If she appears ANYWHERE without having contacted you first, I say blast away.
If I ever have an emergency where communication is impossible, hospital, jail, etc, the very FIRST people I would call upon being able to communicate would be anyone I stood up, and that goes double for any one I stood up for a business appointment.
Giving a person a few days to surface if they have dropped completely off the radar, but if they have answered a single text, phone call, email or smoke signal from ANYONE else, even their immediate family, I'd let them have it with both barrels over their lack of professionalism.
and no, I would not feel guilty for even an instant if she resurfaced with all the excuses in the world if I found out that she was able to reach out to me, but didn't
with a well know provider how should he past the word around?
and NO it was not me
Let people know, if you dont want to name names like I did simply describe her and if people want a name just tell them to dm you.
If it was not you then you should not pass the word along. Am I correct?
sometimes shit just happens and you move on to plan B.
but
if you are sufficiently pissed of by a providers lack of professionalism, by all means post here.
this is not a hobby that adheres to strict codes of conduct especially when it comes to time,
unfortunately.
There's ALWAYS a way to let somebody know if you can't make an appointment, but there's a serious double standard. Ladies will raise holy hell if a guy ever stands them up but beg for understanding if they do it to a client. But, if you do this long enough it's going to happen to you. It's happened to me on numerous occasions and several times with the same gal. Shame on me for forgiving her time and time again.
I once drove 4 hours to see a lady only to be NCNS. It was several days before I got a response to my emails asking what happened. She said she was sorry, that her mother had a heart attack and she never set foot out of the hospital from 6am until after 10pm. Opps. While I was setting in a parking lot trying to call her that morning a pickup pulled up at the stop light about ten feet in front of me pulling a ski boat. Well do you want to guess who was in the front seat in a bathing suit? So even if you get a legitimate sounding excuse sometimes you just have to decide if your gonna take a leap of faith and believe it. And yes I'm sure the ladies have heard every bullshit line in the book about missed meetings.
Sorry, I don't speak jive.
If it wasn't you, and you don't know what the circumstances were that lead to the lady suddenly deciding that she was no longer comfortable seeing a gentleman who provided 2 different names and 2 different phone numbers in extremely broken english as well as numerous emails contradicting himself....I'd say don't go posting it on a public board where somebody who has seen it might read it...and definitely don't go starting rumors for all the drama seekers who will be PM'ing you asking who she was....But then again what do I know....
that's a lot to extrapolate from the OP. lol
I agreed with that statement man.