A very popular local provider with hundreds of excellent reviews recently declared herself HIV positive and quit the biz.
A lot of providers I see are willing to give a BBBJ. They seem to like it. I also get a strong urge to dine at the Y. I'm worried about STDs though. Should I be? Anyone catch anything from local providers? Or is this just an overinflated scare tactic from those uninterested in pleasure?
The first thing that you need to do is get tested for STDs on a regular basis. I recommend once every 3 months or once a month depending on how many different providers you see.
If a providers stinks I won't give her daty. Some pussy just smells because they don't wash between rounds, etc.
If a see a provider has cold sores on or near hear lips I won't kiss her. Some will put on makeup/lipstick to cover it up. Make sure you do a trick and have them get in the shower and wipe off the stuff of the lips.
News about a provider/client having an STD travels faster than you realize. Some boards will ban a provider from the board and let people privately know via a PM if a provider/client has STD.
If you are lucky enough after posting reviews and having board presence and good reputation you can get invited to private forums where they have DNS (Do not see) lists of providers/clients who have STDs.
Also remember to wash between and before rounds. That includes cleaning your mouth out with water asap possible to get ride of germs. There are other things you can catch such as cold/flu.
BTW, I have never given.
I haven't told my regulars yet but whenever they start BBBJ, I would stop them for DFK after a few seconds. The risk for mouth cancer is just too high for them with multiple partners.
'"An individual who has six or more lifetime partners - on whom they've performed oral sex - has an eightfold increase in risk compared to someone who has never performed oral sex, Ohio State University's Dr. Maura Gillison, said at a recent scientific meeting, according to NPR.'
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20035363-10391704.html
TER should rethink the policy of banning any discussions of BBFS, yet encourage BBBJ with higher scores in reviews.
If any hobbyist or provider tells you they have never caught anything, they probably haven't hobbied often or they are not getting a 100% thorough STD screening. Some of the so-called "full panel" tests don't check for certain infections so we're often left wondering why we still have a sore when all STD tests came back negative.
I have never caught anything *major* despite all my hobbying but I did catch some minor strange infections every now and then. I seem to catch some minor UTI or some other infection a few times a year but luckily it's easily cured with antibiotics. I get screened often, some at free clinics, remainder from a doctor, because I don't fool myself into thinking that a "full panel test" is complete by any means. However, like I said, the infections I caught were not the standard major STDs but something very minor, such as UTI or NGU or the likes of it.
As long as you're using protection, IMHO HIV is very hard to catch. Also I got all my vaccinations so I'm supposedly partially immune to certain Herpes/hepatitis virus and what not. Play it safe, use a condom when doing full service, keep riskier acts at a minimum (rimming, bbfs, daty, etc), and you'll be fine.
You might want to edit your message.
Hugs and Kisses
I have never caught anything *major* despite all my hobbying but I did catch some minor strange infections every now and then. I seem to catch some minor UTI or some other infection a few times a year but luckily it's easily cured with antibiotics. I get screened often, some at free clinics, remainder from a doctor, because I don't fool myself into thinking that a "full panel test" is complete by any means. However, like I said, the infections I caught were not the standard major STDs but something very minor, such as UTI or NGU or the likes of it.
As long as you're using protection, IMHO HIV is very hard to catch. Also I got all my vaccinations so I'm supposedly partially immune to certain Herpes/hepatitis virus and what not. Play it safe, use a condom when doing full service, keep riskier acts at a minimum (rimming, bbfs, daty, etc), and you'll be fine.
I do engage in BBFS with haitian monkeys and horses though. lmao. j/k
Looking at his posts I think he meant BBFS. He is one of those accurate scientific types.
The last sentence should have stated it more clearly "never engage in bbfs within p4p" because, having read it again, the context seems like it's ok to engage in it every now and then with a provider / client.
However, vast majority do engage in BBFS with someone they are in a long term relationship with. I think that is quite normal.
A lady that I have with 4 times this year told me she would not be in this business without condoms.
Not sure if I understood what you are asking but I'd guess that this is something you'd know already... or maybe not? I was referring to Long Term Relationship as in, dating, going out, in a serious relationship with each other, married or unmarried.
As far as I can tell vast majority of such civvy relationships engage in BBFS regardless of whether or not the girl is a civvy girlfriend or a provider-turned-civ-girlfriend
I thought you were talking about a long term relationship with a provider.
"no comdom natural"
I hope BP edit the word blowjob from the post.
A very popular local provider with hundreds of excellent reviews recently declared herself HIV positive and quit the biz.
If she declared it you are not violating her privacy
Will kill the search engines and some websites tonight. I am sure the cell phone companies might have record usage.
Folks better book their appointments real fast for STD testing. It will be months before one will be able to get test because of posts like this.
I'm not one to dismiss this without some research. I did a search of all providers on TER with hundreds of review who did not offer greek, BBBJ, and other practices mentioned and I could not find 1 who is not active on BP or EROS. So I'm calling bullshit on this.
Unfortunately, this the reason some do not offer bb anything. Safety is my priority.
The posts here about the provider in question are accurate. I will not share her info on this board as per TER rules but feel free to backchannel me
When she may have been infected?
its a "doll"
When she may have been infected?
HIV from BBBJ is soooo unlikely, she should submit herself to be studied...what's more likely is that she had BBFS with a client to completion...or from her husband...
Whether she'll admit to that here, or anywhere else isn't likely, but that's the more believable scenario...
I mean sure it's theoretically possible, but the odds are sooo remote that each individual case could almost be studied on it's own...
The overwhelming route of transmission of HIV is through infected semen...controlling your exposure to that, will go a long way in keeping you HIV negative...
I agree.
I'm watching this from LA but I do not believe there is any actual documented case where someone got HIV from a BBBJ. I'm sure tons of doctors would love to study this if true.
I also think she either had BBFS from a client or her husband. I also doubt she will admit it.
It's also possible a condom ripped or fell off.
Interesting......I already knew that if someone had a cut and was bleeding you could get it. Didn't know it was possible regularly though. I bet you if someone did get it with BBBJ, it's cause there was a sore or cut or something.
Oh well....who knows.
To allow for HIV transmission. Not saying it is likely, but it can happen. So there is a standing recommendation that you not brush your teeth or use mouthwash (do not ask me why, but I have been told this repeatedly) for at least two hours before oral sex. Not a rule I follow, actually, but it is a normal recommendation.
I suppose that also means that kissing could transmit HIV if both parties had bleeding gums.
On the other hand, I get tested regularly.
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This is the reason why I choose not to any longer advertise or deal with a lot of boards,because the majority of clients that contact me are interested in GFE.... I simply do not understand why in the hell clients/providers put their life on the line and into someone else hands when it come's to bbbj, daty, or any other unsafe practices.
Do some of you not get it,that yes you can contract trich,syphilis,herpes, gonorrhea, and now hpv from uncovered oral. There is a new study out that throat cancer is also caused by many strains of hpv....
Because a providers vaginal area does not stink does not mean that it's 100% safe to daty,smh!
It is not worth it ladies and gents,wrap it up! I guess some will learn when you contract something in your mouth and your walking around with white puss oooozing out of your mouth and bumps all over you throat and tongue. Or when you men come home and your trying to figure out why your wife,the kids and dog are gone or when she's trying to kill your ass because you brought something home...
I guess to each it's own,it's your life but no amount of money is worth it.... and to you providers who do GFE I hope you have good insurance to pay for all the meds you will need to treat a STD that you will stuck with for the rest of your life....