Your not the only one that have these thoughts. There are plenty of men out there that pay providers that are similar in your condition. The reason why you brought it up is because you want others who have similar experience to express their input.

Like you said, it's really who you are as a person, and how you treat the ladies. Not every guy looks like Brad Pitt. Not every guy scores 9 or 10 on the looks department. Welcome to the club my friend, your just like everyone else. Providers are use to guys like us.

Its no big deal, they have a tolerance to it, and have accepted it as is. Otherwise, they wouldn't be providing. As long as you enjoy yourself, treat them like a lady, that's all that really matters.

Have you wondered why some ugly dudes out in the streets have good looking girlfriends? Half the time, it's not their money, but, it's who they are as a person. They make the girl feel good emotionally, and that is what's most important. In a personal relationship, its not how a person looks or how good they are in bed, it's who and what they are as a person that makes an impact. Hope that helps.

BTW, don't worry too much about it. Its their job. Just treat them like ladies and you'll be rewarded.