I have an UTR that charges me only $150 for multiple hours.  Facewise, she is a 6 with about an 8 body (if you like them tall and athletic with large C/small D cups).  She's fun and all that, but because I know she's always available every single weekend, and frequently on Friday and Saturday nights, I honestly don't spend much time chasing her.

And lately there have been a lot of great choices for me, so I don't necessarily have the desire to always see her weekly on Friday or Saturday night.

It's been almost annoying to have her constantly text me.  I tell her I have friends in town or that I have something already planned, and think that I've freed up my schedule, only to find out that her "plans" on a Friday just canceled, and now she's available.  This has happened too many times, and it's annoying because she expects me to have kept the night she was busy open for her now that she has freed up.

The truth is that I have a better option, and I would rather spend the night with my ATF for a little more money than with this one.  And I don't want to be harsh and tell her that.

Another time I told her, somewhat unbelievably, that I couldn't afford the $150 this week and that she could come over and hang but that I just couldn't swing the money.  She said she'd get back to me, never did, and that was fine.  As CPA says, sometimes it's all about the money, and in this case it was.

Fine.  But lately she's been all over me, and the truth is that I just have a better option for the time than her.

Re; Stirling!! I liked when he narrated "The Twilight Zone!"

Hi,

Oh wait...  That was Rod Serling.. Never mind!!

Re: You can't fix ignorant or stupid....

Please, lol. Yeah you have it all figured out. You are not far from the Appalachians yourself.
You have demonstrated yourself to be a man hating ho in your two years here. Maybe you should work on getting some reviews by the unsuspecting hobbyists who don't know who you are.

Re: . And I have yet to see ANY John post his "farewell tours" on these or the ad boards.

Hi CPA,

I did , over a year ago!! All I got was a joke about my beloved Cubbies & people putting ads in my thread!! I didn't get any offers!! I need to ask "retired" women how to improve on my next retirement tour!!

In the end, there must be both supply and demand.  Right now, with the current economic backdrop, it's a buyer's market.  Girls are offering explicit and UTR discounts, many of whom are ridiculously hot and not at all the kind you would think need to do that.  But those girls know that in the end, the money has to flow from client to provider.

Maybe it's just the boards, but I would say the ratio of posts I've seen of providers retiring vs. hobbyists retiring is at least 20:1.

I will go a bit farther than I usually do in terms of bluntness here, as well.  Many of the girls who post on the local boards advertising are the same local gals who don't seem to be getting very much business.  Now I don't have their calendars and am not privy to that information, but that really seems to be more the norm here in this economy than it has been in the past.

The announcing of retirement followed by "back by popular demand" is a marketing gimmick.  If you were back by popular demand, you probably wouldn't need to advertise it.

Guys also announce their "retirement" from the hobby and bid everyone a farewell. How is that different from a lady retiring? A retirement is a retirement no matter what.

The ladies always get these weird little comments about returning back to work after a retirement like it's a bad thing and she couldn't cut it with out this. Tell you what, when I earn an hour what a neuro surgeon earns an hour, it's a little hard to drop that amount of cash that is so easily come by.

And I look at guys who retire and find a real GF and then break up and come back as, Oh well, guess he prefers this to that with no underlying scent of failure attached to his return.

The issue of appearance is a sensitive one for some providers.  We have all types out there.  Some have accepted what they do as work and a transaction, and they have fun or act for an hour or more for money.

Others struggle with it and have moral objections entirely.  I just figured that she was one of those.  So better to just be nice and say it's something else.  That's just how I would approach it, especially since maybe in the past they did have some good history.

You shouldn't be getting shit.  Yours is a valid approach, as well.

There are some providers who I would have no problem with brutally honest with.  A girl who runs an agency asked me to try out one of her new girls.  Afterward, she asked for brutal feedback.  I said she was fine, but her pussy was pretty funky.  She showered, but she probably needed to douche.  When I got her to come through DATY and FIV, the resulting wetness had a sort of "rotten egg" odor to it...probably the worst outcome for me, as a guy who likes to eat the pussy.

Then there are others...well, better to just not be that blunt.

You're not the only one telling the OP to "man up"

There's absolutely NO reason to lie with this gal.  She's NOT in his wheelhouse anymore...tell her so.

But too many people hate to have a confrontation.  But here...I don't see why that would be an issue.  This broads chasing Johnnie...not the other way around.

That's all you got?  Try this:  the OP should marry her, he pluked her didn't he?  What kind of "man" goes hour life this way?

Even you aren't any fun anymore CPA.  Has TER terrorized you into lobotomized responses?  Oh and f the white sox...

A woman I contacted on the phone was polite when I...

Hi,
.. gave her my vitals!! There was an awkward ten second silence!!  I thought the call was disconnected, then she said she would get back to me when she had better reception!! I'm thankful she let me know , not by words, but by her actions, that this appt; will not be made!! I moved on & will not pursue her, for there is a lot more fish in the sea!!  I hope the OP does the same & the woman moves on!!

But that is not our truth at all, our truth is our rate, a good provider could, SHOULD care less about how they look. Dim the lights and light candles, play a movie and sneak peeks at the hot guy/gals and imagine. Did he pass screening? Is the donation right? Is he respectful? Is all that should be considered. She can run a bath get in with him and bathe is stinky ass, the work is hard if you don't realize it is either work/well paid acting or you don't like what you do. That is the WHOLE nature of why we are paid so much. I don't see a connection in any manner. These guys search and research the lady/person they like and expect the pictures, reviews, additude and engagement to add up. We screen and get paid, all that should add up, must we be have a "TYPE"  too before we provide a great service? I don't get it, or maybe I'm just not getting it. I figured all these years the six figure sallary, freetime, high lifestyle and expensive shoes was reason and the end. Not the love of the customers pesonal being. Clients should be rejected based on failed screening, bad behavior or rip offs. PERIOD, if you don't click that is a reason on both parts. I wonder if I should change my business model?

Why can he be honest about one reason but not all reasons? Why is it okay for a provider to say/advertise "no black guys" and it be her prefference, her business, her body? Isn't it all supposed to be about the money? If we are worried about feeling then uuummmmmm! How is this different? Why do certain providers get to choose the type of client and speak it like a badge of honor but a client must bend over and take it? I find it ironic how woman always want the truth you could have told me the truth, he should not have lied but fore it be about me? I am sorry but 50 extra pounds doesnt just sneak up on you, you don't wake up fat one morning after going to bed skinny. That is not mean it is factual, if she is mad at facts, then she should be mad at self and change herself. If she is happy in her skin (i hope she is) then she can't be mad at people who are not and it is not anyones responsability to keep anyone else happy, unless they are getting paid by the hour to do so. See what a big responsability it is even in theory? Honesty is a virtue, not a curse. It seems that our PC world has blinded people to the fact that truth is not mean, it is the delivery that is mean. I should be around and pay allot to someone whom I have no interest in because they have changed to MY WORSE and won't leave me alone? I am wrong for pulling their coat tail about MY PERSONAL TIME, SPACE AND CASH because a grown ass, rude, begger is harrasing me? I don't get how truth about self is worng, rude, mean, woman hating or any other negative thing.