I find big and phat guys to be a really great experience for me. I imagine that I'm sitting and bopping on a biiig fat cloud (me on top of course). I once was with such an obese guy that I hardly could find his penis. I had to dig it out from under his stomach fold. This guy was from a very fancy part of LA and he was very wealthy. And supernice. He just laid there and seemed grateful while I was bouncing up and down on his little dick. Meanwhile, I was having fun. It was my first real fatboy experience. And when it was over, I got a fat tip too. I don't mind fat or big, as long as I get to be on top. In fact, that's best. Just lie there and let me do all the work. Those skinny, defined muscular types are the worst. They can't just lie there and enjoy like big guys. They always have to fuck you to death, like they're on some kind of Marine mission or something. I prefer fatties and biggies. Much sweeter. And when they don't move, they don't sweat as much as the athletic types. Shit, give me a fat, big guy any day. And besides, they really are much jollier. No masculine bullshit to prove, they are just happy. Only once was I with a big guy who was mean, but he was an exception. Otherwise, you couldn't find a nicer client! Big is great!

It's not  the size of the person; it's their attitude.
No, you don't walk in and ask how she likes to treated; just go with the flow and listen to her responses to your moves.
Congratulations on your weight loss!

I think you're being a little too paranoid and overly sensitive. You are paying for their services afterall. Would expect to wash most of your own car if you paid someone to wash it? And I'm one of the most respectful guys I know especially when it comes to these awesome ladies, but any of them that wanted to 'lay back more' I'd not visit again. Like I said, and the business goes, it's a service, it's a business. It's part of their job to do the job and make us think we're their man for the time we're together.

I think you should just relax and enjoy yourself.

The ladies I have been with do seem a little disappointed at times, rarely but it's happened. After talking to them though I found out it's because THEY feel they're not pleasing me, and they feel bad thinking I'm not enjoying myself. So it's truly their desire to please me and show me a good time, and keep me coming back for more that is coming through.

I assure them whatever they're doing is fine, we always have found a position or whatever to bring us both pleasure ... and tell them that anytime I'm lying naked next to a beautiful woman is a good time!

Jimbo

Thank you for wondering not only about our well-being; not pounding us and for remembering it is about not only your pleasure, but our comfort.
Personally, it doesn't really bother me to be on top the whole time ( yeah for the elliptical!)  You deriving pleasure from our time together is the important thing.

*happily humming RuPaul's "Covergirl" to myself* lol, ok, let me compose myself.

i've posted before about a favorite client of mine who is on the larger side...6'6" and around 350-370 i would guess. yes the logistics of being with a person of that size can mean a bit of additional physical labor involved for me as the provider, however the pay-off is great: his immense pleasure. before me, he hadn't been able to penetrate a woman in many years, due to a combination of his weight and penis size. well with my smaller body type, flexibility (thanks to the parents for sticking me in gymnastics for a couple of years), and plain old determination to please, he is not only able to have intercourse with me but in multiple positions, even one we worked out with him on top for a change of pace. i don't mind the extra work because he's always so grateful. and the next day when i feel that ache in my calves and thighs i'm grateful to him for the fun workout! lol.

now it would be a different story if a larger client was just rude or inconsiderate and treated the provider like a workhorse. but generally if someone is courteous, respectful, compassionate, he will be rewarded in kind, no matter his size.