Ran into this one girl that I saw a couple days earlier at Tyson's Mall and another one at Starbucks in Dupont. I was with my friends, so I didn't say much. I met up with one of the providers again, and we joked about what happened. It was all cool

Yup twice as a matter of fact...

First time was at my Starbucks, I saw a provider I have been with multiple times, we acted as if we didn't know each other... and when I saw her again, she appreciated me keeping in check with our little secret...

The second time was at the airport baggage check... I landed in my destination city and as I was getting my bag I basically ran right into her... We first did the basic "Oh im sorry" then her jaw dropped and said "OMG" we shared a taxi ride  and then later that evening we had dinner...

Maybe I'm just an old stick in the mud.

I saw one at the hotel bar while I was eating dinner. (after our appointment) I didn't attempt conversation.I don't think I ever would. I don't see the point.

Another one was before our appointment when she checked in. Before I realized it was her, I said to myself "Damn, I'd jump her bones." And I did, a half hour later. That was hot!

Saw her at a hotel and recognize her from her pictures although we never actually "met" before.   There was this other provider.  She used be very popular in this area.  We would hang out on her off days a few times. Sad that she's not around anymore.

It is very rare.  National Geographic recommends that you approach slowly and have an out stretched hand, lettuce is the providers favorite treat.

HAHHA

Happened to me one time.  I just waited to see what type of eye contact we had, she smiled and said hi as if we were long lost friends.  I gave her a polite hug and peck on the cheek.  She was with friends so we just exchanged small talk and I excused myself.

No big deal.  She left with her friends shortly there after and waved to me.  Discretion is the better part of valor in this case.

How would you feel if the girl you see from time to time came up to you while you were with your family?

Just think how SHE would feel if you recognized her, and god forbid, approached her. She could be with her family, friends or on a date with a client. Thankfully, I have never been put in this kind of situation, but I can say right now that I would be absolutely mortified - especially, if they called me by my stage name. Yes, I have heard of this happening.

After you fantasy ends we go back to our real lives. There is a delicate balance we have to keep between our private and professional lives, so all our efforts would be for naught if a someone forgets himself and thinks that it is okay to approach a provider outside of the fantasy boundary. Sharing a look and a smile would be considered tame and appropriate at the right time, but anything further might be pushing it.

Some girls might be okay with being recognized and approached in public by past clients, but speaking for myself: NO. Playing it cool would be the best policy, and you can laugh about it later when you see her again.

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