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Why bad boys get the girl .teeth_smile

in a generation or two this could change. Once women are more comfortable with their sexuality, and less sanctioned for giving into their natural urges, they will be more likely to be aware of the difference between a hormonal reaction and an intellectual reaction.

AnotherPerspective269 reads

When  women are more comfortable with their sexuality they
give in more to their natural urges .  
 
I've never met an uptight nympho .   :-}

Posted By: SoftlySarah
in a generation or two this could change. Once women are more comfortable with their sexuality, and less sanctioned for giving into their natural urges, they will be more likely to be aware of the difference between a hormonal reaction and an intellectual reaction.

Zsa_Zsa_TaTas347 reads

That we are the woman to change and reform them and make them happy forever!

NEVER AGAiN!

no_email235 reads

That we are the woman to change and reform them and make them happy forever!

You were lost in the fantasy.

so they usually move along on their own, leaving a trail of heartbreak and bad tattoos in their wake... The few times I've seen the bad boy/good girl combo result in marriage, either the girl wasn't really so "good" to begin with, or it was a starter marriage that collapsed after a year or two. YMMV.

Are the men of TER, good boys or bad boys?

.....I like "former" bad boys...... they like still have an edge in them somewhere but have more-or-less grown up.

complete misnomer..a good hobbyist will always adjust to his partner..she wants bad..you give her bad..she wants gentle..you give her gentle..the best thing about the hobby is that no two women are ever the same..each has her own desires..her own needs..our mission is make her as happy and satisfied fulfilling those in the short time we see her..

AnotherPerspective107 reads

Bad boys can temporarily adjust in lucrative circumstances .
Bad boys pick when , always confident  their embedded indifference
will  bail them out if things get out of hand . {marriage talk }

 Good girls enjoy  that feeling of power , when they believe
the bad boy is under her spell .

 Bad girls have more fun ,  like bad boys do .

 

 

Posted By: macdaddy1944
complete misnomer..a good hobbyist will always adjust to his partner..she wants bad..you give her bad..she wants gentle..you give her gentle..the best thing about the hobby is that no two women are ever the same..each has her own desires..her own needs..our mission is make her as happy and satisfied fulfilling those in the short time we see her..

HookerCops100 reads

And I qoute ..."our mission is make her as happy and satisfied fulfilling those in the short time we see her.. "

What the fuck??? ... you mean her mission? you mean a good provider will adjust to her partner, right? She's the one getting paid. Sure I love to satisfy my partner as much as anyone else, but enough with the mangina WK crap. God I miss the old TER where this post would just be blasted! Maybe you and lungman should start your own review site. You two can call it ... www.oldfuckswithnoballs.com






Dr Who revived93 reads

But to each their own.

I'm paying..I want the gal to be what I want her to be.  If not, I don't waste a dime on her.

And I doubt even the gals on this board buy your nonsense.

I think you've got it a bit backwards there.

A lot of guys, myself included, want to have an experiences where both parties have a great time.

It makes more sense to me to try to pick ladies who have the same interests. Do your research and try to pick girls who enjoy being treated the way that you want to treat them. It takes longer to get a date but you'll have a better time.

a guy can be good, bad, or indifferent, and I would still not be attracted to him based on that alone. I will admit I like a guy who is a challenge and not a p*ssy, which explains why some of my best sexual experiences in the hobby have been with guys I argue with on the boards lol. I like a MAN, not a whiney baby who gets his feelings hurt, so if that constitutes a "bad boy" ok.

I still like a man who is honest, operates with integrity, and is faithful, but one who also won't let me walk all over him. I like a man who lets me know he will walk in a heartbeat if I keep it up, one who can very well get better than me and won't hesitate if I am not holding up my end of the bargain. A guy who rides a Harley and has a tattoo, is nowhere near what I would consider a bad boy...it's attitude, not outward bs.

LonerGuy118 reads

It's about being confident, not about being "bad." The "nice guys" often aren't nice, either. They're wimpy, lack confidence, clingy, and feel entitled because they're "nice." Sounds annoying, right?

madiba51146 reads

From the linked article:

When asked about her love of bad boys, actress Scarlett Johansson once attempted to dissect the expression.

“I’m attracted to the quality of being adventurous and perhaps a bit mischievous and also questioning authority and being proactive”, she told Cosmopolitan.  If that makes up a quintessential bad boy, then whatever.  I’m not all attracted to meanness or bullying, but  I do think conviction is attractive.”

Adventure, conviction, the courage to question authority – who wouldn’t like that?  But I suppose the problem is that, in reality, those ingredients usually mingle to form your typical love-them-and-leave-them rebel who, bottom line, may not be as dependable as a nice guy.


The description could have been tailor-made for me, but I have always been completely dependable.  Far from being love-them-and-leave-them, I was a rock of stability for a complex woman through a 29-year marriage.





-- Modified on 5/18/2012 12:51:15 PM

-- Modified on 5/18/2012 12:53:56 PM

AnotherPerspective112 reads

The article was expressing the women's view of bad boys ,
 not a man's perception  of who he thinks he is .
 That could be an interesting topic , full of false analogies
and ill fitting suits  .

 Scarlett is confused about reality, living in her Hollywood bubble
 of safety nets .  Meanness or bullying are not part of the
 bad boys modus operandi .


 If you wish to join the bad boy club you must  shed your
smothering, dog like dependability .
  Think  daring , mystery  and indifference , mixed with kindness ,
add rebellion when complexities arise .



 

 

Posted By: madiba51
From the linked article:

When asked about her love of bad boys, actress Scarlett Johansson once attempted to dissect the expression.

“I’m attracted to the quality of being adventurous and perhaps a bit mischievous and also questioning authority and being proactive”, she told Cosmopolitan.  If that makes up a quintessential bad boy, then whatever.  I’m not all attracted to meanness or bullying, but  I do think conviction is attractive.”

Adventure, conviction, the courage to question authority – who wouldn’t like that?  But I suppose the problem is that, in reality, those ingredients usually mingle to form your typical love-them-and-leave-them rebel who, bottom line, may not be as dependable as a nice guy.


The description could have been tailor-made for me, but I have always been completely dependable.  Far from being love-them-and-leave-them, I was a rock of stability for a complex woman through a 29-year marriage.

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