The OP did the same thing one should do when writing and/or posting a bad review....keep to the facts, don't embellish and keep it short and to the point.
Also, if he didn't mention the lady's name, he would have simply flooded his inbox with requests for further information.
What he did AND the way he did it is, in my book, PERFECT.
I did the same thing a few months ago when I got stood up by a young lady...turned out I wasn't the only one she had done that to and if some had posted about it, they could have saved me some time and aggravation.
This board is supposed to be about SHARING INFORMATION, both good and bad....nothing wrong with that at all in my opinion.