I have many genglemen lovers who spend upwards of $15,000+ to see me, and its more about companionship than sex. I'm more of a therapist, actually more of a confidente, best friend, listener and advisor. We do more sweet stuff when we are together, champagne in the moonlight, cuddling by the fire, horseback riding through the countryside etc. Since I am very easy going, carefree and non judgemental, fun and silly at times, adventurous yet thoughtful, they feel relaxed and comfortable being in my company and talking with me for hours because they feel I care. And I do care for them, they are more than a casual aquaintance for me, but a friend and lover.
I suppose when you have lots and lots of money, more than you can ever spend, and are able to purchase anything you want at any price, you appreciate and want the small things that are truly priceless.
As for the article. Yes, she is quite right in my opinion.
Passionately,
Frederica
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Yes; this is why I love everything that my work entails! Not only do I get to meet such a myriad of different and interesting people, but I have learned to take care of myself and am extremely proud of my accomplishments. Escorting is much less about sex than what people think: it is about connection, and ultimately you are both their friend, lover and therapist, combined with a sense of anonymity which makes people on both ends to feel extremely comfortable and able to talk about almost anything.
but my hobby career has been nothing but therapeutic to me.
i always felt that i was a disaster in sex. the first decades of my adult life i hardly ever was able to achieve and maintain erections, and even when i could, i was hardly able to achieve relationships. the last part of my marriage was sexless, strictly at my choosing, or more accurately, my lack of trying, since it was inevitable that i would fail at it and i would become depressed for days.
it was only through the guiding and non-judgemental hands of providers that i was able to gain confidence in my own sexuality, and in my specific desires and wants (not to mention what i didn't like).
i see providers as the sex surrogates that would deign to help me (real, certified sex therapists thought i didn't have any problem, and wouldn't take my case).
i would not have a sexuality if it were not for providers. god bless the women that have become my friends.
I find that the more confidence one has, the more available they are to the hobbyists they serve. Self-care is so important in this realm, which is why I engage with Buddhism/meditation, yoga & pilates, health-supportive foods, herbs, etc.
I find those things helpful for me to be at my best, in order to be truly available in mind, body, and spirit to those with whom I am in companionship. My mindfulness can be very healing. Humans are social creatures, after all 
