I am not going to call out an entire city because of a few idiots who have no clue, nor will I refuse to visit another city in that same state because of that either. My only advice is DO NOT BOOK if you have a touch schedule. I would prefer not get pre-bookings than to have to worry about making up cancellations once I am there, so if you know your job is a struggle to leave you free time, don't book with someone who tours.
Touring women can't just pay by the night for a hotel if they are flying...we pay for the entire stay upfront and there is not exactly a refund if we don't go. I can say I have 4 gents who I feel are more than worth the trip alone, and I still plan on visiting Columbus. I will say, that I have 3 on my DNS list in Cleveland for various reasons. No guy is obligated to book with me or anyone else "just because" we happen to come to your town...please don't let anyone make you feel that way. My point is simply, don't book then cancel with some bs excuse when we know you're full of shit from the get go. It's a good way to have your azz blacklisted.
when the ladies do decide to visit, we need to see them.
I know there are cancellations going on.
Anyhow, i'm not pointing fingers cause i'm in the same boat right now....but mine is financial.
So, anyhow, you know now their are plenty of ladies out there, i'm offically retiring as their(self-appointed) pimp....lol.
ps, got a lady coming in on 3/28...hope more of u can go see her.( she's had 3 cancellations)
I feel bad, cause i encouraged her to come here.
Anyhow, adios.
London Rayne, the one right here in this post.
as we have all seen, so it is no use. When you see the same bs complaints about why more girls don't visit an area or come back, it's obvious why. It's not like anyone is asking guys to see them, but simply DON'T FREAKING BOOK if you know you are full of shit! How hard is that?
It's no secret guys book to get a damn deal then cancel to see a cheaper provider...that's their right, but don't feel the need to lie to a hooker because we don't much care. We will simply never book with you again if you can't have a bit more common courtesy. If you damn well know you can get called out of town for your job, try mentioning that or don't book with a lady who only has 2 days to work! That's simply common sense!
I don't exactly book a back up plan to make up for every jack wad that cancels on me, but maybe I should start doing such like many other ladies. Then I could just get a headache, a stomach flu, or get "called out of town on business" when a more lucrative gent contacts me?
What I will say to you lungman, is stop trying so hard for people who don't even deserve it...some of them anyway. They bitch and moan all day long about no quality girls, but there is a reason for that. Boston and Chicago certainly don't have that problem, nor do hick towns like freaking Shreveport La. lol. Why? Girls follow through when they plan a visit because the guys actually keep their appts. What a novel idea!
Love ya sweetie, and thanks for trying to get new talent in your area. There are actually plenty of reliable guys around whom I plan to have great fun with, and all from TER. So, you did a good job ha ha.
....I've had a guy call and say "I found someone for 100 less or w/e" and my reply was "lol....alright...RESPECT....have fun".
But yeah great reply London.
Lungman I still dig the "campaigning" still (even tho you've decided to give it up though I don't think you should) ....you're trying to help your hobby bros out 
. xo
Thanks ladies, The guys know what's out there, we all have computers.It is really their decision who they see. I have just been killing time in between work assignments.
As far as the reasons for cancelling?
London may be right, they got a lower rate somewhere else? Now, that's wrong!!
But if they indeed had other obligations come up, then that's understandable. Only the one's who cancelled, really know for sure.
But i will say one thing, you may be getting a better rate, but your NOT getting a better women.
IMHO.
I feel very luck to be able to see you here, just in case my planned trip to New Orleans doesn't worjk out!
Only a few more days....
RocketMan
It is amazing how a few guys can make up for the dumb azzes we have to tolerate on a daily basis, but I am sure you too have your share of provider bs to deal with lol.
London,
You may be correct that such posts are pointless--though in this case I hope you are wrong.
What I do know is most guys who cancel for no good reason are so full of themselves they don't notice nor care who they are inconveniencing. They certainly do not give a second thought to the cost of the lady's tickets, rooms, etc.,
Sad.
They are also often among the first to complain when they get stood up.
It is wrong in both directions.
I hope your vist is still worth your time and effort.
O-T
Lungman, stop putting me on front street boy! I am going to have to whoop your azz now!
Oh shit, now what did i do??
Sure honey, I will ask the pilot if he can make a stop so I can visit you lmao. I would love to meet you girl, so next time I am in bama I will look you up. If you ever tour Nola, you can stay with me!
Hate to see a girl who gave it a shot in Ohio had a bad experiance, I should have posted my thoughts on what I saw posted on the boards about these efforts to get girls to come here more often and how they could backfire if for whatever reason things didn't work out - now it will be even more of a longshot of perfect 10 types coming here.
I am 400 miles from Cleveland in Cincy or I would more than likely have looked into setting something up with London. Your getting cancelled on for whatever reason is more than likely a BS story that abuses you time. But I know I have gotten the same thing in the past from a number of girls and it along with the bad selection here has lead me to pretty much staying on the sidelines. Can't tell you how many BS stories I have gotten as well as getting no response. I have been shocked at how difficult it can be to part with my $$$ during my time in this hobby.
Many inconsiderate people out there on both sides of the equation. I am proud of my record of never cancelling and only being late one time, and that was when I saw a girl in CHicago and didn't know my way around. I don't make an appointment unless I know I am able to make it, this has actually caused me to pass up on seeing providers in the past because I wasn't sure I would be free from work. On some of these occasions I could have made it but didn't know until it was too late to set something up.
