When you say younger how much younger? I am a very sexy, intelligent, dancer (when I need to be) and I have a couple of friends that I enjoy spending time with and enjoy their conversation but they also know that Im a single mom and help me out when they can. They don't buy me clothes they ask if they could take me to the grocery store for food and things for the house. Im very grateful for such gifts. I never expect them to give me anything but I do know if I ever really need help they would help me. So I guess my point is that yes there are "providers" that you can develope a relationship with. Help the girls that you do see with things that they really need! When my friend 9that I met at a dance club0 knows that my money is tight he writes a check made out to my apartment. The only thing that I provide him with is my true friendship and my witty charm. He since has had to move and we keep in contact through email! Because of good hearted guys like him I am now in my Senior year of college! Better late than never. If your a good person which you seem I will be your friend and the extra benefits will be a bonus!
I know I am going to hear shit for this but here goes have a gf for over 3 years employee turned more than friend 1 and 1/2 years and I cant stop staring and trying to hook, up sometimes in my mind with every girl I know that's younger than me.I recently met a girl[stripper]went out, took her away for a few days and she seemed to like me.I liked her too but she knew where I was at and had no problem with it.She liked clothes and there was an understanding I would buy her nice things but it was suttle.When we got back all her "money troubles" started and I helped out at first but told her if were friends she could come over watch a movie, go swimming whatever always said yes that made an excuse why she could not.I'm not stupid I know I was played.Here is my 2 question's am close to 50 is this normal to be thinking and doing this stuff? Do all providers think or act the way of my stripper girl?Are there providers out there who just want to be friends with extra benefits or should I keep looking for regular girls,or should I just chill out and be happy with what I have even though I am not satified.Advise from a provider would not hurt
Sounds like to me that you're confused by a stripper acting exactly like a stripper. If you think about it she didn't do anything more that exactly what she would've done in a club setting. She let you enjoy the pleasure of her company just as long as you were either giving her money or buying her things. When you were interested in something beyond just her company she found excuses to not be there or to be doing something else. None of this sounds very new for anybody that has spent any long periods of time in/around the strip club game.
In answer to your 2 questions:
#1 YES it is normal for you to be thinking this way and looking at women. Just because you're 50 or over doesn't mean you're dead below the waist or in your imagination.
#2 NO. Not all providers act the way your stripper does. Providers for the most part are in the business of providing satisfaction and pleasure. It's understood. Just the same as most people understand that strippers are in the business of teasing the hell out of you and getting you worked up to seperate you from as much of your money as possible. Strippers are all about teasing you and never delivering regardless of how much you spend. It's the nature of their business brother. Don't be shocked by that. Just stick with well-reviewed providers in your area if you're looking to spend money for what you actually want to receive. Stay away from strippers and spend your money where you can get more "bang for your buck!".
When you say younger how much younger? I am a very sexy, intelligent, dancer (when I need to be) and I have a couple of friends that I enjoy spending time with and enjoy their conversation but they also know that Im a single mom and help me out when they can. They don't buy me clothes they ask if they could take me to the grocery store for food and things for the house. Im very grateful for such gifts. I never expect them to give me anything but I do know if I ever really need help they would help me. So I guess my point is that yes there are "providers" that you can develope a relationship with. Help the girls that you do see with things that they really need! When my friend 9that I met at a dance club0 knows that my money is tight he writes a check made out to my apartment. The only thing that I provide him with is my true friendship and my witty charm. He since has had to move and we keep in contact through email! Because of good hearted guys like him I am now in my Senior year of college! Better late than never. If your a good person which you seem I will be your friend and the extra benefits will be a bonus!
Oh my g-d sorry if you thought that I meant below 21 no way!! Your a senior in college so you are 21 to 23. right ?That's almost [i said almost] but not quite too young.All good here. Yes I am a nice person with money,sometimes too nice and that is why I know have trust issues.You seem like a good girl, where do you live?