question for our cherished ladies..i recently had a late night session with one of my favorite touring providers..i considered 9 pm a little late..she said it was perfect and then said she had stopped doing sessions after midnight permanently..she told me almost every client that booked after midnight was either drunk or strung out on something..they were usually belligerent or could'nt even get hard..therefore ladies..[barring overnight sessions]..will you schedule a client after midnight? if not..what is the latest you will book a client?...
I have a number of clients that require unusual times of day (travel schedule, odd work hours, etc). As long as I already know the gent AND it is booked in advance, then I'm game!
See a gent at midnight I have many times.I will see a gent all the way up to 3am not too many requests for late late night.Where I am located 9pm is not late at all I get many requests for that time frame being that I am in 24hr town but in other cities I guess 9pm could be considered late. When I used to work for agencies and worked after midnight I will agree that the guys were drunk or high on something but as indy I have not experienced this with late night gents. I am available starting at 7am I do not get too many requests for that early but some gents like morning wood and I am happy to oblige.
Late is not a problem if I know you.If I have never met him no matter what his story may be - works late - flight arrives late then no not without hearing from his references that this is normal for him.I have only encountered one person many years ago who I never met , he arrived smelling like alcohol and was ready to party and go out,wanted to find someone to sell him pot, wanted to drink some more and was loud and annoying ... had alot of references too.That was one meet up I could not wait for to end.
If a gentleman is conservative and his schedule only allows him to meet late, then with written references from those who also see him late and can vouch that he is stable , not a drug user and can attest that his schedule is always after dark then it would be acceptable.
But they would only be reserved for established friends with an advance reservation. I agree, the after 9 crowd can be a whole different breed - sometimes last minute drunkards looking for a deal. Usually not my cup of tea; however, those that I have seen and would see again I'm game!
as long as the client has good referances i dont see why it would be a problem.I mean come on exspecially in big citys like NYC & LA everything is starting to be 24hrs!
Posted By: macdaddy1944
question for our cherished ladies..i recently had a late night session with one of my favorite touring providers..i considered 9 pm a little late..she said it was perfect and then said she had stopped doing sessions after midnight permanently..she told me almost every client that booked after midnight was either drunk or strung out on something..they were usually belligerent or could'nt even get hard..therefore ladies..[barring overnight sessions]..will you schedule a client after midnight? if not..what is the latest you will book a client?...
I no longer offer appointments after 11pm, because of just those problems, UNLESS I already know the gentlemen. I won't even answer my phone after 9:30 anymore, as it will be almost impossible to screen someone & get to them before 10pm. There is also a huge uptick of NCNS after 11pm.
Posted By: macdaddy1944
question for our cherished ladies..i recently had a late night session with one of my favorite touring providers..i considered 9 pm a little late..she said it was perfect and then said she had stopped doing sessions after midnight permanently..she told me almost every client that booked after midnight was either drunk or strung out on something..they were usually belligerent or could'nt even get hard..therefore ladies..[barring overnight sessions]..will you schedule a client after midnight? if not..what is the latest you will book a client?...
For all the reason that have been mentioned. I quit work at 5pm. And do not work weekends. I have a full life outside this work and want to spend time with friends etc. Also, I am very active and "after work" is taken up with those activities.
Why yes I do...they can take time out of the day, most own their own businesses and can do that. No job most likely means no disposable income which means no appointment.
As long as I am "done" by midnight, I am ok and i won't book anything less than 2 hours after 6 p.m. I also will never take an appt. before 9 a.m. If I wanted to put in office hours, I would work in a damn office lol. One of the biggest perks of this business is getting to sleep late..duh.
Posted By: saturnsky
For all the reason that have been mentioned. I quit work at 5pm. And do not work weekends. I have a full life outside this work and want to spend time with friends etc. Also, I am very active and "after work" is taken up with those activities.
.,.... for the most part meeting a date before 7am is too early, a date starting after midnight is late lol. But most ladies I see have their latest "start time" around 9pm/10pm. I guess i'm a little more of a night person as well.
If she has a number posted and depending on the site I'd have agree with her a lot of the time when guys are calling WELL after midnight have had one too many of who knows what. It's rare it's a good, normal non-drug or one too many drinks induced date and it's just a guy up late who is a night person like me and figured a good romp around my hotel room will put him to bed lol. But those are those last minute BP-ish dates.
I'll schedule more-or-less anytime within my usual "hours" but if it's something before or after i'd prefer it done WELL in advance.
