My understanding, Adonia is a one-woman operation, and yes, tire-kickers are an issue. I asked her to give me a little info regarding a handful of the ladies, and said take your time, I've got a few months. She didn't forget about me, and had me an answer within a couple of weeks. I think if you make it plain to her that you're serious about going thru, you'll get a timely reply. In my case, time was not of the essence and that was made clear up front.
Note to Adonia, I've got my eyes on a brunette UTR from the Midwest.