Perhaps some hobbyists dont error on the side of caution and make appointments and then have no qualms about cancelling when something comes up. I have always feared I would end up on some "do not see" list if I ever cancelled and that along with common courtesy and respect makes me mindful of a providers time. But again, many providers have little respect for hobbyists time and cancel at a drop of a hat after plans have been made and been somethign the guy had looked forward to.
I think the problem here in Cincinnati has to do with two things.
1- the airport fares here are very expensive due to Delta running the whole place
2-I must say I do think there are a glut of gents here who are plain cheap. Reading some other local boards leads me to the conclusion that many here value quantity over quality and they have very lax standards as far as appearence, I think with many a warm body will suffice.
Not everyone is like this, I can say for sure I am one that is not like that but I am only one guy. I know there are some who would say that half of your rate (where are you at 400 an hour?) would be too much for them to pay. I blame them at least in part for the lack of selection.
but I have been to Cincy and you're right. Rate complaints. Know what I did? I raised them and simply catered to an entirely different market ha ha. I offer pre-booking specials, but that's it. Won't ever lower my rates to suit those who think they are too high when there are girls passing through at 3 times that.
That raises another issue too though...I don't need 8-10 appts. to make a trip because my rates are at a reasonable level for me. If I were at 200, no way in hell I would offer msog or even fs for that amount. I would be torn up, and that's not exactly attractive lol. That is not really the issue here though...guys know a rate BEFORE they contact someone.
If it's too high, don't contact her. This is about complete bs in general and I don't need this to be a "Poor Little London" thread, because as I said, more than happy meeting the guys I am flying out to see. Most have all booked multi-hours and one is even seeing me twice.
So any advice on how to do things better?
the Columbus guys want more talent to visit our city.
But I don't want the same kinda crap to happen.
I am not going to call out an entire city because of a few idiots who have no clue, nor will I refuse to visit another city in that same state because of that either. My only advice is DO NOT BOOK if you have a touch schedule. I would prefer not get pre-bookings than to have to worry about making up cancellations once I am there, so if you know your job is a struggle to leave you free time, don't book with someone who tours.
Touring women can't just pay by the night for a hotel if they are flying...we pay for the entire stay upfront and there is not exactly a refund if we don't go. I can say I have 4 gents who I feel are more than worth the trip alone, and I still plan on visiting Columbus. I will say, that I have 3 on my DNS list in Cleveland for various reasons. No guy is obligated to book with me or anyone else "just because" we happen to come to your town...please don't let anyone make you feel that way. My point is simply, don't book then cancel with some bs excuse when we know you're full of shit from the get go. It's a good way to have your azz blacklisted.
I will let the pro (London) answer this one.
I will say one thing, just like the Cleveland area, Columbus has alot of fine ladies.
Not sure it's even necessary to invite, out of town ladies.
We will never have the options, Vegas has, but, we have some hot ones! IMHO
Guess it all depends on how often you p4p, i guess eventually, if u p4p alot, you would run out of fresh meat??
I personally don't mind traveling to different parts of Ohio, that opens it up a bit. ( except for the friggen gas prices now )
a freaking day or at least tell the provider you have limited access to the net. This is the ONLY town I have ever encountered where the guys are the ones taking forever to respond AFTER they have already initiated that contact lol. Now, I know I am far from the norm being I respond in less than a half hour from my phone, but damn...let a girl know you can only get on the net once a day and that's fine.
If you contact a VISITING provider for an appt. and take 12 hours to get back to her without giving a head's up this is an issue, they are not going to wait around when they have to make money...like the 1500 they spent on flights and hotels just to get there! That spot you wanted will be filled by someone who actually follows through with communication.
This is not rocket science yet there are some (several actually) who can't even use basic common sense in dealing with this business, and they wonder why they are the ones who providers don't show up for. I think providers only ask what you expect of us...consideration and common courtesy. Really does go a long way.
That London is referring to in her post. While in my opinion I had a legitimate reason (being away with family on a personal trip) I completely understand where London and other touring providers stand on this. I am TER whitelisted and I've never canceled an appointment or scheduled one and then skipped. I have had this done to me several times by providers (recently by a top rated Cleveland provider who blew me off after we had a confirmed appt and I'd blocked off time specifically to see her)
Nonetheless I had planned to see London and thought we had a confirmed date and time for our appt. I did not cancel. However, apparently I didn't send another e-mail confirming again after we initially set the appt up. At the end i guess its my fault and I accept responsiblity.
Sorry guys- hopefully the other gents will man up also like this "idiot" has done. You live and learn and do better the next time.
Man, don't out yourself like that ha ha. Now, that I know you're sincere no harm no foul...it was just a bit crazy how many guys did this exact same thing all in 2 days. I literally thought it was in the water or you guys were messing with me. Your rep speaks for itself.
Nonetheless I had planned to see London and thought we had a confirmed date and time for our appt. I did not cancel. However, apparently I didn't send another e-mail confirming again after we initially set the appt up. At the end i guess its my fault and I accept responsiblity.
Sorry guys- hopefully the other gents will man up also like this "idiot" has done. You live and learn and do better the next time.
Damn, that Lungman and London, has a ring to it!!!....LMAO
filled the trip....booked solid now. Guess I won't be seeing you babe ha ha. Catch ya in New Orleans or Memphis.
YOU GO GIRL!!!
Ah that's cool, your not my type. I hate women with big boobs, beautiful blonde hair and a tight vagina.
I found me a better one !!!
Please don't be jealous!!
Hey, How did you get a pic of my wife?
No way!!
If so, i see why you p4p.....yikes!!