never when driving. I know...I know...the hot young babes I see can text , read text ,drive and apply lipstick all at the same time. But I just don't have those skills. I don't mind the " come on up" text because I am usually at the location by then. But anything that might need to be communicated that hour before the appt [ the period of time I am in all likelyhood driving to the ladies incall] I really prefer the archaic mode of communication known as the telephone call.
When I am in my room waiting for the lady visiting my hotel I am more than fine with texting.
I certainly understand the OPs position. I suppose it is hard for many Providers to believe , but there are a few gents out there who are not text savvy.
BTW guys , you can help the lady out by making it clear in your pre sessions communications that they will have to call you and not to text.