do you think it's wise to put us even more at risk by continually suggesting we know NOTHING about you? You prefer giving your real info. vs. your handle, but that is far from what most of the guys here want to do. If I don't know something about a guy, I am not seeing him. He is at more risk providing personal info. than he is a damn handle that lets us see his pattern of hobbying and what he enjoys. Are we supposed to ask him what he is into? I think not. So if a guy is not willing to provide real name and employment and you are suggesting he also not give out his handle, exactly how is he supposed to get dates?