I think way too many women in this biz have an overinflated vision of theirselves. I know I am not that pretty and I am content with the fact that my personality and sexiness make me attractive enough to do ok in this biz. And I am all for having self confidence but being arrogant isnt confidence. Most times its actually a defense mechanism for people with a lot of self doubt. And many times those that think and openly put it out there, that they are so beautiful is used to make them feel better by making others feel worse. But then again there is that whole school of thought that if you think it, it will be. So all I know is I am neither a pessimist or an optimist. I am a realist. I will always know that I may be a 10 for someone but I will also be a 3 (and more than once , lol) to others.