Re:Guys, hypothetical situation, what would you do?

Mis Representation is simply dishonesty, but for the provider she figures a guys is so hard up he'll put up with anything to get off thus they bait with the dream and switch to the lie.

I would have entered the room, quickly sized up the situation and then explained that I was expecting her to be more like her photos and while she was a lovely women, she was not the lady in the pictures and that you preferred to make other plans and left immediatly.

I would not have left any payment as that is the only encourgagement to change her bait and switch tactics. She lied to you and you paid!

In a similar situation, I'd booked with a provider who swore she was a non smoker, which is an absolute must for me. She shows at the door and I could smell her instantly. She was clean but reeked from a life time of smoking, her breath was like a dragons flame.

I allowed her in to my room, but refused to allow her to take off her coat and expressed my disappointment in her mis understadning my specifics in that I did not want to be with women who smoked and if she did to tell me and I'd not waste her time, when booking.

She was unfazed and in her response stated she'd just be giving me BJ's as she was on the monthly's anyway (never stated at booking). I opened the door and asked her to leave as it just wasn't going to work out. She stepped out of the room while asking for travel & parking money and I refused and told her the mistake in this case was hers to bear.

I do not see the need to suffer financially for a providers misrepresentations, period.

I know others will have much to add, but in this hobby it has to be as advertised or its a rip off.

this hasn't happened to me (yet), but from previous posts I've read, seems the following is acceptable:  make a quick decision --- stay or go?   If you decide you don’t want to go thru with it, offer a cancellation fee ($50 or so... certainly NOT the whole donation) & leave immediately.  

You should not feel bad …if you were misled or she is misrepresenting, then you are being a gentleman by backing out gracefully & offering a cancellation fee.  If you simply walked out without this token fee, technically it would be within your rights, though not the “nice” thing to do.

As far as an excuse, I see no need to elaborate or lie .. simply say you were expecting something different.

Sure the lady may be offended, but then these situations would be avoided if she posted accurate info & recent photos … many ladies blur their faces, & while they have privacy reasons, the guys have to make a decision based on limited info.  

So my reasoning is, if the privacy is important to the lady & “full disclosure” is not in the cards, then ladies, be prepared for situations like these.

just happend to me w/a provider who tours by the name of blak,  made the best of a bad situation, but did tell her she needed to update web site and mentioned the same in my review.    She says she understood but hey who knows.

It would probably be a fairly subjective response for me, taking in how "in the mood" I was, how likely I was to be able to see a different provider that day, etc.  But I would certainly bring it up either way.

If she was completely unattractive to me, I would turn and walk away.

Easy to say, more difficult to do.  Let the big head do the thinking.  Offer a small travel fee and head for the door.  I don't like misrepresentation.

I went through with the session, because it was a great tantric experience, but this girl was not even close to her pics, at least 50 lbs off.  She still advertises with the same pics, but her reviews have caught up with her.