I've also had bad experiences with night appointments, and prefer a 9pm or 10pm cut off time, preferably even earlier. I will make exceptions for repeat clients or clients who are very well screened and deemed okay by other providers when given proper notice to the request. I personally am typically in bed by 11 or 12pm and up around 7am or 8am, so it just flows well with my schedule to have early morning appointments and book until around 7 or 8 on my work days
Friday nights I do make exceptions and book until about 10pm or 11pm when I have a girlfriend closeby so we can keep tabs on one another. I'm all for strength in numbers, and especially after having been robbed my second to last appointment after a very hard long day at work I am very very careful about doing appointments late. I had a call a few months back before I started screening that I just knew he was goin to rob me. He called in the morning seeing if I was working, then called back around 3pm saying he was going to come from Baltimore for an appointment after rush hour. Was 8pm or 9pm ok? Just the fact that he'd be driving an hour and a half away to small city I'm in for an appointment is kinda reg flag. Pair that with his 9am phone call inquirig if my butt was working and taking appointments and his weird request for a time twelve hours after said time...not going to risk it!!
I hate letting people down though if I get a strange feeling. Since I've been screening things have made things feel a ton better.
At midnight I put my phone on silent. If one of my regular clients calls up earlier in the evening and requests a later appointment, that's generally fine. But I will not see new clients after midnight, and I definitely don't take any calls after midnight (generally it's impossible to screen them at that time of night anyway). I agree that the percentage of "problem" clients definitely goes way up after midnight. You should hear some of the voicemails I've received at 3 or 4am, obviously intoxicated, and sometimes belligerent, often other intoxicated individuals can clearly be heard in the background as well. Good way to end up on my personal DNS list before you've actually even talked to me.
Like when some do overnights, they charge you more if they can only sleep so many hours (London does). And heck some charge to travel to the metro areas. Even cabs charge for late night fees in some parts of the world.
Maybe... Providers who can take the risk might charge a little extra for "late night?"
I simply can't fathom a guy expecting me to screen him last minute, which is usually what late night calls and emails amount to. It's always some guy saying, "I hope this is not too late, but I was wondering if you would come to the ___________ hotel." I have references." Oh, so you have refs but are they awake and actually going to respond in the next 20 minutes, because I am not spending 2 hours getting ready until AFTER that point. I doubt it very seriously.
I have done night appts. but the guy booked well in advance. It was not some last minute bs. I know a few ladies who have both a day and night rate. They advertise a lunch special from 11-2 where you pay like $250, then that goes up to $350 before and after that time.
Posted By: prepkid
Like when some do overnights, they charge you more if they can only sleep so many hours (London does). And heck some charge to travel to the metro areas. Even cabs charge for late night fees in some parts of the world.
Maybe... Providers who can take the risk might charge a little extra for "late night?"
on the last minute late night notices. I DO know that it takes at least an hour or two for the gals to get prepared.
Just wondering, usually how long does it take to screen and check references?
Posted By: London Rayne
I simply can't fathom a guy expecting me to screen him last minute, which is usually what late night calls and emails amount to. It's always some guy saying, "I hope this is not too late, but I was wondering if you would come to the ___________ hotel." I have references." Oh, so you have refs but are they awake and actually going to respond in the next 20 minutes, because I am not spending 2 hours getting ready until AFTER that point? I doubt it very seriously.
I have done night appts. but the guy booked well in advance. It was not some last minute bs. I know a few ladies who have both a day and night rate. They advertise a lunch special from 11-2 where you pay like $250, then that goes up to $350 before and after that time.
Posted By: prepkid
Like when some do overnights, they charge you more if they can only sleep so many hours (London does). And heck some charge to travel to the metro areas. Even cabs charge for late night fees in some parts of the world.
Maybe... Providers who can take the risk might charge a little extra for "late night?"
I am not that way obviously, because I live on my phone. Odds are if you contact me from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. you will get a response in less than an hour provided my mouth is not full at the time...usually, only when I am on tour it takes a bit longer.
I've contacted some low volume independents who take 4 or 5 days to respond... If at all... But in general, most independents respond anywhere from immediately to within several hours. Agencies are generally much faster to respond, almost always immediately or within a few minutes (assuming they're open at the time). In terms of getting a quick response as to whether or not the potential client is ok, agencies are definitely far easier to deal with. But they generally won't know much beyond that. Independents are more likely to remember some personal details which may help you out. But if it's been a while, and they don't keep records, they may not even be able to verify him at all. You may think it was a memorable experience, but some providers don't even recall who they saw yesterday, let alone 6 months ago or longer.
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