An account of your experiences and any informed opinions that you have from those experiences would be greatly appreciated.   Speculation - not so much.

For the purposes of the thread, please assume that the orgy in question is an invited guest list of a dozen couples or so rather than a swing club.  Since this is TER - assume P4P in some way.

Manners at an orgy are really not covered in Emily Post.  While a discussion of manners might seem absurd in the context - manners/etiquette do provide a structured method for people to interact.

There are manners in P4P that we understand.  For example, it is reasonable to have a friendly greeting at the door which might or might not include a kiss with a brief introduction.  As tempting as it might be, it is not reasonable to slam the door closed behind her and say to the lady - "On your knees bitch..."  Such behavior would be met with hostility at the very least - and possibly even a sharp instrument separating your testicles from your body.....  Now - at some point during the proceedings, she might well be on her knees and you might well use that command - but NOT when you first come in the door... unless of course you worked that out ahead of time....

But an orgy seems like it would be different. Some issues come up in an orgy that are not common in P4P.  

Examples -

How do you establish limits?  or What's on the menu?

How do you break the ice/get started?

Introductions?  

What are your obligations towards climax (if any) in a multiple group?

How do you indicate interest in joining a group of two or more?

How do you accept or reject such interest?

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