I'm curious, and would like to be exposed to the world of BDSM. Does anyone know of a provider in NY who offers a PSE experience that includes lite bondage, blindfolding, and maybe a whip? I am vanilla, so I would need a less hardcore type of thing. Being dominated by a hot lady in leather, then rewarded, teased, maybe hurt a little. But I am not so sure about humiliation or if extreme pain is for me.