and I agree. You said it very eloquently.

Especially your last point I can very much identify. Sometimes I see someone that just stands out a mile away amidst a sea of people and even I don't know why. What may be a perfect 10 to one guy may be a 7 to another. Though some girls I think fair to say seem to be most guys "type"

Posted By: VIPBianca
Men are visual creatures by nature, and one would assume that most of the decision making process was based on general physical attributes.  However, also a bit of a thrill to be with a client who likes your general personality, appreciates your unique look, and finds your company thrilling in the moment; the pleasure then flows both ways much more naturally, and it becomes a more fulfilling experience in many dimesions.
.  And yes, it's highly enticing when you know a man feels that instant need once he lays eyes on you...call me old fashioned, but it's easier to really enjoy being a woman with a man who is overwhelmed by his natural urges, and can express them appropriately.  :)-

i often ask my guys how he "came across" me.  after all, there are thousands of ladies out there.  i am always interested in knowing what got him to me.

Any input regarding my business is appreciated.  It may help me consider changes in my current business model or confirm I am onthe right track.

If he's visiting me for a reason such as:  he likes specific pictures, he likes specific parts of my reviews, he likes my donation schedule, etc...I WANT to know. Knowledge is power.

updating my answer with a more well-thought out post.

The reason a gent picks me is less important than the fact that he did pick me. I am grateful to have been chosen, and I have been blessed with kind and sweet gentlemen.

But obviously I am going to have a better rapport with someone who chooses me because he enjoys my online personality than with someone whose sole reason for picking me is because I have large breasts and do some alphabet soup combo he's into that week. But seriously, I haven't had anyone pick me because of physical attributes or alphabet soup alone, that I know of. Those things may have helped to cinch the deal, but they've chosen me for other reasons. And the reasons range from being recommended by a friend, to a post [or posts] I made, to how I present myself on my website.

I am always surprised and pleased when someone has read about or communicated with me and knows some of my passions before we even meet. I recently had a new friend bring me two very obscure books I had on my wishlist, and that fueled a fabulous conversation to start out that led to an incredibly passionate time together. I also recently saw for the first time a wonderful friend with whom I had been communicating for months, who arranged his trip south in my direction especially to spend time with me. The communication we shared before meeting made our engagement sizzle from the start- both mentally and physically.

My physical attributes and "codified" sexual prowess don't necessarily set me apart from the crowd, but my personality and my interests in combination with those things certainly do for the man who is interested in that. Which is exactly the sort of man I am most interested in meeting. :)

First of all I am very flattered. There are many girls to choose from and he chose me. And when he mentions why he chose me, whether it's my blog, my pics, my reviews or my website or maybe even my breasts, I can tell that he has taken the time to check me out.

When he chooses to come back again and again I am more flattered. When he says he has followed me for years and now he c
has to take the plunge I am thankful, grateful and flattered.
It excites me that he gets off on my pics. Heck many guys choose the Playboy centerfold, yet he chooses me.
I am thankful that he gives me his hard earned gifts and I also get his hard on. I truly love what I do and I am flattered to be The Chosen.
xoxo
Sexy

Posted By: enzo214
Or just the fact he picks you is all the same. What if it is some really random reason like the type of shoes you were wearing or the way you part your hair. If he is really into you the moment he lays eyes on you does that make the session more erotic? I suppose YMMV as some women are more business like and others do like to also enjoy the ride......BTW some great posts today kudos to the board.

I have been compelled to see some because they had a blog which I found fun and interesting and had shared interests which helps to humanize the person and make them more real. On the other hand I have seen blogs which for me were a turnoff such as for being overly self-involved, babbling or incoherent. But to each his own I suppose.

I want to make sure we are a good match. If I don't think we will be a good match, then I will have to pass on the client.

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