Well its the day of your incall appointment. Don't forget to bring your photo ID (driver's license).  You will be asked to show it. You've printed your directions and have written down the telephone # of the provider you are meeting with.  You'll need this number because most providers will not give you the room # (if they are using a hotel) number or apartment # until you have reached your destination.  She does this for more than one reason.  The first being security.  The second in the event you arrive too early or too late.  

1.  If you arrive too early, she may not be ready for you.  I've had clients arrive 45 minutes to an hour early.  If they call me, dependent upon my schedule, I may be able to see them early.  Other times I may ask them to leave and come back.  It is never a good idea to hang around their incall  if you are more than 15 minutes early and she can't see you.

2.  If you arrive too late, she may no longer be able to meet with you.  This is the reason you should call a provider if you are going to be late.

You have trusted the provider with personal information about yourself during the prescreening.  The provider is now trusting you with the location of her incall.  Just as you expect that she will keep your information in the strictest of confidence, she is counting on you to do the same with her info.  The location of her incall is not to be shared with other hobbiest or providers for that matter.  This holds true in reviews as well.  Rather than give street information or the name of the apartment complex or hotel, it is best to be vague saying something like; Western Suburban apartment or hotel.  Saying anything more may allow her location to be pinpointed and put her in a risky situation.

Once you have the apartment or room #, proceed quietly to that area.  Knock on the door gently, wait for her to open it and enter immediately.  The provider is relying upon her clients to be discreet, and not drawing any attention to your visit, so any greeting can be exchanged once you are inside her incall.  In apartments, as well as in hotels, noise in the hallways can easily be heard by ones neighbors.

Remember, the donation should be placed in an envelope (unsealed) in plain view at the beginning of the appointment.  Do not attempt to hand money to the provider or you may be asked to leave.  

I generally recommend the my client remove his shirt and t-shirt immediately if he is married or has an SO.  The first time I ask him to do so, he may feel a little silly and ask why.  What I usually say is that I don't want to take a chance by getting any makeup or scents on him.  I often hear "well my shirts go to the dry cleaners anyways."  When I ask them, "who takes them to the cleaners," my clients generally realize its often their SO and that I am looking out for their best interests.

Do not assume that the provider will have liquid refreshment other than possibly water.  Many providers do not keep alcoholic beverages at their incall.  If you would like an alcoholic beverage, it is recommended that you check with her before the appointment about bringing whatever you care to drink.  Most providers appreciate if you bring a bottle of wine to share.  

If the provider does have wine available and offers you a glass, feel free to accept.  However, she is offering you 1 glass and not the bottle unless she offers a refill.  It would surprise many of you to know that I have had a client go into my refrigerator, take out the bottle, pour another glass, then another and finish the bottle and then find another in my refrigerator and open it also.  This is not fair to the provider's other clients as the wine is offered as an "ice breaker" and in moderation.  

If you have not showered immediately before the appointment, let the provider know and she will be happy to let you use her shower.  Most providers will also allow you to take a quick shower after the appointment to make sure that any lotion, perfume or makeup she is wearing does not stay on your body.  I keep bars of unscented soap at my incall.  However, it might be a good idea to bring your own just in case.  If you go home smelling like you just took a shower, in the words of Ricky Ricardo you may have some "splaining"to do.

Be informed before the appointment.  Some providers allow "multiple cups" and others allow just one.  For providers that limit your visit to one cup, it does not matter if you have booked a half hour appointment or a two hour appointment, once that cup is served, the appointment ends.  If the provider does allow multiple cups, please understand that multiple cups are not guaranteed.  If you have booked an hour and a half appointment and you have spent 30 minutes talking and getting acquainted, another twenty minutes kissing or daty, and 30 minutes for the first cup.. it is not likely you will get the second serving.  You will need recovery time and ten minutes is generally not enough time to recover and serve another helping.  If multiple cups is a priority for you, you should make this clear up front and act accordingly.  One way, get the first cup served, then spend your time talking while you recuperate for round two  .

While your provider may not be a clock watcher, please do not impose upon her good graces by attempting to stay way beyond your appointment end time.  She may be expecting another client and need time to get ready, or she may be heading home to fulfill some personal obligation.  If you find that your time is too short, it is recommended that you book a longer appointment with her next time.

Before you leave the appointment, it is recommended that you rinse your mouth out with mouthwash.  Most providers have that available for your use.  If you do not shower, take a wash cloth and soap and wash your face, neck, shoulders, chest and genital area.  You do not want any scents that the provider is wearing on your body and you don't want lipstick on your "johnson."

If you printed out the directions to the provider's location, it is recommended that you ask the provider to dispose of it for you.  Best not to get caught with it.

Tipping or gifting  is a personal choice.  It is never mandatory, but always appreciated.  I generally say that if the experience was particularly memorable, you may wish to give something extra.  Again, this is your choice entirely.  

When leaving the appointment, again keep in mind that it is important that the provider draw as little attention to herself as possible.  Say your goodbyes in the hotel room or apartment.  Refrain from continuing your goodbye in the hallway as she has neighbors.  Imagine how difficult it is to remain inconspicuous neighbors can overhear gentleman saying things such as " I am so glad you were able to see me,"  "I've had alot of fun and would love to see you again," "Wow that was so hot."  If you have ever lived in an apartment, I am sure you know how easy it is to hear conversation in the hallway and you know about nosey neighbors.  The same holds true for hotels.