If a lady has one, that is likely her preferred way of introduction. I have found that completing it, along with a follow-up e-mail, works best at getting a response either by phone or e-mail. If the lady says on her website that prefers you to call, or if her add indicates that this is her preference, best to call. As for dinner date vs. shorter meeting, better go with the shorter meeting first, then work up to dinner dates and overnights. SHE may prefer the longer dates, but you should not until after you have met a few times, and are sure you two click.
Best of luck...
Hello everyone
i'm glad to be a part of TER!!! looking forward to having fun, meeting some new people and sharing lots of stories.
I've never partied with an escort before and wanted to know how it usually works. When an indie provider has their own web page and leaves their phone number and also a form to get in touch, which usually works better? How good are they usually at returning phone calls? And what's the most effective thing to say in a form or email?
The reason I ask these questions is there is a certain lady in Boston I want to hook up with but lots of the reviews say she is difficult to get in touch with... so I really want to make it work but don't want to seem too pushy. And I would just like to know how this works in general. If anyone can share some advice I would really appreciate it. I'm actually more interested in an evening dinner date than an hour or two. Is that more likely to get a response?
Thanks everyone.
If the lady has a website with a contact form I would recommend filling that out completely and submitting that first. Since you have never done this before, you have no provider references, so don't be shy about any personal info. she may need to get you verified. Good luck with your first lady!!
Providers are always more interested when the client selects a specific date and time for the meeting. It makes it much more real for them.
You can also state that you have some flexibility in the date and time (if that is true), and suggest alternate dates, but the fact that you are willing to commit to a specific time carries a lot of weight.
The fact that this is your first time will be a problem however as most escorts want references.
Be totally upfront about this and give her lots of personal info on yourself such as where you work and live, etc. The more info you give the more comfortable she may feel about giving you a shot.
Also, read her website forward and backwards and don't ask her any questions that are answered on her site. If you do, that tells her that you did not study her site carefully and that is a turn off if ever there was one.
Finally, go to the top of the page and click on the Newbies' Manual and read that cover to cover. It is well worth the investment in your time.
Good luck. Let us know how you made out.
Whether you dicide to use her contact form, or send her an email, be sure to let her know that you are a rookie, and that is why you don't have any references. She will most likely have other ways of verifying you. If you are comfortable with personal information, include that in your initial email. That will make her more comfortable with you. Be a complete gentleman, and ask if she is comfortable with a dinner date on a first meeting. Just be honest and respectful, and you'll do fine. Then come back and let us know how it all worked out.
Have a great date.
or any sex acts, be squeaky clean, etc. You are paying for the lady's time and nothing more. Assuming you have VIP, read her reviews and her web site so you know what her procedures are for the envelope. Have fun.
Thank you everyone for your advice, it is much appreciated and will be heeded. It will be a few weeks before I can fit it into my schedule, but I will post a review as soon as I can and let you all know how it went!
If a lady has one, that is likely her preferred way of introduction. I have found that completing it, along with a follow-up e-mail, works best at getting a response either by phone or e-mail. If the lady says on her website that prefers you to call, or if her add indicates that this is her preference, best to call. As for dinner date vs. shorter meeting, better go with the shorter meeting first, then work up to dinner dates and overnights. SHE may prefer the longer dates, but you should not until after you have met a few times, and are sure you two click.
Best of luck...